u/Far_Pay3738

So im 25 M and used bumble free Version for a few months ,i always got at minimum 10 likes from women daily and a match rate from ~20% .So i was pretty happy with that .

2 days ago i buyed Premium because next months i will make a asia Tour so i wanted to already use the travel Mode,and im ngl all of sudden i didnt got any likes more ,i started to change travel Mode to Bangkok and tokio and also tried my current location where i got the ~10 likes .I received 2 likes in the last 2 days and a MUCH worse Match rate .I didnt changed anything on my Profile its still the same .

Wtf happened,I feel scamed lmao and i want to have my old bumble back🙃

I've completely wasted the last eight years of my life. I turned 25 last week, and I'm such a damn failure that I can't take it anymore. That's why I've decided to try medication as a last resort. I've tried so many things, from natural remedies to extreme and dangerous methods, but nothing has helped; on the contrary, it's only made things worse.

I'm 25 years old, and my anxiety is so bad these days that I can't even leave the house during the day. I've missed so many opportunities in my life; it's unbelievable. Every night, I think about the girls I loved and who loved me back, but I've never been able to be in a relationship or anything like that because I'm just too anxious and feel like an alien and incredibly insecure, even though I'm not even bad-looking or anything.

The problem is, I'm not in a state to see a psychiatrist right now. Luckily, my GP is open-minded and would prescribe medication. He also suggested I do some research. So my question is: Are there any severe cases like mine where medication has successfully managed the anxiety? If so, which medication?

And yes, I know that medication alone isn't the solution, but I need to feel a bit better with medication before I can see a psychiatrist and start therapy.

Looking forward to fix my posture and hoping to add a bit from my hidden height ,so im curious about your answers :)

Relationships nowadays are so fucked up ,most of the people are just together because they dont want to be lonenly ,but even in a relationship nowadays women and men have open eyes for the other gender,in 95% of the cases they will leave you if they get known to a bigger fish .Social media and influencers are even pushing these godless behavior and people think its totally normal .

The internet as whole including dating apps and social media etc really destroyed everything. Even in a relationship you always would have the thoughts that you can easily end up alone again when your loved one find someone better or gets bored .These time area where we living in is just not for people like us .It happened to me again and i couldnt even enjoy the time in a relationship because i always knew it would end like that,fuck this

I needed to let that out,i know not everybody will understand that .But the ones who do you are not alone with this thoughts .

Helllooooo,i startet with 5mg for 7days,then increase to 10 mg for 3 weeks and then went up to 15 mg ,today is my 24th day on 15 mg and still dont any effect,if anything i still have side effects and feeling worse.

I really start to worry that lexapro wont work for me ,i know it can be the case but is there still any hope that it will begin to work Soon?

If its matter im 24 M

Im pretty New to hinge (3 weeks )and im honestly wondering how good it works ,i get like 2-3 likes a day and a 25% Match rate ,i tried once tinder and bumble for a few weeks and i got maximal 1 like a week and 2-3 matches a week so im pretty surprised and wondering if this is normal that you get way more likes and matches on hinge ,so i want to ask how much likes and matches you get.

Cheers

*Im using free Version (25 M)