I'm once again so confused

I'm once again so confused

This is my chart and it looks like I CLEARLY ovulated on CD14. However, I went to get my ultrasound on CD16 and I had not ovulated at all. I am taking letrozole and I know temps are unreliable but in the last 2 cycles they were normal. I just don't understand the spike on CD14 and sustained elevated temps.

Maybe irrelevant but our cycle got cancelled because we had 3 mature follicles :(

Temping with Tempdrop and Oura.

u/Far_Salamander55 — 1 day ago

I regret buying the v101

I loved the concept, i loved it so much I just bought the very first version once it was announced. But now that I see everything that the v2 can do, I regret spending money to buy v101 and feel guilty of the plastic that would end up in the landfill. I wish they had a program to return old cameras so that parts can be reused or something.

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u/Far_Salamander55 — 6 days ago

I feel bad for my nephew and niece

As the title says, I feel so bad for my nephew (almost 2 yo) and niece (2 months). My BIL (28) and his wife (26) brought them over to Florida for vacation. I already felt bad about the trip because they drove 15 hours (including breaks) from their state to our home on Friday. Then Saturday we went to Disney and Monday they are leaving again and driving 15 hours back. We are taking today to rest but BIL wants to take his wife to a city she's never been to.

Yesterday when we were in the park, they only brought a stroller for my niece and nothing for my nephew. We were there from 11 am to almost 8 pm. It was obviously a very slow day for a Disney day but I still felt extremely tired by the end of the day. I felt so bad for my nephew who I could tell would get hungry and tired but they had him walking the majority of the day. Only carrying him for like 15 min tops like 3 or 4 times in total. I suggested renting a stroller. I suggested it twice and they always replied "if he gets tired I'll carry him". I could tell he was so tired. I have 4 other niblings from my sisters but these two babies are the first of their generation on both the mom and dad side so they are truly truly first-time parents.

After the second time, I told my (30) husband (30) that I really thought he needed a stroller. My husband said that his brother probably just didn't want to spend the $15. And I get it, you're traveling on a budget but I feel like that should have been part of the planned budget!!! Their dad is like that. He never spent "unnecessary" money. At the end of the day, we survived, the child survived and it was a good day overall but I couldn't fully enjoy my niblings and their joy because I felt it was very unfair.

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Mickey Ice Cream Sandwich. I'm lactose intolerant and have insulin resistance but I felt like I needed to have something else distracting me and plus it was good 😂

EDIT: The father is my husband's brother. If it were any of my sisters, I would've bought the stroller the day before and told any of them to suck it up if they had a problem. I cannot/will not do that with my BIL. We are Latinos, maybe that also adds to it but I simply cannot talk to him like that.
Also, I can't hold more than 15 to 20 pounds for short periods of time. I have back and wrist problems. Instead, I compensated by sitting with him in restaurants and benches to take breaks and made sure he drank water and not go too long without sitting. It was obviously a slower Disney day. It wasn't marathonic like a normal-stroller-day.
Also to the people saying I should've gotten the stroller, I get it and I thought about it all the time BUT both parents are most likely narcissistic (I know my BIL is) and would have taken it as an insult. I didn't want to risk ruin the relationship because I want to be present for my niblings as they grow up. I want to be their safe space and for them to tell their parents that they are coming over. I just want to make sure I don't fuck up the relationships so that they can't deny me from seeing the kids (which they (he) 100% would)

EDIT 2: THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU to everyone who took their time to comment. I realize I do also have a say even if it's something small. I took the kid right now and without asking, I went to rent a stroller (we're not in the park today but in a small historical town that requires a lot of walking). He immediately sat in it and loved it. Thank you for giving me a way to address it. When they asked I said it was to make it easier on our backs with the backpacks (even thought my nephew was already sitting on it) (sorry, Idk if a kid sits in or on a stroller. English is my second language and never know when to use in or on)

u/Far_Salamander55 — 16 days ago

Am I out?

I just see my temperature slowly go down. I'm supposed to test on Friday 😭 I'm scared to be disappointed so I don't want to test 😭 any and all stories welcomed!

Edit typo

u/Far_Salamander55 — 27 days ago

Super super random pero tal vez alguien se acuerda

En un centro comercial como en Multi, Plaza Merliot o en Galerías, había una tienda como la americana de Build A Bear, allá por mediados de la primera decada del 2000.

Alguien se recuerda como se llamaba la tienda y en donde estaba?

Mis recuerdos me gritan que estaba por el Selectos de Multi, o por la entrada del viejo Dorian's.

Y ya que viajamos al pasado, se acuerdan de la tienda Mixup de música al lado de Dorian's en el segundo nivel?

O del nash y el pollo tropical del masferrer o de kismet o el europa...ok ya.

Pero si alguien me ayuda recordando la tienda de peluches, se los mil agradezco!

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u/Far_Salamander55 — 1 month ago

I just connected some dots and I am screamingggggg

I am on the tandem read but my spoiler has nothing to do with TOD so my flair should be okay but...

>!I just realized that in QOS during one of Elide's chapters, it is said "deaths at Anneith's hands—at the hands of HELLAS'S CONSORT—were brutal, bloody, and slow."!<

>!And then in EoS we learn that Lorcan believes his magic is a gift from Hellas. And then on a Lorcan chapter we read "...the fact that perhaps it was Anneith herself who'd taught the girl to look and listen and lie."!<

And I love making stuff up in my headdddd!!!

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u/Far_Salamander55 — 1 month ago

I'm about to lose it 😭

I thought I was out when my temp dropped a bit 2 days ago but then it stayed the same and then it went back up again? I keep testing negative though and I'm on 15dpo. I have long and deep cramps, like a pulling sensation that radiates to my legs (that's how my cramps are before my period starts but it's been 4 days like this) and had sharp painful acute cramps on 13dpo and this morning 😭 I just don't understand

u/Far_Salamander55 — 2 months ago
▲ 63 r/lost

Well, I finally understand

It finally happened. I am at the airport, going on vacation and my bag has a pregnancy test. I can finally close that chapter in my "wtf Lost" book.

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u/Far_Salamander55 — 2 months ago