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tracking and updates are all the way messed up rn

depop sent me a notification that seller shipped out my item at 1AM!! when i went to the tracking number she actually dropped it off around 2PM. this is my first time experiencing such a long delay. usually when i ship out items, shipping takes 30 min to an hr to update in the app but this one was outrageous.

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u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 5 days ago

mary and pastor rob

LOVED them, loved this storyline especially with how long george and brenda were sneaking around. i wanted more of them together! their chemistry was amazing and i loved watching mary unknowingly getting her lick back.

it took george a long time to confront mary about seeing her and pastor rob smoking together. he was mad that she was able to “have fun” and not always live life by the bible. but he technically didn’t have a leg to stand on to say something when it came to that. he left that bar to see his wife bc brenda was having a good time with tom not bc he regretted what he was doing.

i wish it was written that pastor rob reached out to mary after george passed to rekindle their friendship. long after george passed ofc and when missy moved out the house

u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 17 days ago

entering s16 and im waiting to see how this moment unravels for jo

a lot of the storylines have already been spoiled for me and i don't mind it at all. s15 was very cute with jo and karev getting married but then i saw some bs that karev was gonna do some dumbass sht again. i gotta see what shonda and the writers thought up to ruin that storyline.

that man is never seeing a true redemption. no development with that character, stayed true to his unpredictable, reckless, inconsistent, unreliable, impulsive, erratic etc season 1 behavior.

he really is izzie match lol two peas in a pot

u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 17 days ago

i usually rewatch this show once every year

and I’m never ready for the georgie and mandy storyline. its so weeeeiiirrrrddd 🤢 🤮 and how mandy fights to keep her pregnancy. pregnant by a 17 yo at 29 damn near 30. i definitely agreed with george, georgie should have not married mandy, im sure she doesn’t want to marry a teenager. ive been wanting to watch georgie and mandy to see how their storyline ends but eeeckkkk i cant bring myself to and the fact that they’re 10 yrs apart in RL too. also i actually like watching for sheldon, his college life and his professors and want more of him not g&m and mandy family

[edit] if you think mandy didn’t do anything wrong we’re gonna need to check your history, maam. im looking sideways at you. and the ones questioning why georgie is getting “babied” well he’s quite literally underage and that how i view him, as a child not a man, ya sick-o’s. women are also predators. the way people say men should know when they’re talking to underage girls is literally what im thinking about mandy. she thought he was 19 at the most, she already suspected he was younger than her. chuck lorre is a weird mf for adding that storyline idc idc. georgie getting a girl pregnant closer to his age would have hit the same points. the church rejecting mary and the family was never from mandy’s 12 y age difference but more so because it was out of** **wedlock

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u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 21 days ago

s14 and his financial status

why does he still make these statements when in s8 alex gets competing offers from johns hopkins and seattle grace. richard teaches him how to negotiate and hopkins agrees giving him salary, loan repayment, relocation assistance, and other benefits. then alex brings that same offer to owen in which owen agrees to match causing april her job.

then in s10 he’s still worried about his medical school debt? but within that same season he takes a job with the private pediatric practice. he buys himself a fancy car and talks about buying a boat next. by the end of the season, he ultimately got fired bc he was trying to leave for SG again since he thought he would get cristinas board seat.

now in s14 he still talking like makes intern wage. im just gonna chalk this down to the writers forgetting what they wrote or that the ones that wrote that specific storyline for season 8 or 10 are no longer writers for the show

u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 22 days ago

why is shipping so expensive on here?

i regularly shop on depop and their shipping ranges from 1.99 to 10.99. i wanted to try out poshmark today bc i found a sweater on there that I haven’t been able to find on depop. just as I was about to buy it they were trying to charge me *6.49 for a 14oz hoodie. (I know how much that specific hoodie weighs because I have it in a different color and got it on depop for 1.99 [shipping] since it’s below the pound)

im wondering now if shipping controlled by the seller or does poshmark automatically set their own rates and out of the sellers control?

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u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 22 days ago

anybody out there mod their planner cover?

has anybody tried adding internal elastic strings on their planner cover? was it difficult ? i so wish they sold this as a travel notebook cover. nobody has the quality C&P does when it comes to vinyl covers

edit: they’re having a sale on tiktok $12 off plus 10% off, $5.95 for shipping or free shipping after $75 for the next 24 hours. just bought this cover and a couple more 🤭 definitely worth it!! grabbed so many items I was looking at

u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 23 days ago
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buying an item that never get shipped out

has this happened to you? do you just ignore the situation and take the loss or do you give a bad review? this has only ever happened to me once and the seller was active a day before I bought the item and he just never got back online, reached out too but wasn’t much help since he wasn’t active.

recently it happened two times in a row, one seller I reached out to forgot to put herself on vacation mode and arrived a day before the order was going to get cancelled. last day for her to ship was on sunday so I knew I wasn’t going to get that order. but the other seller just never reached out, never canceled order and she was quite literally active every day since I bought the item.

i don’t reach out to sellers since I know depop stays bugging you to ship out every time you get on the app, even when you already shipped out they give you notifications. so I know they’re aware and don’t feel I need to but two times in a row! i’m impatient so I ended up buying it from sb else and im glad i did

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u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 24 days ago

S12E20 when the boy shot his friend

watching this episode, the only people getting blamed for the incident are the parents and not the child that was never supposed to be behind a trigger. majority will defend the child’s actions by saying hes too young to understand what he was doing but at what point will the children learn about accountability if when they do something wrong it gets dismissed and the parents or adults aren’t explaining to them what they did wrong in the situation.

the neurotic mom blaming the injured child for her son tampering with a gun was flat out ridiculous. it took a doctor to actually “parent”/teach the child that he caused harm to his friend, told him what he did was was an accident and if it had happened to him he would be mad at his friend but even in the middle of that scene the mom asks if they’re free to go just to pull him away

then they have ppl judging jo for her reasons on having a gun, the same women that was beat up constantly as a child, alone and homeless fending for herself, beat up by her ex and left alone at home (in a bad neighborhood) when karev constantly is leaving for work or meredith are surprised she has a gun to feel safe. they end that storyline by saying the reason jo had a gun was because she didn’t value her life???? HUH?

desperate housewives did an amazing job with bri and how they handled the topic of guns. bri was educated and knew how to handle a weapon and had her reasons, her friends disagreed, they talked about it and reached a middle ground. that storyline even had her friends shaming her for it and shared stories of themselves being a victim of gun violence/shooting,having witnessed death or loved ones in the vicinity of a shooting but bri stood her ground and they reached an understanding. the debate was framed without having one side being objectively correct. and imo that’s how it should be. we are not sheep and having our own opinions makes us human

u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 28 days ago

derek shepherd deserves more criticism

you cant say anything critical about that man or any post about him will have the same stalker defending his honor. imo bc derek is written as a fantasy partner thus his actions get excused bc hes charismatic paired with dreamy eyes and a nice smile.

i’m on season 11 now, and imo derek carries the same patterns from his marriage with addison into his marriage with meredith. whenever his partner’s career starts demanding that he step back, he seems to struggle with it. that’s what makes him an interesting character to critique and discuss instead of the untouchable one his fans or admirers make him out to be.

it’s interesting that in both of derek’s long-term relationships, he’s paired with women who become leaders in their fields. in both cases, we’re told or shown that he becomes emotionally distant when the relationship is under pressure (his marriage was already falling apart before addison cheated, so let’s not use that as a cop-out). whether that’s coincidence, poor communication, or insecurity is something worth discussing without acting like it’s a personal attack on the character.

the show never tells us exactly when addison became one of the country’s most renowned neonatal surgeons and OB/GYNs, so we can’t say her success caused the distance in their marriage but it’s an interesting parallel that, by the time she’s established as one of the best in her field, their relationship has already deteriorated. then we see derek and meredith run into similar tensions as meredith’s career reaches another level.

idk if its intentional or accidental writing but its what could make for an interesting discussion if posts about him didn’t result in changing the subject to everything and everyone but him, insulting the op’s or downvoting simply for having a different opinion of Derek

u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 1 month ago

maggie pierce

i was hoping she was going to be a one season character but she’s gonna be on the show for NINE SEASONS. does she get better and have some growth or will she be anxious and agitated for the rest of the seasons to come. im constantly fast fwding her scenes bc she’s annoying and is always upset or passive aggressive. the people who like her (from past posts) just seem to like anybody who challenges meredith.

and what’s up with her not wanting to learn jo’s name? the youngest to do it in her position, the one to crack the mystery christina couldn’t but couldn’t remember a simple last name, girl who tf is milton???

and she will never be christina, lexi, nor a grey (she’s a webber at best since Thatcher GREY is not her father) idk wtf shonda and the writers were smoking to think that

u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 1 month ago

jackson, stephanie and the interns

im on S10E11 and ive had it with them. that relationship is so forced to me and they just don’t click. they have zero chemistry, no passion what so ever and seems like a filler story… but imo this round of interns kiiinda suck. maybe it’s bc I feel we really don’t know much about them. jo was the “prissy money bags” then we find out shes a scrappy foster kid “hobo” (as karev nicely puts it lol) not sure what stephanie’s story is besides becoming boy crazy over jackson, being smart and “competitive”????, leah being boy/girl crazy and feeling like nobody likes her or that she doesn’t fit in. heather with her weird, corky self and her potential to become a amazing surgeon and shane usually being jealous and ambitious.

of course, no group of interns will ever be able to be meredith, george, christina, izzy and alex but even lexies class was interesting

this intern class feels like an accidental reflection of the 2010s shift toward individualism. unlike previous classes, they don’t really form a true community not even after heathers death. they don't come together in any meaningful or lasting way. they just move on back to their own issues. jo worried about alex, leah getting attached to sb and steph obsessing over jackson. you could argue shane was affected by her death, but only bc he was feeling guilty and possibly worried about getting in trouble with derek

they coexist more than they connect. they have the relationship of a group of interns who just happen to clock in at the same time. yes the interns before them fought, sabotaged one another, and competed relentlessly, but in a “weird, twisty way” there was an understanding that they were in it together.

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u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 1 month ago
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I just received an offer from a post I didn’t like

has this happened to anyone? i don’t know the store, never ran across it, checked the page nothing looks familiar, haven’t liked anything from them. very curious on how they can send me offers on post ive never even seen?

u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 1 month ago

this was such a hard episode to watch S6E23

so many people have gone through traumatic experiences and lost loved ones in that hospital.. mothers, fathers, siblings, friends, CHILDREN and this demon thinks he's special just because he's lost his fkn wife.

in the real world we lose so many people because of
POS like him, because they're too emotional, because they're selfish, because they think the world revolves around them, because they don't get what they think they deserve, because they can't go out and seek help for their bottled up emotions.

so many mass shootings in the US continue to happen and i couldn't for one fucking second feel any sympathy or empathy for this selfish idiotic character.
it boggles my mind for some viewers to actually sympathize with this devil but tbh it’s not surprising given it happens in the real world. white mass shooters/serial killers always end up being mourned and never taking accountability only talking about "mental illness".

i hate when TV shows do mass shooting episodes, we don’t need to see “their side“ or why the do this, they don’t deserve that. so many people’s lives change because of ONE person. majority of the time the victim never get the attention these trigger happy demons do

he’s no man he’s a selfish, PATHETIC, hypocritical coward.

u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 2 months ago

pot, meet kettle

coming from the person who was laying on the bathroom floor, then got up only to hang outside the hospital after denny passed.

the poor girl lived a traumatic experience and probably watched george get dragged by that bus, where does izzy come off being upset at her just because she’s having issues with alex

u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 2 months ago
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what in the world

I got a good laugh out of this post and the offers that are being sent in?? not sure what’s going on here 😂

u/Fearless-Wrongdoer25 — 2 months ago