u/Feisty-Squirrel-1563

That’s basically it… at this point I have a reasonable collection of items

I’m sober from my drug of choice for a little while, but now i noticed i’m staying with a guy longer than i should just because I can take klonopin from his place and he never noticed (he has a lot). I know it’s bad…

I went to the market just to buy a coke zero, but when i got there, i saw a super cute guy and even smiled at him while i passed by, so i immediately made my shopping list longer and just walked around picking random stuff waiting for him to talk to me, so while I was staring into groceries I had no interest in, he walked towards me and started doing the same and thought he would say something. After what felt like hours, i just awkwardly picked canned sardines and left…

I’ve just reached a new state in my life: I’ve been using much more drugs than I used to and have been on a hypersexualization streak after a very difficult breakup, this to numb down all my feelings. Turns out I wasnt seeing the point of staying sober while I still function as a high achiever in my job, but fucking around with men was so deeply draining that I am now removing all of that from my life and will experience life as raw as it is at least for the next month: no drugs, no sex, no alcohol (believe me, that’s too long for me).
I’m trying to change my view on boredom, get more comfortable with it since I simply cannot eliminate myself from this world unfortunately.
What’s your experience with boredom after you became sober?

I’ve just reached a new state in my life: I’ve been using much more drugs than I used to and have been on a hypersexualization streak after a very difficult breakup, this to numb down all my feelings. Turns out I wasnt seeing the point of staying sober while I still function as a high achiever in my job, but fucking around with men was so deeply draining that I am now removing all of that from my life and will experience life as raw as it is at least for the next month: no drugs, no sex, no alcohol (believe me, that’s too long for me).
I’m trying to change my view on boredom, get more comfortable with it since I simply cannot eliminate myself from this world unfortunately. Has someone tried this before? How was the experience?

I’ve decided to take a long gardening break but I’m struggling with what to do during sundays, I fckn hate this day of the week. It’s so boring it makes me question my decision. Just wanted to vent.

Terminei com meu ex (um relacionamento de 6 anos) no ano passado e agora já faz quase um ano, mas às vezes ainda fico muito triste por causa disso e começo a chorar muito pelo fato de termos terminado.

Depois do término, saí com alguns caras e também me diverti, mas parece que ainda não superei meu ex, mesmo eu tendo sido a pessoa que terminou… talvez eu só esteja lembrando mais das coisas boas do que daquilo que me fez terminar com ele.

Enfim, mais alguém ainda chora pelo término depois de um ano ou mais? Alguém passou por isso e agora está bem de novo?