u/Final-Gift-2299

Long story short I 22M have a sister who was getting married.

She told me a couple of months before I had to shave my beard. I have a really nice luscious beard and long hair. I really like the look I kinda look like a Greek philosopher. My sister told me in private I had to shave it if I wanted to attend her wedding.

I told her I'm not doing it. Some arguing ensued but I kept my ground and we kinda just moved on. On the day of the wedding me,my dad and brothers came. My brothers can't grow any facial hair and my dad is clean shaven.

We sit down when my sister and her husband take me a side to tell me I'm not welcomed with my beard. I told them I'm not shaving and her husband then asked me to leave. Which I did I went to grab my stuff to leave. When my dad asked what was going on. I told him I got sent away because of my beard. My dad went to my sister's husband and asked if it was true. My dad started making a scene and told me and my brothers to leave as well as my mom. My family is Afghan and it's a really big deal if a guest (me) is shown disrespect or no hospitality. My dad has ten, yes ten brothers and two sisters. He also told them what happened. And some chain reaction happened where my dad and mom's whole family left. I'm not kidding over half the wedding actually left. My sister started crying and her wedding got ruined. It's been two days and things still are very hostile. I just came back from Sweden so I've been kinda out of the loop on what was happening beforehand. Not gonna lie I just been going to training with my brothers since I can't do much else. So we've been going to Wrestling Judo and kickboxing to kinda feel regular again since training is our main distraction.

So AITJ?

Edit; my sister doesn't like me embracing Afghan culture and heritage because of it's treatment of women. Also it's strong emphasis on its warrior culture was always kinda disgusting to her. And look like you're stereotypical Afghan.

I (24f) and my fiance (25m) get Taco Bell decently often as it’s my favorite fast food, but we have different favorites from there so we order a couple of his favorite burritos and mine plus maybe an extra items to try. The problem is sometimes my fiancé will bite every burrito until he gets to the one he wanted. If it was just like one or two it wouldn’t bother me, but like half the burritos wind up being bitten out of. To be fair, Taco Bell never labels the food, but I feel like he could open the burrito if he can’t tell by feel. Where I may be the asshole is I may have put some attitude into asking “why do you keep biting the burritos just to get a different one” (I say may because I acknowledge I struggle with tone and often inflict the wrong tone). He got upset and said I was being an ah and he takes a “small” bite (I think we’re perceiving the bite size different) so we can both eat our favorite burritos instead so why can’t I just eat after him. For context we share everything, I have no problem eating/drinking after each other and never have. But he genuinely took it as I saw it suddenly tainted bc he ate it. I tried explaining to him that it’s not that and sometimes I just want a whole burrito without a bite taken out and I was just trying to joke about him biting every burrito but it turned into a stupid argument and him being petty the rest of the night. By petty I mean telling me I can just throw out the burritos and he just won’t buy those ones anymore and I can buy my own, then going to our room saying he was going away from me. I don’t know why burritos turned into an issue? Am I the asshole for even bringing up him biting every burrito?