My Grievances of My Christian School (And Christian Schools in General)
1.) Masses
- I just don't like them, and they cut into valuable school time. Like some masses can take up to 2 hours. And my christian school had 6 masses everyone had to do. That's around 1-2 days spent JUST FOR MASS. And like all masses they're boring as shit. And what makes it worse is that we don't even get full chairs. We sit on bleachers for who knows how long (and those are uncomfortable as hell).
2.) Religion as a Subject
- Again, why? That subject slot could've been used for a useful subject. And Religion for Christianity feels stupidly handpicked. Like I had this class for "arguements for Christianity" (yknow the typical kalam cosmological arguement, objective morality, etc) and I ate it up, since I didn't have anything else opposing it. But what makes it funny is that I had a World History Teacher (very chill guy) just before that, which told a way different story. Soon later tho I kinda just put the puzzle pieces together and soon figured out how ASS those arguments are. I also just so happened to be very online-heavy, which lead me to vids showing how Atheists debunked these arguments.
3.) The Lack of Diversity
My Christian School was made up of Males. Just males. No girl students, no other sexualities, no other people from other sides of the religion spectrum just males. I'm guessing my parents sent me there to become a "good christian boy", but the more I think about their decision, the more I feel sad about it. Not being exposed to these things means when I did get out of high school, I would have no experience on how to deal with those kinds of people. Also if I was to ask something personal, it'd feel like an echo chamber cuz its just males. Males that probably regurgitate the same things their parents would say.
4.) The "Brotherhood"
Idk if it was just me, but "the brotherhood" my school was preaching felt forced as hell. No Teacher, just because we're both males doesn't mean I'll immediately like the guy next to me. That's what friendship is for. And sometimes why should I even want to help a guy I know nothing about, or even worse, a guy I actively hate.
5.) The lack of Sex-Ed
My middle school had a better teaching on sex (like the hormonal urges teens get, various private parts, the body, various chemicals the body produces, etc), and that was a public school. But my Private Christian school doesn't teach any of this. So now this leaves me having to search that up myself and feeling like a piece of shit for knowing why the hell I'm suddenly feeling horny as a teenager, even though its a perfectly normal thing to feel at this stage.