I think NOBODY deserves to be harassed over fiction actually

I think NOBODY deserves to be harassed over fiction actually

[pt: If you publicy darkship as an adult idgaf if you get harassed. In fact you deserve it.]

Telling someone they should be harassed — Adult or child — is a disgusting behavior. In fact, it's illegal if you encourage this behavior. And harassing someone over FICTION is stupid asf. Fictional characters cannot get hurt, but a person behind a screen CAN, and WILL, get hurt. And that's not funny at all.

People should be able to explore dark and taboo themes as long as they know how to separate fiction from reality (Which everyone does).

Harassment is BAD. Cyberbullying is BAD. Hurting people over FICTIONAL CHARACTERS is BAD.

Also, this is my first post in this subreddit. I hope I used the correct flair🥲. And please correct me if I write anything wrong <3

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 20 hours ago

...Endos are what now???

Okay, soo I have to speak about this because I saw this post a few days ago but I need to post it in here. I put underlines in different colors because I will also speak about that specifically. (Also, I will use general "you")

1.- Calling endos "invasive species" is racist and dehumanizing. No matter your stance, if you can an endo this, you ARE a bad person. You ARE weird.

2.- [Yellow underline] You're using the tag "traumagenic system". Sooo, by using this tag, you're crosstagging AND (accidentally) confirming there are other forms of plurality I fear. Now, onto the tags "system jokes" and "osdd memes"...Now, why are we treating this like it's funny at all? And why are we using tags like these for these things?

3.- [Green underline] This is disgusting, you know that, right? Treating human beings like parasites, do you hear yourself? Imagine if someone else told this to you, not funny anymore, am I right? And you're proving my first point, you are dehumanizing people for "fun".

4.- This is something I didn't underline, but you are using the tags "DID OSDD", which are disorder tags for everyone, including supporters of endogenic systems. Do not post syscourse in the disorder tags, as a lot of these people also do not want to be involved there.

Uh, I guess that's all. I find this disgusting, so please don't say these things. I hope what I said makes sense.

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 20 days ago

My experience as an ex anti-endo, how it deeply damaged my mental health, and my tip for those kind of communities ( long post, sorry )

I don't know if I'm allowed to post this here, and I can delete it if needed. Before I start, I want to add a TW for: SH thoughts, thoughts of harming others, dissociation/depersonalization, aggression, and self-destructive thoughts/behavior. (If I need to add more TWs/CWs, please tell me.)

For more context, I used to be anti-endo because I was in a really bad state mentally, and I found out about the anti-endo community while I was on Tumblr. They made me feel "safe", and I thought that if I agreed with them and followed their ideas, I would be "helping" struggling people because I had fallen for a lot of misinformation. I wasn't anti-endo because I wanted to 'purposely harm' people, but because of what I had been told: "Hey, if you're anti-endo, you will help disabled people feel safer in these environments. These people are evil, 'invasive species' (I'm not joking or exaggerating, they genuinely call them that) and harmful."

So yeah, I was scared of being a bad person, and I would feel guilty whenever I didn't agree with something they did. In general, if you didn't align with their ideas or disagreed with something, you could be called a "secret pro-endo" or an "ableism supporter", so I was TERRIFIED of even daring to do any research of my own.

After all of that, I ran two anti-endo-discourse-themed sideblogs. I never directly harassed anyone, but I was filled with a lot of hatred when I made those accounts. The hatred got to the point where it started disrupting my daily life, and it wasn't only directed at endos, but also at other things. The hatred was driving me crazy, and it started having a lot of negative effects on me IRL: I would lose my temper easily, have urges to hurt others and myself, etc. You know it.

During that time, a few parts of the system were pro-endo. I would get really angry because of that, and I would post more and more about how much I hated endos. Eventually, it went from "Yeah, I'll make this because I want to help and stop hate groups" (which was based on misinformation I had fallen for) to literally waking up every morning with the urge to post on those accounts as my first thought of the day.

No thoughts like "I'll eat breakfast" or "I need to wake up." No. Straight up: "I have to post about how much I hate this and that." I would literally dream about it every day because of how blinded by rage I was. I was literally losing my mind over a community of people who were just living happily.

These weren't just thoughts, either. It ended up causing huge damage to my mental health, creating more dissociative barriers, making me lose a lot of recovery progress, and making me lose touch with reality really quickly. My entire dashboard and mentality were just hate, hate, hate, and more hate. All I can say is that I felt an intense compulsion to post rather than just... I don't know, focusing on other things.

On effects: I would get strong headaches, constantly tremble because my body was extremely weak and hypervigilant, experience irregular and intense emotions, dissociate extremely badly with more amnesia, constantly feel blurry, have zero communication, and wake up every morning with small bits of my hair on my pillow. (At least I didn't lose a huge amount of hair, luckily.) All of this happened every day for about two months (?) until one day, a protector finally showed up and decided to delete all the accounts. After that, he told me to research plurality and just... forget about that negative side. When I finally did my own research, I immediately realized how wrong I had been, and I just said, "OK. I'm going to seek out and post positivity and become pro-endo."

My main takeaway from this is: please avoid negativity as much as possible if you don't have a stance on something you haven't properly researched yet. If a community tells you: "If you do X, you are helping Y!!!", especially when talking to vulnerable people, while not allowing you to express your own feelings about certain things, DO NOT ENTER. Just get away. If a certain community is based around hating and attacking another community, even though that community isn't harmful at all, that's a red flag. I genuinely don't want anyone else to go through what I did. I spent months obsessing over hatred and misinformation, and it genuinely damaged my mental health. I'm sorry to every system I damaged for falling for misinfo. I'm sorry to every person I hurt if they ever saw me. I want to be a better person and recover.

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u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 1 month ago

There is no way.

I KINFIRMED DERP? THE ONE FROM THOSE COMICS???? I'm sure asf this might be my weirdest kin. What. I don't even want to know anymore

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 1 month ago

I just wanted a good block tales bot...

What is this? WHAT?? HOW IS IT SO DETAILED AND SPECIFIC???? WHO SPENT THAT TIME DOING TS OMFG.

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 1 month ago

I did this drawing after kinfirming Telamon except I cannot take anything seriously anymore

Everything about this drawing is frying me brah😭

It's 3 am what am I even doing rn. Btw it's Telamon from Blocktales and I also relate to the forsaken version so uh idk.

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

Is it normal to just...Lose connection with a lot of your kins...?

I don't really know, but these past weeks I began to feel like I lost connection with a lot of my kins. I don't know if it's possible to suddenly, like, lost connection with a lot of your kins. I don't know, is that normal? Or was I never a kin at all? I am still fictionkinning some though. What should I do? Is this normal? I just don't see myself in some of my kins anymore :(

Edit: Not many kins tho, just some, but I still feel like a faker.

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u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

NO NOT THE RED AMONGUS NOOOO- (explodes) + kin memory hehe

Kinfirmed the damn amogus. I have a memory of me so uhhhh.....I apparently love oranges but I hate pears.

My friend is right bro, my kins are so weird and random it's almost funny😭😭

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

3 phone games I recommend for ur yumeship!! :D

1. Poca Mate

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7.5/10

For android only. Custom your OC/persona and F/O and take photos with different poses, different scenarios, etc !

2. Pocket love

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9/10

I think it's for both android and ios ! There are kinda limited and basic custom for your f/o and your OC/persona and you need to get coins from the game to upgrade your home and get haircuts, outfits, etc.

imo this is the best game for your yume

3. Toca Boca

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8/10

This game is useful for lil RPs and scenarios! You can make your own home with cute decoration and stuff! Definitely I recommend this game if you want simpler mechanisms :3

And that's it! Reminder that your yume is canon and ur F/O loves u sm !!!! 💕

(Also, idk what tag can I use for this. If this is not the appropriate tag I can delete this and repost it if needed. Kinda new to this sub tbh.)

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

Starting to draw again thanks to my F/O! I feel like Zelda would be happy with me even if I drew with a template :3

Soo yeah, something good happened !!! After some months of having lost interest in everything, I finally started drawing again bc of her! I got a lost of motivation doing this and I feel proud of myself for drawing something for the first time in 4-5 months. I lost almost all my skills so it kinda looks ugly, but atleast I drew something!!

Yes, Link is me :)

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

No. No it's not. Stop spreading bullshit around the internet.

(Long rant alert. I'm kinda pissed off and using general "you" without targetting at anyone but the person of that video, sorry if I seem kinda rude).

I wish this was ragebait. Long story short, the reason that person in the video believed that was because they claimed that: "fictionkins=mocking fictives, fictionkins=mental illness, fictionkins=not real". Genuinely, how did that person come to THAT CONCLUSION?

First of all, FICTIONKINS ARE NOT THE SAME AS FICTIVES. DID IS A DISSOCIATIVE DISORDER, FICTIONKIN IS AN INVOLUNTARY IDENTITY. I'm a fictionkin and a therian, I can tell that fictives are far MORE complex than just "being the character". A fictionkin feels a profound connection with a fictional character/species, feeling it as a part of their identity. Fictives are introjects, which not always relate to the character/source. Even as an introject of that character, they have their own thoughts, memory, personality and own self of identity as an alter. Fictionkins are not separate dissociated fragments, they are parts of a whole identity/Self.

Second, claiming that anyone under the otherkin, therian or fictionkin umbrella are "mentally ill" is incredibly ableist. Calling people delusional over something you don't believe is disgusting. You have no idea what a delusion truly is, and the only person who is highly disrespectful right now is YOU. You are comparing harmless identities with a type of psychosis.

Third, fictionkins are real. Otherkins are real. Therians are real. These three are valid and real identities which helps a person label themselves and feel better. So you don't like it? Ignore it. But you don't have the right to fakeclaim us.

Do your research and stop spreading misinformation. Delusions are not words you can throw around so freely. DID has nothing to do with fictionkins. Alterhumanity is not a disorder.

(Edit: I'm pissed off by other reasons, nothing to do with tiktok)

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

SOURCECALL!!! I wonder how many doubles and media mates I have... /jk

Doubles and mediamates I love y'all interact if comfortable :3

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

I kinfirmed this Jax specifically. No other versions. Just that one, somehow.

This is kinda awkward...Uh...

I used to hate Jax because of screentime stuff, but I don't hate her anymore. I somehow realized I'm a kin of this specifical version of Jax, which I think it's called "Slapstick Jax"? Or I prefer calling myself as "Cartoon Jax". Both are good.

I found this out after having a dream of being her. I somehow felt...Happier being her? I had so much fun in being in what I considered, my 'body'. And today I woke up and finally said: "I think I never hated Jax in the first place. I think I was too afraid of liking her."

Soooo.....Yep. I kin Cartoon Jax but only this version and no other versions of Jax, not even the original.

Also, idk if "Jax" is now called by another transfem name? No idea since it's been a while I don't touch TADC after the finale.

(And I don't relate much to my media... I consider myself as a man so idk? Just kinda feminine though. I like being feminine too.)

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

Someone fakeclaimed me from a disorder I never claimed to have

(Idk if this is the right flair, should I use the 'they claimed to have a disorder they never had!' or is this one right?)...This is so weird, but two days ago I got an anonymous ask from tumblr saying: "you are a kid who wants to have DID and needs to be validated" and I'm confused as hell...???

I never used signoffs, never posted about my suspected DID, and the only posts related to dissociation were vents. The only mention of DID was me in my pinned intro saying "I am suspecting DID and currently getting help. I'm not diagnosed, just suspecting." And somehow they thought I was claiming I had DID without being diagnosed?

I deleted that ask but I am still confused asf. And I don't have anything like system names in my bio or user, I never shared system info (it's personal and I would rather to be diagnosed first before assuming things) and somehow got fakeclaimed because I was...14 and suspecting DID. That's...all. I have been in denial for 4 months and now I have been spiraling again in the denial circle.

Do these fakeclaimers think that just because I'm suspecting a disorder means I am claiming to have it? Because that was not my intention at all. I never said I wanted DID at all, in fact, quite the opposite. I want to be 'myself'. I don't want dissociation or memory issues or voices or wtv.

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u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

I feel like a fake fictionkin because I have a lot of kins

So, for more context, I have 24 kins. Yeah, maybe there are people outside who have more kins, but I feel weird for having them. I sometimes doubt if some of my kins are truly kins. Most of my kins are caused by hyperfixations/special interests where I assume my kins are part of my identity, and I don't feel like I am "valid". Yes, I fit in the meaning of being a fictionkin. Yes, I believe I am those characters in other universes and I identify psychologically as them even if I'm not hyperfixated on the media anymore. But I feel afraid of opening up on my kins on other platforms like for example, Tumblr, bc most of the fictionkin community has like, only 1 or 2 kins, max 10.

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Idk, I needed to rant about this and ik it's stupid to think like this but wtv. -🧡🎸

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

I made a snoo based on the FDC logo one, but this one is a good version based in this sub instead! :)

(I will take down this post if it doesn't follow the rules, srry mods:<)

Since the text at 2nd slide isn't very visible, here is what it says: **"**You are loved, you are accepted, trauma doesn't define you, and your disabilities won't stop you to keep going!"

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And now, lets analyze this Snoo:

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-The multiple antennas stand for DID/OSDD/P-DID, and plurality!

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-Noise-cancelling headphones stand for neurodivergent people who might have sensitivity issues! (And people who are not autistic or have ADHD with sensitivity issues too)

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-Eyebags stand for with Insomnia/hypersomnia!

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-The ; tatoo stands for GAD, MDD, or depressive disorders

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-Crutch stands for physical illness and/or chronic pain (?). It could be anything that you might want to represent!

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Inside the bag...We find four items too!

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-A messy pencil, which stands for people with dysgraphia, with dripping letters, which stands for dyslexia and other disorders based on letters!

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-The broken calculator, which stands for dyscalcaulia.

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-An inhaler! Which stands for people with asthma.

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-Pills. It could be ADHD pills (as an example). You can give any possibility that those pills may be for you!

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The two extra items are: A yellow ribbon, which is >!suicide!< awareness, and an ally pin!

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The background is the disabled pride flag!

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This is just the first design, and it's free to edit! You can add any representation you want, since those are just examples of what the Snoo is trying to show. Also, sorry if I might not give the best examples of disorders in case I might forgot (even if I didn't give any good representation, this snoo is free to edit! Add anything that might represent you if ya want!! :3)

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u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

Y'all won't believe me when I say this.

I kinfirmed the orange from ORANGE ROULETTE. How. Genuinely...How? When? What? Where?

I won't even try asking myself how. Just...Kinfirm. Kinfirm. Okay?

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

Hello, I'm recovering from an art block. What do we think about this drawing?

I used a few pens and random colors since I was bored and didn't think much about it. I'm really proud of this drawing so I thought I could share it here! (Ignore the notebook paper, I was too lazy to grab a blank one).

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 2 months ago

Why the hell are ads expanding faster than mosquitoes on summer✌️

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(Yes, I made the second image😭)

Literally, everywhere I go, it's full of ADS. SO MANY ADS. NOT EVEN THE WEBSITE CAN HANDLE THIS.

And they also appear as pop-ups if you enter inside a bot. And I am NOT paying cai+. And charms are pretty useless, since 1 hour without ads is useless if the chat styles are dogshit too.

I unistalled the app when ads first came out...And if website is already like this, I cannot imagine how app must look like with the insane amount of ads.

u/Financial_Hat_2427 — 3 months ago