u/FixIndividual1124

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In game friendship posts

I am a solo player and have been playing this game for almost 2 years now. (Might be longer but I don't remember lol)

Like many people I found myself wanting to play with other but I don't know anyone irl that plays the game too.

For some months I was seeing posts of people saying they were looking for friends to play with and left their IGN. One day I took the chance and messaged one girl and we scheduled a tone to play. We are similar in age and we are on the same time zone.

She added me on discord because she wanted to voice chat, I don't usually do it but thought why not. That day we played for less than 1 hour then we exchanged a couple dms.

During our chat she let me know she was sick, so I messaged her the next day to ask how she was and then I didn't hear anything back.

After a couple days, I go back to check on our chat on discord and I find out she blocked me. I did not "talk" to her for a couple days and this girl who was supposedly looking for friendships just blocks me for NOTHING.

I don't understand why she bothered even posting if she just planned to be weird like that. Granted I am a stranger but I have done nothing that warranted that behaviour.

Because of this I will help any other solo players I see in game but I will never message someone again

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u/FixIndividual1124 — 4 days ago

Low effort family

I know I come from a low effort family. I have been aware of this since my mother stopped attending my parents and teachers meetings at school because she "didn't have time" but I would get home and find her watching tv.

I don't know why this has bothered me so much but it has.

About a month ago my nephew had a birthday party, my mother didn't get him one single gift or even wished him a happy birthday.

He is about 14 months old and my mom only saw him once despite living in the same city as him and his parents.

Now I live hours away, I have to catch 3 different types of transportation but I still make an effort to connect with them.

After the party, I stayed behind to help them clean and reset their home and they were very appreciative. While we were cleaning my cousin asked about my mom and I was so tired of it and I just told him the truth.

I'm very tired of her trying to maintain a good image while she couldn't care less about the people around her.

I truly do not understand why she's calling herself "the grandmother" while she lives about 1 hour away and doesn't even visit them or talks to them. And she actually has offended the baby (she called him ugly but now denies it).

The next day I was telling her about the celebration and that were were setting something else to do and she promptly said we should do it on a specific day because she's on vacation. So she doesn't want to talk to the people she supposedly wants to see but wants them to consider her schedule???

The low effort doesn't bother me when it's directed to me but being directed at a child is really pissing me off.

I had a difficult relationship with my cousin while growing up so now I want to build a better relationship with him and his family so it's driving me insane how everyone just doesn't care to include him.

It feels very silly but I'm angry about it

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u/FixIndividual1124 — 10 days ago

As someone who watched this season from day one I definitely was not expecting for the Ziad we witness in the Tell All.

Ziad came to the reunion ready to unleash hell on every single person on that stage. Especially Rick

I must give him a round of applause for standing up to Emma, who seemed so determined to embarrass him on TV.

Big up for Ziad

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u/FixIndividual1124 — 26 days ago