parents forced to to break up with her
okay hi i wanted to just share a story on here. over a year ago (early march 2025 to early may 2025) i dated this girl who was in my grade. she was my bi awakening when i was younger and i found out that i was hers so we started bonding over that more and more. she was hugging me, being real touchy and flirty so one day i texted her asking what we were. she said she liked me and i said i liked her, so we obviously started dating. at this point i was not out to my parents (they had their suspicions) and they did not know about this girl. me and her grew up in very different backgrounds. she has multiple siblings that are out of her house, grown up with kids, and one is a year older than us. i only have my twin brother so it was very different. my dad smokes cannabis but never around me really, at least when i was younger. she was in a household that did all the time. keep in mind this was in my 7th grade so it was very scandalous. she had smoked before i believe but did not like it and is against it. the sister that is older by one year smokes all the time, has sex all the time with boys, etc. i actually found a USED condom in her cup holder in her sisters room. anyways. my parents found out i was dating her a few weeks in. how? my old best friend does NOT like that girl and told her mom about it. me and this girl were best friends forever before we grew apart. her mom is my second mom still to this day, our families love each other. my friend did not know i was bi because i was keeping it from people i didn’t think would support. anyways she got mad that i wasn’t telling her about it and found out, told her mom, her mom told my mom. i was doing some very not safe stuff at the time and they checked my phone yadda yadda, that was like a final straw. they had a looong talk with me. they don’t care that i’m bi, they were a little confused but they don’t care. they were very mad about the person who i was dating. i would get it if she was dangerous but she wasn’t, still isn’t. they wanted us to break up because as my dad put it “her brother gives me a weird feeling.“ that’s it. that’s all. my mom tried to sabotage us multiple times in those next few weeks. the girl i was dating didn’t feel safe continuing it. she broke up with me at our school dance, where my parents were chaperones. i went up and told my mom and she said “oh that’s good i was gonna make you break up with her anyways.” one of my best friends was standing with me, hearing this. she gave me a craaaazy look and i gave one back because who says that?? i went away and got so mad at my mom. the next day my mom tried to backtrack and say that she didn’t mean it. uh yeah she did. i get looking out for your kids safety, you could’ve just let me not go to her house anymore. but instead of talking to me about it, she went behind my back and tried to sabotage a 12 year olds relationship. yes i still hold this grudge😭anyways me and that girl still talk and we’re very good friends. has anyone ever had an experience like this?