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So my younger sister(28) told me in May that she was having another baby.. she currently has 5 kids already, including a set of 2 year old twins and a 1 year old.. she also doesn't have her high school diploma, husband doesn't have a solid job through the winter months, she constantly is stressing about being broke.. so this is what my reply was (she sent me her "announcement", I saw it and it took me a couple hours to reply because honestly my first thought was not jumping for joy)

"Hi I'm really sorry I wasn't expecting that and needed some time to "digest" it. I just worry about you guys for many aspects, the timing, your health-mental AND physical, money. Etc. but I will come to terms with it and of course I'll love this baby just as much ❤️ if you guys are happy, im happy for you. Love you💗💙"

She replied "ok."

A day or 2 later I asked how she was feeling and said I didn't mean to offend her, loved her and asked if she needed anything.. she didn't answer

Week later asked again how she was doing and offered her some baby stuff.. no answer.

So I gave her time, and messaged her again a few weeks later apologizing again and telling her it made me upset she stopped talking to me when honestly as her big sister, I don't think my reply was totally off base. I was just being realistic while still letting her know I care about her. And she typed back a story basically telling me how I was wrong for being concerned about any of those things... So now I don't even know what to say to her because she's kind of being delusional imo. Like, it's okay to be excited and happy but at the same time, it's also okay to be a little realistic.. aitah here ?

In March , an old best friend of mine from childhood was arrested in a major fraud investigation. She was already on house arrest/probation from a previous fraud case when she was arrested this second time.

She is still currently incarcerated.

I have been checking on her court dates randomly and everytime, it says she has an upcoming court date for "bail phase" (the dates always change though) ..

does this possibly mean that her "bail phase" court date just keeps getting pushed back ? ( I'm sure the fact she was already on house arrest for the same crimes, but this time it was much worse, that it makes the case more complicated) Or could it just be the court case search website being inaccurate?

In March , an old best friend of mine from childhood was arrested in a major fraud investigation. She was already on house arrest/probation from a previous fraud case when she was arrested this second time.

She is still currently incarcerated.

I have been checking on her court dates randomly and everytime, it says she has an upcoming court date for "bail phase" (the dates always change though) ..

does this possibly mean that her "bail phase" court date just keeps getting pushed back ? ( I'm sure the fact she was already on house arrest for the same crimes, but this time it was much worse, that it makes the case more complicated) Or could it just be the court case search website being inaccurate?

I stupidly did my taxes late(June) .

They have been assessed and my NOA will be available July 3.

Can anyone tell me if I will get my July CCB payment IN July? Or will it come in August?

Does anyone else notice delivery apps are taking double payments as "authorization payments?

I ordered Instacart this morning and they took out $142 then a second payment of $131 🙄 super annoying. And it takes almost a week to come back. I first noticed it on Uber eats so stopped using them, then skip the dishes was also doing it so I only use doordash or Instacart..but I guess no more Instacart.. no store or business would take money off your card twice ... I understood when Instacart just authorized a higher payment than your order total incase of any changes, but to take $270 for a $131 order is insane..