Hate is the new normal. Avoid it instead

Most questions of "Why my favorite group X is facing hatred?" or doomposting of hate posts of a certain group over its controversy/comeback/performance has become quite regular atp.

If your fav is especially from the Big 4, or has bigger fandoms, they would receive hate for sure. Because they are seen in different dimensions by different people.

Bigger the group, more the toxic stans, more traction, hence more hatred.

Some actively consume hate contents as well. So if you see posts that are absolutely hating on anyone, it is useless to argue, and just scroll past them.

Kpop experience is to enjoy the music, the MVs, their shows and the fancams. Let that joy be there, and not get washed by random opinions on subs like this. Most kpop idols who are super popular, are also super busy. Or they have guts to answer back, like Giselle of Aespa.

Even if you interact with the post, don't get irritated by opinions here. You can enjoy whatever you like. A nothing burger post, but still I wanted to post it because I felt it was necessary!

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u/Formal-Cry4851 — 1 day ago

Rafayel's home

I tried replicating my living room like Rafayel's.

I am pretty amateur at this game but hope yall like it!💜💗

(Pic 3 was my reference)

u/Formal-Cry4851 — 8 days ago
▲ 67 r/LADS_OG

The pose is super cute, and so was the card

The new card was super cute. I love how they are reminiscent about their high school days!

MC also realising her feeling was soo cute! It was such a heartfelt plot this time. Glad I did not involve myself in boycott and stuff. It was super sad to see people downvoting anyone who was posting abt that card in main sub. I deleted my post on the first day because of the downvotes.

The pose is also super hawttt!

I understand people can do whatever they want. They can boycott if they love their LI. It is upto them. But downvoting someone for simply playing the game is silly. The worst one was "As Caleb main myself, please don't post-" was a comment I got.

u/Formal-Cry4851 — 14 days ago

I randomly sketched Rafayel in my lecture

Last week, during a lecture, I remembered a Rafayel drawing I saw on X and sketched it randomly😛😛

The lecture was boring, but Rafayel turned out to be great

u/Formal-Cry4851 — 15 days ago

Caleb's Summer Surge was so heartwarming

The card was so cute my gawdd!

We get to see into their feeling in their high school and that was very cute. It was endearing to see how Caleb was trying his best to make MC feel his love!

Caleb is the BEST-EST!

Also the pose is soo hawt! MC sits on his arms like she owns him!😛😛

u/Formal-Cry4851 — 16 days ago

Faith on Sylus

It was a beautiful experience I had at a museum. The exhibition at the museum was about Faith, and how humans have always relied on something to hold on to for hope, and it is beyond religious context.

The curator at the museum asked me "Tell me if you have hope and faith on something other than your religious beliefs and humans, could be fictional or objects"

I immidietely blurted "Sylus, a character from my game"

She was amused and asked me how.

I explained this small story how each time I carry extremely heavy bags, all alone, I would remind myself that being Sylus's mc, it should a easy peezy thing to carry. I comeback home happily amidst my silence and loneliness, all because I could open my tab and see the annoying dragon !

The curator was amused and was happy that I had something to hold on to!

I realised how much I really loved him! Truly the best!

[I would also clarify that I am grown adult woman, living alone in a foreign country with no support, so I downloaded this game because of Sylus. So do not worry incase you think I sound insane or cringe😭]

u/Formal-Cry4851 — 1 month ago

Gege photo dump

The first image is my attempt to recreate his graduation day photo. And the second one is to emphasise the yandere-ness of him.

Third one is just Nerd Caleb grilling barbecues for MC!✨️🎀🍏🍎

u/Formal-Cry4851 — 1 month ago

My MC is smitten

Just a random Monday post on Mr Dragon. My MC seems smitten by him!😚✨️

u/Formal-Cry4851 — 1 month ago

PG for men help!

My dad (52 M) has to stay alone in Chennai for a few months, starting from July and is seeking a pg for staying, considering they would have food facilities and laundry.

Would love to have some good pg suggestions closer to Chennai city, as his office is at Broadway.

Toodles!

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u/Formal-Cry4851 — 2 months ago

Superstitious mother

My sister (17F) got mild Chicken pox, and I am not near them (I live in another country). My mom is saying stuff like "Amma vandhuta, naalu naal kalichi dhaan pova" and all😭😭

She isn't allowing my sister to take wash her hair nor let her sleep on the bed. She is following bullshit stuffs like "No perfume in the home, no outside food, no sweets" and stuff like that. And she is not ready to apply benadryl/caladryl on those pox marks, and uses neem and turmeric mix instead (Na othukaren it has good properties, but this is too much)

The way she talks about "Avalukkulla vandha amma oru widower" and stuff like that genuinely irks me! Its a freaking virus.Worst part ennana na oru Biotechnology major, with research in Microbiology side. Na sonnadha kekamaten nu solitu she is doing stuff her MIL, sister and all suggest.

Worst part is my mom is educated with a masters degree as well, yet this plain stupidity!

Ennala mudiyala guys.

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u/Formal-Cry4851 — 3 months ago

Never accepted, always discriminated

Its a curse to born as someone who never gets accepted. Innoru sub la caste discrimination pannadha nu sonnadhuku, I got called in a certain casteist slur word.

My entire childhood, I was called "Madhrasi", growing up in the North and NE, because of my dad's low paying job in the North, even though he served the country. After returning to TN, never got accepted as "Tamil enough", and mocked for my tamil, even though I put so much effort into learning the language because of my sheer love for it.

Idhella vitu pona nammala yaarum discriminate panna maatanga nu, I got into a foreign university entirely funded by an elite scholarship, only to face minor racism as an "Indian".

Poragoraiku ponna vera porandhuten. Natta, karuppu nu physical judgements vera.

I realised I can never escape this cycle. And never get accepted.

(Also thankful for those very few friends I have, who never asked me about my backgrounds and have always been there for me)

Fucking hate being born into this world

u/Formal-Cry4851 — 3 months ago
▲ 260 r/bts7

Someone left few brownies at my dorm kitchen, and hungry me just grabbed one before cooking my meal. Sadly I felt extremely dizzy, breathlessness and felt an out of world experience. When I called my friend for help, she called the paramedics for emergency.

And then, when the paramedics asked me to point out t things in my room, I pointed out my Namjoon poster, even while I was unable to open my eyes. Also, started singing "Kerosene, Dopamine, Melatonin"...and hence started to giggle because of the Taehyung version. Until they took me to the hospital in the ambulance, I was singing random songs from Arirang, until they gave me medicines to doze off.

Funny incident, but the paramedics told me that I must be a devoted BTS fan😭😭

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u/Formal-Cry4851 — 4 months ago