Hey everyone! I’m solo traveling from Louisiana to Portland and catching the oct 24th game against charlotte fc… sitting in the supporters section🤭 anyone got some tips and tricks for match day? What does everyone do pre game? Thanks and I can’t wait!!
So for context, I am 21 mtf. I just told my dad I was on e for a month and some change like 3 days ago. He said I can be whatever I wanna be and I just want you to be happy. But he has expressed some discomfort with it before.
I was showing him and my mom the new car mats i installed into my car, and my mom seen some flower decorations on my ac vents. She said “that doesn’t look like something a 21 year old would have.” I said “but it’s pretty though!” My dad stared at me and said “you can like pretty things but that doesn’t make you a WOMAN” with like a mean tone and kept staring at me. Shattered me. The father I thought I loved so much just broke me down and beat me with words. I’ve been crying for two hours. I’ve had a goal of moving out in about a year on good terms but after that and previous conversations around this subject I think before I start looking too feminine I need to go. I wanna tell him “say something like that again and I’ll move out and we will never speak again” but I don’t have the balls to do that. I’m writing it on a paper and sticking it in his lunch box. Something I never in a million years thought I’d say. I loved him. Why did he have to say that? 21 years of the greatest life I could ask for from them for him to say that. I don’t know what to do or why I’m even typing this. I guess I’m so hurt I’m scrambling for something. Anything. What the f*k dude
I have a 2026 k4 ex that I’m trying to install some ambient lights in the interior. Does anyone know where a 10A accessory fuse is that I can use? Thanks.
So I’m 21 amab. Me and my family have a really good relationship (outside of the trans, they “support” me but don’t believe in it I guess? Made another post about it a month ago) telling them will upset them and change their view on me. I don’t think it will cause me to get kicked out, but it will definitely cause some kind of emotional pain between us. Part of their reasoning that it was bad was my previous mental issues were causing this like bipolar, and that I didn’t have a job, and I’ll destroy my life with it. But I’m starting a job Monday and my meds have been good for a solid few months. This is definitely missing a LOT of context, but the general question is do I risk the very good relationship I have with my parents and tell them or do I wait to tell them once changes start being more noticeable? Or never until they ask? Any advice or similar experiences are welcome! I can also answer any questions. Thanks!
Will try to keep this short. Basically I am trans amab, and I’ve already come out to my friends and parents, who are supportive of me and want me to be happy. However, I recently told my parents I wanted to start hrt. They were very much against this, saying it would ruin my life and be something I regret in 10 years (I’m 20 btw). They also pointed out how I was always very masculine as a child and never showed any signs of this, because every trans person is “like that since they were little” and I wasn’t. It wasn’t until about 16ish I started light questioning my gender and now I believe I would be happier as a woman on hrt. I don’t really have dysphoria, but pretty big gender euphoria for the other side. And yeah I’ve always acted like a man but inside I feel feminine and would like to publicly present as that, but I don’t know if that’s an okay reason to start hrt? The main problem is if I would start hrt, I would cause a huge commotion in my house and would probably have to move out, which is hard because I don’t have money or a job right now due to mental crisis stuff that made me drop out of college and then the job I worked at layed off everyone. Does anyone have a similar situation or any advice for me? Ty!