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https://youtu.be/Sa0sBKUiOvU?si=4JTv3fkklqSxvpPf

Is this a good workout for back?I dont have heavy dumbells so cant do rows ,hence this seemed the best.Just did it and feel like I would die due to the short rest.I have also ordered a pull up bar but anyone who had followed this ,ws this a good workout for back?

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u/FriendlyInflation379 — 3 days ago
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Are these manqabats, Nohas halal to listen, recite?

SO I think it can be said, that Qawallis of Nusrat Fateh Ali kHan, and like are not permisblle, as they contain haram instrument, to my understadning i think dums are only Allowed?But most qawallis include pianos and jazz like instruments.But what about nohas and Manqabat?I mean Al ghina, means rotating, or altering the pitch of a sound, dosent that mean any sort of tuning?If thats allowed for manqabast and nohas, then nohas...such of f.e nNaddem sarwar, mostly its Matam being played in the background, but "Nara ALi Da" had qawallish intruments in them?

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u/FriendlyInflation379 — 11 days ago

My thoughts on marrying early

I personally wrote like 10 pages but it has been summarised by chat got.

I’ve been thinking about why Islam emphasizes marriage so much, especially in a time like ours.

Modern life creates a really strange situation for young people. Marriage is delayed more and more because of studies, money, “being settled,” society, etc. Yet at the same time, we carry phones in our pockets that expose us to endless temptation, hypersexual content, comparison, fantasies, and stimulation 24/7.

And honestly, most young men struggle with lust in some form. Pornography, zina, fantasies, addiction, constant urges — whether people admit it publicly or not, it’s extremely widespread. Probably one of the biggest silent struggles of this generation.

What I realized is that Islam doesn’t just say “control yourself” and leave it there. It actually tries to structure relationships differently.

Modern dating culture often begins with searching based mainly on attraction. Young people look around for “the perfect person,” butterflies, looks, excitement, validation, etc. But when relationships are built mainly on attraction and constant searching, what stops both people from continuing to search once the excitement fades? Especially when social media constantly shows “better” options.

Islam instead pushes toward commitment, modesty, family involvement, and intentionality. Not forced marriages — those are wrong. But proper arranged marriages where families guide and help filter based on character, compatibility, deen, stability, and long-term thinking rather than just temporary emotions.

And honestly, parents often understand marriage and the opposite gender more than inexperienced teenagers do. That doesn’t mean they should force decisions, but guidance matters.

I’m not saying early marriage magically solves everything. Marriage itself has responsibilities and risks too, and not everyone is mature enough early. Some marriages fail, some succeed. But I genuinely think companionship itself can help reduce a lot of the loneliness, emotional emptiness, and endless craving that fuel many modern struggles.

A lot of people don’t just crave sex. They crave connection, affection, emotional safety, and having someone beside them in a halal way.

Maybe one wisdom behind Islam encouraging marriage is that humans were never really designed to spend years isolated, overstimulated, emotionally lonely, and constantly fighting temptation alone while the internet blasts desire at them 24/7.

Just a thought/reflection.

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u/FriendlyInflation379 — 11 days ago

Early marraiges,my thoughts (I know its a bit formal, and unusal for this subreddit,but mei bhi teen houn yar)

I personally wrote like 10 pages but it has been summarised by chat got.

I’ve been thinking about why Islam emphasizes marriage so much, especially in a time like ours.

Modern life creates a really strange situation for young people. Marriage is delayed more and more because of studies, money, “being settled,” society, etc. Yet at the same time, we carry phones in our pockets that expose us to endless temptation, hypersexual content, comparison, fantasies, and stimulation 24/7.

And honestly, most young men struggle with lust in some form. Pornography, zina, fantasies, addiction, constant urges — whether people admit it publicly or not, it’s extremely widespread. Probably one of the biggest silent struggles of this generation.

What I realized is that Islam doesn’t just say “control yourself” and leave it there. It actually tries to structure relationships differently.

Modern dating culture often begins with searching based mainly on attraction. Young people look around for “the perfect person,” butterflies, looks, excitement, validation, etc. But when relationships are built mainly on attraction and constant searching, what stops both people from continuing to search once the excitement fades? Especially when social media constantly shows “better” options.

Islam instead pushes toward commitment, modesty, family involvement, and intentionality. Not forced marriages — those are wrong. But proper arranged marriages where families guide and help filter based on character, compatibility, deen, stability, and long-term thinking rather than just temporary emotions.

And honestly, parents often understand marriage and the opposite gender more than inexperienced teenagers do. That doesn’t mean they should force decisions, but guidance matters.

I’m not saying early marriage magically solves everything. Marriage itself has responsibilities and risks too, and not everyone is mature enough early. Some marriages fail, some succeed. But I genuinely think companionship itself can help reduce a lot of the loneliness, emotional emptiness, and endless craving that fuel many modern struggles.

A lot of people don’t just crave sex. They crave connection, affection, emotional safety, and having someone beside them in a halal way.

Maybe one wisdom behind Islam encouraging marriage is that humans were never really designed to spend years isolated, overstimulated, emotionally lonely, and constantly fighting temptation alone while the internet blasts desire at them 24/7.

Just a thought/reflection.

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u/FriendlyInflation379 — 11 days ago
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Marrying early,my thoughts

I personally wrote like 10 pages but it has been summarised by chat got.

I’ve been thinking about why Islam emphasizes marriage so much, especially in a time like ours.

Modern life creates a really strange situation for young people. Marriage is delayed more and more because of studies, money, “being settled,” society, etc. Yet at the same time, we carry phones in our pockets that expose us to endless temptation, hypersexual content, comparison, fantasies, and stimulation 24/7.

And honestly, most young men struggle with lust in some form. Pornography, zina, fantasies, addiction, constant urges — whether people admit it publicly or not, it’s extremely widespread. Probably one of the biggest silent struggles of this generation.

What I realized is that Islam doesn’t just say “control yourself” and leave it there. It actually tries to structure relationships differently.

Modern dating culture often begins with searching based mainly on attraction. Young people look around for “the perfect person,” butterflies, looks, excitement, validation, etc. But when relationships are built mainly on attraction and constant searching, what stops both people from continuing to search once the excitement fades? Especially when social media constantly shows “better” options.

Islam instead pushes toward commitment, modesty, family involvement, and intentionality. Not forced marriages — those are wrong. But proper arranged marriages where families guide and help filter based on character, compatibility, deen, stability, and long-term thinking rather than just temporary emotions.

And honestly, parents often understand marriage and the opposite gender more than inexperienced teenagers do. That doesn’t mean they should force decisions, but guidance matters.

I’m not saying early marriage magically solves everything. Marriage itself has responsibilities and risks too, and not everyone is mature enough early. Some marriages fail, some succeed. But I genuinely think companionship itself can help reduce a lot of the loneliness, emotional emptiness, and endless craving that fuel many modern struggles.

A lot of people don’t just crave sex. They crave connection, affection, emotional safety, and having someone beside them in a halal way.

Maybe one wisdom behind Islam encouraging marriage is that humans were never really designed to spend years isolated, overstimulated, emotionally lonely, and constantly fighting temptation alone while the internet blasts desire at them 24/7.

Just a thought/reflection.

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u/FriendlyInflation379 — 12 days ago

Nerds Help pws, CS p2

Can someone tell how marks are destributed per topic.F.e on Pure psuedocode, how many marks come , then on string handeling, file handling , all the memorizating thingies etc thx

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u/FriendlyInflation379 — 12 days ago

It will be a win fucking win,Computer science....

Look, P1 will DEFINETLY be retaken, an its highly possible it will be in oct nov.Most of us will robarly give shitty p2 exams aswell.I think they kept june 9 as some reserve day, an since math p1 will be given on june 9, cs we will have to give on oct nov.Where we can give BOTH comnponents.Yes it will be a bit of drag, to drag this thing so long,and some of you wall, including me have to give exam entry test.But still, if they by now twll us that we have free take in oct nov, we can give like, 9 days for physics and not study for the incoming p2 at ALL

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u/FriendlyInflation379 — 12 days ago
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Music?

Whats the ruling on Music?Is it allowed,if so till what extent?Is singing allowed?Is playing a muscial instrument allowed?Is Qawaalli allowed?

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u/FriendlyInflation379 — 14 days ago
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ITS good that papers arr happening in june 9.Look,if were to give it in oct/nov ,we would have to learn all of the concept's again ,and then do past papers.Right know the concepts are still fresh in our kind ,and we know what mistakes we did ,so we only really need to do past papers and not sacrifice precious A2 time.

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u/FriendlyInflation379 — 16 days ago
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Now , although their is only little difference,but I was using this Al Quran app,and inTheir ,for every Arabic word ,the English translation was written beneath it, and then the whole english translation of the ayat.So I was reading the Ayat about wudu,and under the Arabic word ,it was written wipe(to your ankles),but when it was written,afterwards as the translation of thw whole ayat,it was written ,wash to your ankles 😭.So anyways after that,i was wondering if their is any website ,or app with our translation and Tafseer.

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u/FriendlyInflation379 — 22 days ago