u/FunTea8

Hello,

I am planning a trip for my graduation next year and St. Lucia is my top destination because it seems so beautiful.

However, for this trip it’ll be my friends, my partner and myself. My friends will be staying about 4 days while my partner and I will be there for the remaining 6. I don’t want to stay on a resort as I want a Airbnb and immerse myself in the culture and experience it.

My biggest concern is us being uncomfortable once my friends leave. Wanted some honest feedback or any recommendations for anywhere else?

Hello,

I am planning a trip for my graduation next year and St. Lucia is my top destination because it seems so beautiful.

However, for this trip it’ll be my friends, my partner and myself. My friends will be staying about 4 days while my partner and I will be there for the remaining 6. I don’t want to stay on a resort as I want a Airbnb and immerse myself in the culture and experience it.

My biggest concern is us being uncomfortable once my friends leave. Wanted some honest feedback or any recommendations for anywhere else?

When Shamea and Porsha were arguing , I just stared at her face because omg that is a FACE. Very gorgeous woman.

P.S I dont think Porsha telling the truth on Shameas mom BUT Shamea started that out of thin air. Then does this victim thing jumped from 2 different topics the whole argument. And when she was a friend of I really liked her but she (in my opinion) plays victim too much. And yes I do love Porsha as a housewife but im not team her 🤣 because she was trippin last season too

I don’t know how to feel. At times ive come to terms with it, other times I feel like I struggle emotionally about it. I’ve been friends with these 3 girls since 9th grade (2 since 7th) so just over a decade.

Our friendship has kind of went nonexistent after our second year in college. We still share locations and have a group chat. But in 2022 I went through a very bad relationship and my bestfriend told me “I don’t want to hear about it” , it hurt but those were her boundaries. I did feel a way because any time she went through it with a guy I was there, staying the night and checking in. After awhile conversations slowed down, I stopped talking in the group chat because all they would discuss was other peoples business. They don’t check in so I feel uncomfortable giving them life updates so they know nothing about the current me (half the time they don’t respond unless it’s about mess). I think I knew the friendship was kind of off when my bestfriend since 7th grade and I both got in relationships and we had no idea. She did send me a bear and chocolate when I was in the hospital and afterwards I had surgery but no one checked in.

Sorry I know this is a lot. But I moved (we’re still all in fl, maybe <2hrs away) , but they never visit and if they do they don’t ask to hangout. It’s sort of sad. It’s no hate, nothing malicious happened, idk. It’s upsetting but also necessary i guess. Any opinions? Because when I visit back home I do reach out to make plans but it doesn’t feel authentic like it did back then but I also don’t know if im overthinking it

I don’t know how to feel. At times ive come to terms with it, other times I feel like I struggle emotionally about it. I’ve been friends with these 3 girls since 9th grade (2 since 7th) so just over a decade.

Our friendship has kind of went nonexistent after our second year in college. We still share locations and have a group chat. But in 2022 I went through a very bad relationship and my bestfriend told me “I don’t want to hear about it” , it hurt but those were her boundaries. I did feel a way because any time she went through it with a guy I was there, staying the night and checking in. After awhile conversations slowed down, I stopped talking in the group chat because all they would discuss was other peoples business. They don’t check in so I feel uncomfortable giving them life updates so they know nothing about the current me (half the time they don’t respond unless it’s about mess). I think I knew the friendship was kind of off when my bestfriend since 7th grade and I both got in relationships and we had no idea. She did send me a bear and chocolate when I was in the hospital and afterwards I had surgery but no one checked in.

Sorry I know this is a lot. But I moved (we’re still all in fl, maybe <2hrs away) , but they never visit and if they do they don’t ask to hangout. It’s sort of sad. It’s no hate, nothing malicious happened, idk. It’s upsetting but also necessary i guess. Any opinions? Because when I visit back home I do reach out to make plans but it doesn’t feel authentic like it did back then but I also don’t know if im overthinking it

Ugh where do I start. Hopefully it’s not too long but chat or Claude isn’t helping because it’s not human emotions but I use it because my school therapy isn’t open yet.

Long story short , I’ve known my ex almost 5 years. I’ve been in a relationship almost 3 years. I’ve never cheated on my partner with my ex at all. My ex and I had a very toxic relationship. Backstory: me and my current partner got ina relationship the SAME year me and my ex broke up. But im not the type to wear my heart on my sleeve so i just brush it off. I’ve communicated with my partner that im not healed from that situation (just to keep it open) , my partner was very understanding and supports me because they also broke up with their ex the same year (also toxic).

History of me and my ex: I’ve been stood up multiple times with no communication but texts the next day like nothing happens. Forgot my birthday and said “im late happy birthday myb” about 4 days later. Stood me up on my birthday and found them on an hookup app. Would block me out of the blue then text me from a fake number 3/4 months later saying “i miss you” or calling me “bae”. And one thing that recently happened is that, they posted explicit videos of them and someone else and the next day sent me a vm saying “happy new year bae, i love you we’ve been through so much” , i didn’t respond to the message but found the video on twitter about 2 months later. Got upset because I didn’t want to cheat on my partner and sleep with them when they NEVER want to hangout otherwise. Has told me they don’t want to be with me.

My heart left sooo long ago as to knowing I don’t want to be in a relationship anymore. But my mind didn’t leave and I feel like it’s because im still healing from something that’s traumatic for me. And I never cross any boundaries because im in a relationship. I try to move on a be cool but the blocking out of the blue happened when we tried to be cool.

Today, they messaged me on TikTok and we had a convo that went good then bad then sort of back good lol. The bad was because they noticed I still had them blocked on insta (but they’ve been blocked for over a year, even when we were cool) but at the end they said “we can be friends can we please just move forward” and I want to because im cordial with other exs (just happy birthdays or congratulations, NO texting) but the other part is like no because no one else has ever done me that way.

Just lost and confused. I want to text and say “I don’t want to be friends” but I agreed to being cool. Just want some understanding and advice. You can ask additional details if need be.

Hello so I sent a wire transfer to Coral Estate Rentals, the Federal Reserve sent back the funds because they couldn’t locate the bank.

The banking information they gave me is different from the one on the website. Has anyone else had this issue before? or recommend what I should do? Any advice would help!

Hello! I wasn’t going to post but it never hurts to ask.

I’m really interested in growing my hands-on experience in either event operations project management or construction management.

I wanted to see if anyone in this community would be open to letting me shadow them for a day or even just have a conversation about their day-to-day work. I’m especially interested in understanding how projects are managed in real-world environments (field work, event coordination, timelines, etc.).

I’m based in the Orlando area but open to traveling nearby if needed. I’m not looking for a job, just an opportunity to learn and gain exposure.

Hello! I wasn’t going to post but it never hurts to ask.

I’m really interested in growing my hands-on experience in either event operations project management or construction management.

I wanted to see if anyone in this community would be open to letting me shadow them for a day or even just have a conversation about their day-to-day work. I’m especially interested in understanding how projects are managed in real-world environments (field work, event coordination, timelines, etc.).

I’m based in the Orlando area but open to traveling nearby if needed. I’m not looking for a job, just an opportunity to learn and gain exposure.