u/Fuzzy-Argument-3677

Girl with toxic parents. What should I do

I'm 17 and honestly don't know what to do anymore. I feel completely alone and trapped in my own home.

For years, my parents have blamed me for things I never did. Almost every day, both of them use abusive language towards me, insult me, and make me the target of their anger. My father lives in another city for work and has hit me in the past. My mother has been physically abusive many times over the years and often takes out all her frustration and anger on me.

The way my mother talks to me is genuinely heartbreaking. She constantly insults me, says horrible things about me, humiliates me, and makes false allegations against me. Even when nothing has happened and I've done absolutely nothing wrong, I still get blamed, cursed at, and treated like I'm the cause of every problem in the family. It feels like both of my parents have decided that I'm the villain, no matter what I do.

Things have become even worse recently. My parents want me to cut off my friends, stay at home more, and focus on household work and taking care of my younger sibling. My mother often threatens me and says my father will beat or punish me when he comes back. Some days it feels like I'm constantly walking on eggshells, waiting for the next accusation, insult, or argument.

What hurts the most is that I don't have anyone to turn to. Most relatives know how my parents are, but they either support them or stay out of it. No one in the family understands what I'm going through or is willing to help. I don't have a trusted adult, mentor, or anyone I can go to for guidance.

My parents have also talked about getting me married in the future, and that scares me because I already feel like I have very little control over my own life. The situation at home feels extreme and keeps getting worse, and sometimes I genuinely feel stuck.

I'm not posting this for sympathy or to make anyone hate my parents. I just want honest, practical advice from people who have been through something similar. If you were 17, completely alone, constantly blamed, insulted, threatened, and had no real support system, what would you do to protect your future and get through the next few years?

Girl with toxic parents. What should I do

I'm 17 and honestly don't know what to do anymore. I feel completely alone and trapped in my own home.

For years, my parents have blamed me for things I never did. Almost every day, both of them use abusive language towards me, insult me, and make me the target of their anger. My father lives in another city for work and has hit me in the past. My mother has been physically abusive many times over the years and often takes out all her frustration and anger on me.

The way my mother talks to me is genuinely heartbreaking. She constantly insults me, says horrible things about me, humiliates me, and makes false allegations against me. Even when nothing has happened and I've done absolutely nothing wrong, I still get blamed, cursed at, and treated like I'm the cause of every problem in the family. It feels like both of my parents have decided that I'm the villain, no matter what I do.

Things have become even worse recently. My parents want me to cut off my friends, stay at home more, and focus on household work and taking care of my younger sibling. My mother often threatens me and says my father will beat or punish me when he comes back. Some days it feels like I'm constantly walking on eggshells, waiting for the next accusation, insult, or argument.

What hurts the most is that I don't have anyone to turn to. Most relatives know how my parents are, but they either support them or stay out of it. No one in the family understands what I'm going through or is willing to help. I don't have a trusted adult, mentor, or anyone I can go to for guidance.

My parents have also talked about getting me married in the future, and that scares me because I already feel like I have very little control over my own life. The situation at home feels extreme and keeps getting worse, and sometimes I genuinely feel stuck.

I'm not posting this for sympathy or to make anyone hate my parents. I just want honest, practical advice from people who have been through something similar. If you were 17, completely alone, constantly blamed, insulted, threatened, and had no real support system, what would you do to protect your future and get through the next few years?

I'm 17 and honestly don't know what to do anymore. I feel completely alone and trapped in my own home.

For years, my parents have blamed me for things I never did. Almost every day, both of them use abusive language towards me, insult me, and make me the target of their anger. My father lives in another city for work and has hit me in the past. My mother has been physically abusive many times over the years and often takes out all her frustration and anger on me.

The way my mother talks to me is genuinely heartbreaking. She constantly insults me, says horrible things about me, humiliates me, and makes false allegations against me. Even when nothing has happened and I've done absolutely nothing wrong, I still get blamed, cursed at, and treated like I'm the cause of every problem in the family. It feels like both of my parents have decided that I'm the villain, no matter what I do.

Things have become even worse recently. My parents want me to cut off my friends, stay at home more, and focus on household work and taking care of my younger sibling. My mother often threatens me and says my father will beat or punish me when he comes back. Some days it feels like I'm constantly walking on eggshells, waiting for the next accusation, insult, or argument.

What hurts the most is that I don't have anyone to turn to. Most relatives know how my parents are, but they either support them or stay out of it. No one in the family understands what I'm going through or is willing to help. I don't have a trusted adult, mentor, or anyone I can go to for guidance.

My parents have also talked about getting me married in the future, and that scares me because I already feel like I have very little control over my own life. The situation at home feels extreme and keeps getting worse, and sometimes I genuinely feel stuck.

I'm not posting this for sympathy or to make anyone hate my parents. I just want honest, practical advice from people who have been through something similar. If you were 17, completely alone, constantly blamed, insulted, threatened, and had no real support system, what would you do to protect your future and get through the next few years?

I'm 17 and honestly don't know what to do anymore. I feel completely alone and trapped in my own home.

For years, my parents have blamed me for things I never did. Almost every day, both of them use abusive language towards me, insult me, and make me the target of their anger. My father lives in another city for work and has hit me in the past. My mother has been physically abusive many times over the years and often takes out all her frustration and anger on me.

The way my mother talks to me is genuinely heartbreaking. She constantly insults me, says horrible things about me, humiliates me, and makes false allegations against me. Even when nothing has happened and I've done absolutely nothing wrong, I still get blamed, cursed at, and treated like I'm the cause of every problem in the family. It feels like both of my parents have decided that I'm the villain, no matter what I do.

Things have become even worse recently. My parents want me to cut off my friends, stay at home more, and focus on household work and taking care of my younger sibling. My mother often threatens me and says my father will beat or punish me when he comes back. Some days it feels like I'm constantly walking on eggshells, waiting for the next accusation, insult, or argument.

What hurts the most is that I don't have anyone to turn to. Most relatives know how my parents are, but they either support them or stay out of it. No one in the family understands what I'm going through or is willing to help. I don't have a trusted adult, mentor, or anyone I can go to for guidance.

My parents have also talked about getting me married in the future, and that scares me because I already feel like I have very little control over my own life. The situation at home feels extreme and keeps getting worse, and sometimes I genuinely feel stuck.

I'm not posting this for sympathy or to make anyone hate my parents. I just want honest, practical advice from people who have been through something similar. If you were 17, completely alone, constantly blamed, insulted, threatened, and had no real support system, what would you do to protect your future and get through the next few years?

I'm 17 (in school)and honestly don't know what to do anymore. I feel completely alone and trapped in my own home.

For years, my parents have blamed me for things I never did. Almost every day, both of them use abusive language towards me, insult me, and make me the target of their anger. My father lives in another city for work and has hit me in the past. My mother has been physically abusive many times over the years and often takes out all her frustration and anger on me.

The way my mother talks to me is genuinely heartbreaking. She constantly insults me, says horrible things about me, humiliates me, and makes false allegations against me. Even when nothing has happened and I've done absolutely nothing wrong, I still get blamed, cursed at, and treated like I'm the cause of every problem in the family. It feels like both of my parents have decided that I'm the villain, no matter what I do.

Things have become even worse recently. My parents want me to cut off my friends, stay at home more, and focus on household work and taking care of my younger sibling. My mother often threatens me and says my father will beat or punish me when he comes back. Some days it feels like I'm constantly walking on eggshells, waiting for the next accusation, insult, or argument.

What hurts the most is that I don't have anyone to turn to. Most relatives know how my parents are, but they either support them or stay out of it. No one in the family understands what I'm going through or is willing to help. I don't have a trusted adult, mentor, or anyone I can go to for guidance.

My parents have also talked about getting me married in the future, and that scares me because I already feel like I have very little control over my own life. The situation at home feels extreme and keeps getting worse, and sometimes I genuinely feel stuck.

I just want honest, practical advice from people who have been through something similar. If you were 17, completely alone, constantly blamed, insulted, threatened, and had no real support system, what would you do to protect your future and get through the next few years? (They are so toxic, my life is turning into hell)