How can I know if I am naturally kind or if I am unconsciously trying to please others?
I made a Reddit post ( https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/s/UWDdLTKrad ) explaining that, despite being nice to everyone and always helping out, they treated me like jerks. Most of the people who replied to the post said that being nice shouldn't be confused with being taken advantage of. Yet, I do it because I enjoy it, it makes me happy and others happy too, even if many people take advantage of it. But the number of repeated comments and the fact that some people thought I was lying to myself made me think. How can I know if I'm not subconsciously doing all this just to be liked?