don’t even know what to say. these people are most likely the same people who expect everyone else sacrifice everything for them. selfish entitled fucking cunts please tone the fuck down. it’s not gonna kill you to inconvenience yourself from time to time for your community
been seeing it way more than usual lately. let’s all chill out until june ok???
it’s aapi heritage month let’s actually just chill the fuck out
i feel nostalgic and i’m craving more nostalgia
also using this to promote ditto by newjeans the only song to ever exist. everyone listen to ditto by newjeans
posted something similar in another sub just now but then i discovered this sub!!! apologies if this is a stupid question
what’s the difference between lucid dreaming and regular dreaming? when i search it up it says lucid dreaming is when u recognize that you are lucid dreaming but is that not the same when you dream regularly??
tldr: got raped in korea, living in america. want to report but dont know how.
edit any help would be super appreciated pleaseee i beg
21f korean living in america, parents sent me back alone to korea for a few months over the winter. i would visit seoul alone to frolic the streets at night and slept in the cheapest motels around the city. i’m a songpa girl but im pretty familiar with many & transit & fluent in the language.
anyway met a boy one night On my way! home from solo drunk karaoke. boy my motel room & asked to kiss me i said yes. that’s it.
and then he raped me lmfao. he was sober i was drunk. i lied and said i don’t drink just in case i got taken advantage of but backfired horrible hahahah
honestly it hasn’t affected me too much (besides my ego lol) but i really don’t want this to happen to anyone else. also he just sucked at everything god worst sex ever
anyway i want to report this but i literally have no useful info about him
all i know is he’s ‘05 studying chem eng, int student not exchange. i dont know his name but he’s half kazakh and half uyghur. i think hes from kyrgyzstan?
height 183cm i think? not super fluent in either english or korean. face was not bad but ugly hair.
iirc this was in myeongdong last feb. i don’t usually go to touristy areas but i just wanted the foreigner experience ok my bad never again
would i be able to report this especially when i have no info of substance? have i waited too long? its too late right idk please lmk. don’t want any kind of compensation just don’t want it to happen to other girls. actually money would be nice
is there anything i CAN do??
Ha…… 쒸발하필고대남
I just can’t believe it’s over. I can’t believe i wanted this long to start it. Silly 12 year old me decided s1e1 was boring and never picked it up im so full of regret and I owe so many of my friends sincere apologies for refusing to watch. My friends would always tell me that the office was my type of humour and that I’d really enjoy it, and I’d just say Hell No. Never. No they were right my friends know me so well I love this show I love sitcoms I love the humour
I love every single character. Except the bad ones.
I love Michael I was so sad when he left. I love Michael so much.
I love Dwight.
I love Jim and Pam both.
And Pam is overhated she’s such a sweetie. Don’t shoot me but Pam hate online seems a little misogynistic sometimes…
I love Stanley Angela Oscar Phyllis kelly Andy and Kevin reminds me of Hitchcock + scully from b99 I love them all so much I love Karen too
Temp Ryan was soooo funny and Ryan after I grew to love
Erin pissed me off at times but I loved her relationship with Michael their interactions were so cute and youthful
I love jim and Pam together I didn’t like that Pam cheated but fuck Roy he’s such a loser chud
I finished the show in just a couple weeks omg im so unemployed but I’m already planning a rewatch. Ok that’s it basically.
Also is there other lore I should know about or no
TLDR I love this show and I regret not watching it sooner
Edit: just things I forgot
Besides him being gross to Pam and being a weirdo freak he’s actually the most normal character and let off Michael soooooo easy. It’s funny how much Michael hated him but Toby was legit just trying to do his job (kinda). Also is it just a theory or is he fr the Scranton strangler???
And I super rock with whatever creed’s up to. I’d also like to get paid doing essentially nothing
i wanna integrate i want to contribute to society but i can’t find a post to comment on. either someone else has already commented what i wanted to say, i have no advice to offer, or some posts are just so jawdroppingly dumb that i just sigh and scroll. that’s about it ive been doomscrolling for like 3 hrs now
Hi 21F, posted my bloodwork results in this sub not too long ago. Thanks for advice btw I might’ve just ignored this completely if it weren’t for the responses lolll.
I ended up staying in the hospital for ~2 weeks because of my liver enzymes, no definitive diagnosis still since some of my test results are still pending. Doctors at the hospital didn’t think too much of this because they decided it was either anxiety (I take SSRIs but no anxiety diagnosis) or a medication withdrawal symptom (this started before I stopped taking some of my meds).
One of my main concerns was my body being super weak and unstable recently. It kinda looks like super over exaggerated shivering/fake seizures and im like. Muscle spasming, even when im lying completely still.
As of now, my hands are shaky to the point where I can’t close pen caps, writing has become super difficult, makeup takes foreverrrrrr, can’t hold an ice cube tray without spilling everything.
My knees shake uncontrollably when I bend over/walk up/down stairs,
My feet sometimes feel unstable when im driving (I try not to rn), can’t use transit because although I live in a fairly walkable area, I live in a foothills region. Couldn’t make it from the bus stop to my house…… I had to get my parents to pick me up……. From the bus stop….. closest to my house…… 500m..
I feel like im just rambling now and my point is clear enough… basically i realized i had to kinda self dx and “soft launch” a medical diagnosis for a doctor to take my symptoms seriously.
what do I do what could this be how do I manage???
Tired of living like this is been months now.
edit cuz i forgot to mention: please don’t say anxiety im so not anxious it’s definitely not anxiety
Edit: lovely user summarized my word vomit here
Hi 21F, desperate for advice ASAP!!!!!!!!!! Have a meeting with my manager in like an hour. Sorry if this sounds rushed.
Started working as an assistant at a medical clinic like 6 weeks ago. Im the youngest and newest and I have zero prior experience, but im quite fond of my job. Recently been experiencing workplace exclusion of some sort idk. The other assistants have been working for many years and they’re super cliquey, youngest after me is 25 I think? They were generally super helpful and all until recently.
I have become the. Person to blame for everything. I know i am the most likely to make trivial mistakes. I do own up to my mistakes. I still have lots of leniency, so the other staff have been taking advantage of it.
Recently I got really sick and was admitted to the hospital multiple times. Something about my intestines or liver idk and I missed around a week of work. I kept my manager updated the whole time, but obvi a lot of updates were last minute. It’s really out of my hands tho because thy still haven’t figured out what’s actually happening to me. When I came back on Monday, everyone was so super strange to me. I did come back with a box of expensive pastries tho!
Anyway first day back Monday, I worked 4 hrs instead of 9-6. got blamed for a phone sitch where a patient thought I was my coworker. She called multiple times and the acting manger eventually got super fed up (valid). Took an emergency appt request old white man and swear on my life nonstop told him we’d call him IF!!!! and WHEN! we could take him in. I guess he showed up later and demanded a dr see him and that pissed everyone off. Lowkey would not have been an issue if I had worked my regular hours.
There are sooooo many instances where staff would blame things on me Ex. Messing up an order/appt/machine/ everything idek. Then I get a passive aggressive talk from the manager. I’ve been just accepting my fate an keeping it to myself but now it has snowballed into. Idk complete shit.
Day 2 Tuesday my manager told me I’m not allowed to book appointments and should only do filing (paper based)unless someone is watching over me/I get confirmation. That’s fine I love filing , but it’s such a waste of time why am I even working! Inconvenient to everyone and the girl who was in charge of me looked overwhelmed w all the other stuff. Other staff would ask me to do things I’d regularly do but lowkey malicious compliance I’d say
Manager said I can’t do this today….😇
Anyway other staff were pissed at god knows what + me, no one spoke to me, I’d get ignored, just iced out. Girl in charge “A” called manager and said I was making her uncomfy. I had an attitude and I had a bitchy face all day spreading negativity.
Lowkey a) my skins been breaking out so I showed up w a mask on barefaced that’s on me tho. B) stand ur fucking ground ur like 25? She barely spoke to me all day.
Manager called in again and asked if I. Wanted to go home early (2.5hrs into my 5 hr shift lmfao) with pay and I was kinda hesitant but took it bcuz everyone was being so wtf.
I haven’t really been properly trained, can’t operate the Special Cool machines yet + a lot of little things that got left out. but people still expect me to know what I’m doing and get frustrated when I don’t. I get it I have no experience in this area but it’s not my first job and not my first time having coworkers…. Clinic is super busy but staff have been acting like im 10yo nepo with no social skills = taking more advantage of me. Not my fault im a youngho
I always ask for feedback and criticism I’ve been carrying around my notebook taking notes since day 1. No one ever communicates with me except drs and manager I have to investigate myself for info about me and I overhear my name be spoken (neg) like at least twice a week.
Im supposed to work 9-6 rn but manager sai don’t come in which im rocking with, my dear mother is super supportive telling me to quit but i love the actual job. Hate the staff.
Anyway idk what to do pls. WWYD if u were me idc if I do get fired anymore actually but I wanna clear my name cuz why r they doing me so dirty. Im not a lazy bitch im a type a crazy obsessive bitch. Aaaaaaaaa
Actually lmk if im in the wrong cuz i totes could be just oblivious. My head hurts I just wanna explain my pov to manager without coming off unnecessarily defensive.
TLDR
Scapegoat young new hire being blamed for every bad thing that happens at the office want to clear my name because im gonna get fired probs. WWYD pls lmk. What would my queens Malala yousafzai animated Barbie and Greta thunberg do.