i dont understand my wife
I just came back from a 10 day work trip and after coming home from a long flight and getting gifts to her , kids and my mom she started to argue with me because:
- dont tell your mother you went in business class - nazar and that she doesnt want you to be happy ( my mom does get a bit jealous when we go out but there is some history of neglect in her life. I take the wife on separate trips so she has her alone time)
- why are you talking so much to her- i want to talk to you too - we were sitting in a living room
- dont tell her how much fun the side trip was - she doesnt care about you
My mom and her dont get along and its an arranged marriage as i mostly grew up overseas and shes from pakistan ( but still exposed to overseas people as her family is now all outside as well). the cultural issues of nazar to the point that you will die the moment you show someone your prosperity is insane. it took a while to get to an understanding but we still have huge differences in compatibility but mostly we make it work... .
been married 10 years and i expected a warm welcome not a day that ended in a fight and me going to sleep without her even opening a gold necklace i got for her.
i regret marrying arranged and sometimes i regret marrying altogether. married life has been a challenge