u/Gothamb-atman

Hello everyone,

I have recently joined the team as a new moderator. My main goal is to make this subreddit a much safer space for all of us.

Moving forward, we are enforcing a strict zero-tolerance policy against harassment.

New Banning Rules

• Immediate permanent ban for anyone acting creepy.
• Immediate permanent ban for chasers.
• No appeals will be accepted for these specific bans.

How to Report Creepy DMs

If you receive creepy direct messages from anyone in this sub, please take action:

• Send a message to Modmail with proof.
• DM me directly with the details.
• Share the user details with the mod team.

How You Can Help

Please report any post or comment that breaks our subreddit rules.

Let us all work together to make this subreddit a safe and welcoming place for queer people

Almost all posts here are made by chasers and most of it's about seeing transgenders as eye candy or something to be sexualized.

This is just disrespectful to the trans community itself, like this sub is enabling sexualizing a group of people.

Idk why man posts made by people specifically says in the lines of "I'm attracted to the trans". You are just a creep if you feel that way.

It's normal to get attracted trans people, but if you are specifying that you like trans woman instead of calling them as women , you are a chaser.

Trans women are women....

All these people use offensive terms to describe transgenders..

What's wrong with you people

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I am scared, I don't know what to do.

I am 20 years old, MTF. My whole life, I have been afraid of something. After realizing I'm queer, I'm scared of my financial stability and safety. From then on, I've been trying hard to improve my portfolio and studies. But my studies are not getting better ( Doing above average ), I wanna follow my passion and transition. But I feel like I'm too late for it, I'm going to attend my last year of college, and my CGPA is only 7.93 as of right now. I planned to move abroad and secretly transition there, but I'm scared that if my CGPA is not high enough to go to a university in a queer-friendly country.

My passion is to be a filmmaker, but rn it feels like it will be just another dream I won't be able to achieve. I'm trying everything, but it's not enough, I'm scared that I'm too late. I am scared I won't be able to myself ever again. My parents want me to stay in their home for masters or near their home and work from home there. They are transphobic too.

Rn I'm scared of doing anything, I'm scared that whatever I do will negatively impact my plan.

Today, my parents checked my phone, saw a notification from a few queer servers, and asked me about it. I made up some lies and convinced them. But I'm scared that if they understood something, this is making me panic more, like I should be quicker.

They are already hesitant about the idea of going abroad to study, and mock people who go to study abroad. So I'm scared that they will even allow me, if they found out I'm queer, they definitely won't let me go.

Staying in India also concerns me; the Transgender Bill getting passed made it impossible for me to legally identify as a trans woman in India. I have to leave this country to be myself.

I dont know what to do... I am scared

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Happy Pride My lovely people

I know how hard this year has been. I know it is hard. But I'm glad you are all here, you are strong, you are fighters.

Each day we live is us winning the war. It is a "fuck you" to the bigots.

You are all here because you are strong, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

We were here centuries ago, we are here now, we will be here in the future

They can tie us down, but they can't stop us

They put us in jail, but they can't stop our unity

They can take away our rights, but they can't kill our spirit

Through us millions will live and fight......

We are here, we will always be here

We are standing on the foundation many fought for, we shall build on it with our fight for us, for our future

We shall fight

We shall never stop

Our fight is stronger, because we are fighting for our rights

For every queer folk

Happy pride month

keep living, keep fighting, keep winning

with love

A fellow queer

Happy Pride My lovely people

I know how hard this year has been. I know it is hard. But I'm glad you are all here, you are strong, you are fighters.

Each day we live is us winning the war. It is a "fuck you" to the bigots.

You are all here because you are strong, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

We were here centuries ago, we are here now, we will be here in the future

They can tie us down, but they can't stop us

They put us in jail, but they can't stop our unity

They can take away our rights, but they can't kill our spirit

Through us millions will live and fight......

We are here, we will always be here

We are standing on the foundation many fought for, we shall build on it with our fight for us, for our future

We shall fight

We shall never stop

Our fight is stronger, because we are fighting for our rights

For every queer folk

Happy pride month

keep living, keep fighting, keep winning

with love

A fellow queer

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TW: mentions of SH

How do I be less self-abusive?

IDK, what is happening to me, my self-abusive habits are getting worse. College, gender dysphoria, and stress are making it and my mental health worse.

I recently started to dehydrate myself, coz I feel like I'm a bad person and I don't deserve to drink water. I relapsed on SH after being clean for 4 months. I am hitting myself while studying. I know I won't treat anyone else like this. I feel disgusted the moment I try to do a self-love thing, like I feel I don't deserve it.

I am feeling extremely suicidal these days, too.

I am scared

I don't know what to do

How do I stop being so self-abusive?