u/GreyGoose37 — reddlx

had a great date and now im not sure whats going on with him

I (23f) went out with a guy (24m) from the dating app. we had a great date and genuinely did have great chemistry with each other.

he did ask me about how my previous times on hinge have been and I told him that it went nowhere because I got ghosted or they just treated me poorly.

after the date, he texted and said he had a great time. I was going to be out of town so we didnt make plans to meet but we were in touch via text. either of us weren't texting a lot like obsessively but at least two times a day we texted each other.

anyway once I was back, we tried meeting but it didn't go through. after this, he had to travel for a week and we were still in touch.

but one day, he replied to my message after two days telling me that work has been keeping him busy and that he wouldnt ghost me but he just hasnt been finding the time to respond. he also said let me text you once Im in the headspace

I said okay got it take care

its been more than a month. he still hasnt texted me. what does this even mean? should I reach out and does it make sense for me to reach out? idk this is so weird