u/Gyngemose2009

Fen lisesi mezunu 95 ortalama

Mühendislik mezunu (İngilizceli)

C1-C2 İngilizce

Potensiyel EA ya da SÖZ yüksek lisans

Gelişmiş genel kültür

Tercih sınıfım: Tankçı

Rum cemaatinde, yeni bir kişi katılır ise, o kişinin dahil olabileceği bir sosyal ortam var mı?

Rus, Ermeni, Katolik ve Süryani cemaatleri ne alemde?

Tabiki de bir mezhebe katılır iken mühim olan sosyal çevre değil teolojidir fakat yine de bu kiliselerde genç yetişkin üyeler mevcut mu?

Ps: I have GAD, ADHD and I had a injury 2 years ago that required surgery with fixed hardware

I started an internship but it was a stressful environment, it was in a smelly factory with dangerous loads and heavy machinery and vehicles, but it was close to my home. I quit there after the previous weekend I had a panic attack and my internship supervisor, friend and immediate family recommended that I quit because they believed from what I had told them (a bit influenced by ai but it had truth to it) that it was a dangerous and smelly place.

What increased my anxiety was talking with Aİ and it told me to quit repeatedly, it’s dangerous etc.

In the work environment I was getting accompanied and the odds of me getting injured weren’t high, I wasn’t going to operate next to machinery anyways but the road to get to rooms became too much for me.

After I quit, I started anxiety medication and my doctor recommended me to return to the work again if I could, so 2 days later I asked to be let back but the company HR head refused.

Even though I told the internship committee that I quit, they didn’t told it to the school administration for 14 days and they paid extra for my insurance.

I wish that they let me in back because now in my new internship it’s very far from my home with 3 commutes and 1.5 hours

AI later admitted that it needlessly increased my anxiety and that telling me to quit was a mistake and you should not listen to a screen that isn’t responsible for its actions😀

This whole ordeal made my anxiety disorder resurface again

At least thanks to me quitting, I could spend time with my extended family

The state would be run by the elected officials and parliament but the Tsar/Emperor would have residual executive powers called Royal Prerogative (declaring war, signing treaties, appointing ministers, granting pardons, dissolving Parliament) on paper that he/she would exercise with advice from the prime minister and cabinet.

before starting, I have GAD and ADD diagnosed, although I try to act like they don't exist. I also have had a past medium seriousness injury where I broke my bone and hat to get an orif so I kinda fear getting injured again.

greetings,

i started internship some time ago. I had safety issues with the workplace and this stressed me out for the entire week to the point I had a full panic attack at the weekend. It’s a dangerous work place with heavy machinery and stacked loads that could kill you if fell on you or crush you etc that here technically not required by the law (Turkey) but should employ a full time safety expert.

Even though I wasn’t going to interact with the machinery much I was overwhelmed by the anxiety and stress and my internship commission also recommended that I leave from my description of the workplace. And also with my parents permission. It was so bad that I was having my heart race just wearing the safety uniform.

Also the day I quit I chatted with Gemini a lot and it also made me more anxious and told me to quit. I didn’t quit because of the AI but it didn’t help me by making me more anxious.

I went to the doctor the next day to get some anti anxiety medication and he recommended that I should return to the work since I could learn to better cope with stress. I also learnt a lot about stress and anxiety management in the two days that I quit and called back

I called the job back but they refused to let me back in. I don’t want to disclose the full reason, but it sounded like lying and an excuse

How would a Taoist cope with this situation?

Bu gönderinin subreddit konusuna uygun olup olmadığından emin değilim ama önemli şeyler içerdiği için paylaşacağım.

İyi günler, Türkiye'de çevre mühendisliği okuyorum ve bu okulda 5. yılım olacak.

Dersler açısından şu anda 4. sınıf çevre mühendisliği öğrencisiyim. Yeterli dersi tamamlayamadığım için ancak gelecek yıl mezun olabileceğim. Yani aslında şu anda 5. sınıftayım.

Çocukken, ilkokulda dinozorları çok severdim ve paleontolog olmak istiyordum.

Ortaokuldan beri tarih, ordu ve stratejiyle ilgileniyorum. O zamanlar tanklarla ilgilenmeye başladım ve birçoğunda uzmanlaştım. Bu çok güzel bir tesadüftü çünkü dedem uzun yıllar tank çavuşuydu ve bunu sadece 1,5 yıl önce öğrendim.

Lisede kimya, tarih ve coğrafyayla da ilgileniyordum ve bu derslerde (kimya hariç) sınıfımın en iyisiydim.

Bu nedenle aslında askeri okula gitmek istiyordum (orduda yüksek rütbeli tanıdıklarımız vardı ve onlar yardımcı olurlardı), ancak ailem buna engel oldu. Ayrıca, görme bozukluğum vardı ve önce ameliyat olmam gerekiyordu.

11. sınıfta ailem tarafından manipüle edildim ve pandemi nedeniyle neler olduğunu bilmeden, sayısal hazırlanmaya başladım ve son 3 ayda sözel/ea bölümüne gitmek aklıma bile gelmedi.

Sınava daha sonra girdim, ancak kimya mühendisliğine giremedim. Babamın benim için bulduğu çevre mühendisliğini seçtim ve kabul edildim.

İlk iki yıl dersleri sevdim; kimya, ekoloji vb. güzel derslerdi. Ancak son iki yıl kelimenin tam anlamıyla cehenneme döndü. Bir dönemde 12 ders aldım (bunlardan 2'si tekrar dersiydi, bu yüzden bir dönemde 10 ders almamızı sağladılar). Kontrol ettim ve geçen dönem 12 ders ve bir bitirme projesi aldım.

Ve bu derslerin en az %50'si kanalizasyonla ilgiliydi: kanalizasyon arıtma, kanalizasyon toplama, denize kanalizasyon deşarjı, kanalizasyon tesisatı. Son iki yıl bir kabus gibiydi.

Çocukluğumdan beri matematikte kötüydüm. Bu, mühendislikteki zorluklarımda önemli bir rol oynadı. Şu anki not ortalamam 2.61 (bölümümdeki birçok kişinin not ortalaması benden düşük ve not ortalamamın iyi olduğunu söylediler).

Bu derslerin bu bölümde zaten dolduğunu bilmiyordum. Üniversitede tarih okudum (tarih derken, Bronz Çağı'ndan II. Dünya Savaşı'na kadar Avrupa tarihini kastediyorum, Demir Çağı'nı hariç tutuyorum, onu oldukça iyi biliyorum, özellikle I. Dünya Savaşı). Ayrıca antik çağ, arkeoloji ve benim için yeni bir ilgi alanı olan teolojiye de oldukça ilgi duymaya başladım. İslam ve özellikle Hristiyan doktrinleri konusunda ileri düzeyde bilgiye sahibim. Ayrıca ileri düzey İngilizcemin yanı sıra biraz da Yunanca öğrendim. Son birkaç aydır özellikle 1. Dünya Savaşı ve Rus tarihiyle ilgileniyorum.

Üniversitede ayrıca https://www.palaeolexicon.com/ adresini kullanarak eski Anadolu dillerini araştırdım ve Luvi, Hitit, Lidya ve Likya kökenli kelimeleri birleştirerek Anadolu dil grubundan kendi dilimi oluşturmaya çalıştım.

Lisede edindiğim bir beceri olarak Osmanlı Türkçesini okuyup yazabiliyorum ve Kiril alfabesini de biliyorum.

Lisede, Kıbrıs operasyonunun iki aşamasını bir kıza anlattığımda, bana tarih okumamı söyledi; keşke dinleseydim. Ya da en azından uluslararası ilişkiler benim için daha uygun olurdu.

Kültürlü görünebilirim, ancak bu kültür günlük hayatımda işe yaramaz.

Üniversite ikinci yılımın ikinci döneminde, ailemin ısrarı üzerine Erasmus programıyla Bulgaristan'a gittim ve bir kaza geçirdim, ayak bileğimi kırdım. Şu anda ayak bileğimde 8-9 vida ve plaka var.

Bu durum, orduda tank birliklerine katılma şansımı önemli ölçüde azaltıyor. En azından askeri okulda olsaydım veya Erasmus'a hiç gitmeseydim, vücudum hala sağlıklı olurdu. Bu arada, askeri okula gitmek de sorunlu çünkü 15 yıl boyunca bırakamıyorsunuz. 22 yaşında mezun olursanız 37 yaşına kadar oradasınız.

Erasmus'a gittiğim için sadece 3 ders alabildim ve yeterli kredim olmadığı için ancak gelecek bahar döneminde mezun olabileceğim. Yani, 23 yaşında, hayatımın 5 yılını boşa harcamış olarak mezun olacağım.

Bu kısım önemli: Bu yaz boyunca atıksu arıtma tesisinde stajımı tamamladım ve şimdi bir geri dönüşüm fabrikasında staj yapıyorum ve burası berbat. Tehlikeli ağır makineler, korkunç koku, nefret ettiğim bir işte staj yapmak için çok erken kalkıp işe gitmek zorundayım!!! Önceki yerimde çok yoğun çalışmadım ama burada çok zor, tehlikeli ve kirli bir ortam.

Keşke 4 yıl önce uluslararası ilişkiler bölümüne kaydolsaydım, bu saçmalığa değil. Bu berbat, kirli ve tehlikeli işten çok daha fazla ilgimi çeken konular bunlar.

Özetle: Mühendisliğe hiç ilgim yok; sözel konularda çok daha iyiyim. Subay olmak istiyordum ama ailem istemediği için olamadım. Şimdi istesem bile, katılmak istediğim tank birlikleri sınıfı için iki ameliyat olmam gerekirdi. Dahası, farklı dinlerden Türkler için bir cam tavan olabilir.

En gerçekçi olan, 2022'de ebeveynlerimi körü körüne takip edip mühendisliğe girmek yerine kendim için daha iyi bir bölüm seçmek olurdu. 17 yıl önce aptal bir gençtim, hiçbir şey bilmiyordum.

Şu anda her şeyin buna değip değmeyeceğinden gerçekten şüphe duyuyorum. Şimdi mezun olup tekrar sınava hazırlanır ve tekrar kayıt olursam 28 yaşında mezun olacağım, bu da yaşlı olacağım ve hayatımı daha da boşa harcayacağım anlamına geliyor. Belki ülkem dışında uluslararası ilişkiler veya tarih alanında yüksek lisans programına girebilirim ama 25 yaşında mezun olurum

I don’t know if this post fits subreddit topic but it has stuff that matter so I’m going to post it.

Good afternoon, I study environmental engineering here in Turkey and this is about to be my 5th year in school.

Classes wise I'm currently a 4th-year environmental engineering student. I can only graduate next year because I couldn’t finish enough classes. So I am like 5 now actually.

As a child, I loved dinosaurs in elementary school and wanted to be a paleontologist.

Since middle school, I've been interested in history, the military, and strategy. I became interested in tanks around that time and mastered many of them. This was a very nice coincidence because my grandfather was a tank sergeant for many years, and I only learned this 1.5 years ago.

In high school, I was also interested in chemistry, history, and geography, and I was the best in my class in these subjects (except chemistry).

For this reason, I actually wanted to go to military school (we have high-ranking acquaintances in the military who would help), but my family prevented me. Besides, I had poor eyesight and needed surgery first.

I was gaslighted by my family in 11th grade, and without knowing what was happening due to the pandemic, I started preparing for the science stream for the exam, and in the last 3 months, it didn't even cross my mind to go into the humanities/social sciences stream. We can only enroll in what we study for.

I took the exam later, but I didn't get into chemical engineering. I chose environmental engineering, which my father found for me, and got accepted.

For the first two years, I liked the courses; chemistry, ecology, etc., were nice subjects. The last two years, however, have literally gone to hell. I took 12 courses in one semester (2 of them were retakes, so they made us take 10 courses in one semester). I checked, and last semester I took 12 courses and a final project.

And at least 50% of those courses were related to sewage: sewage treatment, sewage collection, sewage discharge into the sea, sewer installation. The last two years have been a nightmare.

I've been bad at math since childhood. This significantly contributed to my difficulties in engineering. My current GPA is 2.61 (many people in my department have lower GPAs than me and they said my GPA was good).

I didn't know these courses were already filled in this department. At university, I studied history (when I say history, I mean European history from the Bronze Age to World War II, excluding the Iron Age, which I know quite well, especially World War I). I also became quite interested in antiquity, archaeology, and a new area of ​​interest for me: theology. I have an advanced knowledge of Islamic and especially Christian doctrines. I also learned some Greek on top of my advanced English. And now since the last few months I have really been especially interested in ww1 and Russian history.

At university, I also researched ancient Anatolian languages ​​using https://www.palaeolexicon.com/ and tried to create my own language from the Anatolian language group by combining words of Luwian, Hittite, Lydian, and Lycian origin.

As a skill I acquired in high school, I can read and write Ottoman Turkish and I also know the Cyrillic alphabet.

In high school, when I explained the two phases of the Cyprus operation to a girl, she told me to study history; I wish I had listened. Or at least international relations would’ve been better suited for me

I might seem cultured, but this culture is useless in my daily life.

In the second semester of my second year of university, I went to Bulgaria on Erasmus due to my family's insistence, and I had an accident and broke my ankle. I currently have 8-9 screws and plates in my ankle.

This significantly reduces my chances of joining the tank corps in the army. At least if I had been in military school, or hadn't gone to Erasmus all, my body would still be healthy. Btw going to military school is also problematic since you cannot quit for 15 years. If you graduate at 22 you are there until 37.

Because I went on Erasmus, I could only take 3 courses, and I can only graduate next spring semester because I don't have enough credits. So, at 23, I will graduate having wasted 5 years of my life.

This part is important:
During this summer time I finished an internship at sewage treatment plant and now I am doing an internship at recycling factory and it is terrible here. Dangerous heavy machines, terrible smell, I have to get up and go to work very early to do internship on a job that I hate!!!!!!! I didn’t work very busily the last place but here it is very difficult dangerous and dirty environment.

I wish I enrolled international relations 4 years ago not this crap. I am much much more interested in that courses topics than this crappy dirty dangerous job.

During my studies in this major I embraced Christianity and since I live in Turkey my parents don’t let me become Christian.

TLDR: I have no interest in engineering; I'm much better at verbal subjects. I wanted to be an officer, but my family didn't want me to, so I couldn't. Even if I wanted to now, I would need two surgeries for the tank corps class I wanted to join. Moreover, there could be a glass ceiling for Turks of different religions.

The most realistic thing would be if I just chose a better major for myself in 2022 instead of blindly following my parents into engineering. I was a dumb 17 years ago old I didn’t know anything.

I really have doubts right now if it’s all worth it or not. If I graduate now and prepare for exam again and enroll again I will graduate at 28 which means I will be old and wasted my life even more. I can maybe get in an international relations or history post graduate program outside my country but I would graduate at 25.

I don’t know if this post fits subreddit topic but it has stuff that matter so I’m going to post it.

Good afternoon, I study environmental engineering here in Turkey and this is about to be my 5th year in school.

Classes wise I'm currently a 4th-year environmental engineering student. I can only graduate next year because I couldn’t finish enough classes. So I am like 5 now actually.

As a child, I loved dinosaurs in elementary school and wanted to be a paleontologist.

Since middle school, I've been interested in history, the military, and strategy. I became interested in tanks around that time and mastered many of them. This was a very nice coincidence because my grandfather was a tank sergeant for many years, and I only learned this 1.5 years ago.

In high school, I was also interested in chemistry, history, and geography, and I was the best in my class in these subjects (except chemistry).

For this reason, I actually wanted to go to military school (we have high-ranking acquaintances in the military who would help), but my family prevented me. Besides, I had poor eyesight and needed surgery first.

I was gaslighted by my family in 11th grade, and without knowing what was happening due to the pandemic, I started preparing for the science stream for the exam, and in the last 3 months, it didn't even cross my mind to go into the humanities/social sciences stream. We can only enroll in what we study for.

I took the exam later, but I didn't get into chemical engineering. I chose environmental engineering, which my father found for me, and got accepted.

For the first two years, I liked the courses; chemistry, ecology, etc., were nice subjects. The last two years, however, have literally gone to hell. I took 12 courses in one semester (2 of them were retakes, so they made us take 10 courses in one semester). I checked, and last semester I took 12 courses and a final project.

And at least 50% of those courses were related to sewage: sewage treatment, sewage collection, sewage discharge into the sea, sewer installation. The last two years have been a nightmare.

I've been bad at math since childhood. This significantly contributed to my difficulties in engineering. My current GPA is 2.61 (many people in my department have lower GPAs than me and they said my GPA was good).

I didn't know these courses were already filled in this department. At university, I studied history (when I say history, I mean European history from the Bronze Age to World War II, excluding the Iron Age, which I know quite well, especially World War I). I also became quite interested in antiquity, archaeology, and a new area of ​​interest for me: theology. I have an advanced knowledge of Islamic and especially Christian doctrines. I also learned some Greek on top of my advanced English. And now since the last few months I have really been especially interested in ww1 and Russian history.

At university, I also researched ancient Anatolian languages ​​using https://www.palaeolexicon.com/ and tried to create my own language from the Anatolian language group by combining words of Luwian, Hittite, Lydian, and Lycian origin.

As a skill I acquired in high school, I can read and write Ottoman Turkish and I also know the Cyrillic alphabet.

In high school, when I explained the two phases of the Cyprus operation to a girl, she told me to study history; I wish I had listened. Or at least international relations would’ve been better suited for me

I might seem cultured, but this culture is useless in my daily life.

In the second semester of my second year of university, I went to Bulgaria on Erasmus due to my family's insistence, and I had an accident and broke my ankle. I currently have 8-9 screws and plates in my ankle.

This significantly reduces my chances of joining the tank corps in the army. At least if I had been in military school, or hadn't gone to Erasmus all, my body would still be healthy. Btw going to military school is also problematic since you cannot quit for 15 years. If you graduate at 22 you are there until 37.

Because I went on Erasmus, I could only take 3 courses, and I can only graduate next spring semester because I don't have enough credits. So, at 23, I will graduate having wasted 5 years of my life.

This part is important:
During this summer time I finished an internship at sewage treatment plant and now I am doing an internship at recycling factory and it is terrible here. Dangerous heavy machines, terrible smell, I have to get up and go to work very early to do internship on a job that I hate!!!!!!! I didn’t work very busily the last place but here it is very difficult dangerous and dirty environment.

I wish I enrolled international relations 4 years ago not this crap. I am much much more interested in that courses topics than this crappy dirty dangerous job.

During my studies in this major I embraced Christianity and since I live in Turkey my parents don’t let me become Christian.

TLDR: I have no interest in engineering; I'm much better at verbal subjects. I wanted to be an officer, but my family didn't want me to, so I couldn't. Even if I wanted to now, I would need two surgeries for the tank corps class I wanted to join. Moreover, there could be a glass ceiling for Turks of different religions.

The most realistic thing would be if I just chose a better major for myself in 2022 instead of blindly following my parents into engineering. I was a dumb 17 years ago old I didn’t know anything.

I really have doubts right now if it’s all worth it or not. If I graduate now and prepare for exam again and enroll again I will graduate at 28 which means I will be old and wasted my life even more. I can maybe get in an international relations or history post graduate program outside my country but I would graduate at 25.

Örnek: 2.5 GPA EEM ya da Makine vs 3.5 GPA siyaset bilimi ya da tarih ya da ilahiyat ya Fransız dili edebiyatı

İyi günler herkese,

Mühendislik öğrencisiyim. Geçen hafta cuma, stajımı bitirdim. Bizde iki tür staj var ve bugün diğer tür olan işletmeye başladım.

Sıkıntı şu ki bu başladığım yer tehlikeli ve zor çalışma koşullarına sahip. Ağır sanayide çöp geri dönüşümü yapılıyor. Birçok ağır makine ve çöpe maruz kalıyorum. Sürekli yüksek sesli gaz vana sesleri. Yüksek platformlara çıkmak durumunda kalıyorum. Demir sallanan platformlara çıktım.

Baret ve çelik ayakkabı gibi ekipmanlar mevcut ama yine de korkutuyor o kadar seni anında öldürebilen makinenin arasında olmak ya da binlerce kilo ağırlıktaki çöp kulelerinin yanından geçmek. Sıcak devasa makinelerin dişlilerin çarkların arasında olmak. Yürürken bile kocaman araçlar geçiyor. O geniz yakan ekşi kimyevi koku da cabası.

iş sabah 7'de başlayıp 5'te bitiyor. İşçilerle beraber giyinmek ve soyunmak durumundayım. İşe gitmek için 6.15'de uyanmam lazım. yürüyüş de var. Normalde bölümümün vardiyası 7'den 3'e kadar ama stajyerler 5'e kadar.

Bu durumun ilk hafta sonunda azalacağını ve daha ofis kısmına döneceğimi düşünmekteyim. Ama net değil tabi. Geri dönüşüm arıtma laboratuvarından devam edebilir. Makinelerin yanında olmam ama maruz kalırım gene de.

hanım evlâdı diyebilirsiniz fakat bana zor geldi. sizce 20 gün ölmemeyi umup devamke mi yoksa seneye ertelemek mi? Başka yerde kovalamak? Aslında 16 gün işe gideceğim bugünü atlarsak 15 günüm kaldı.

PS: Staj puanı not ortalamamı etkilemiyor diye biliyorum. Sadece geçmek mühim.

Canlılar olarak hayatın anlamı üremek değil midir? Üremekte başarısız olan kişi başarısız mıdır?

Ermeni ya da Rum kilisesine üye olunca, siz ve aileniz bu cemaatin okul, hastane vs. vakıflarından faydalanabiliyor mu?

Örnek: Rum kilisesinde vaftiz olan bir şahsın çocuğu Rum okullarından eğitim öğretim alabilir mi?

Is scientifically proven that women, young women generally, are attracted to dark triad traits. These are narcissism, psychopathy and Machiavellianism.

Narcissism looks like extreme self-assurance, ambition, and high self-worth.

Psychopathy looks like fearlessness, boldness, and a thrilling "bad boy" edge.

Machiavellianism looks like social intelligence, competence, and the ability to take charge.

These dark triad traits are in reality the complete opposite of stoicism. It sees people as expendable tools, it lacks impulse control, its cynical, it has grand self importance…

And honestly the Stoic traits are not attractive interesting and thrilling to women as the dark triad ones.

When I told about stoicism to a woman and the virtues like Courage, Justice; she thought it’s useless and made fun of Marcus Aurelius. She thinks that he is an extremely boring and serious person.

Stoicism lacks that fun and adrenaline and dopamine rush that is attractive to women.

Any thoughts?

I live in a Muslim country and there are mosques everywhere. One mosque has its volume set high and when the windows are open I get about 90 dB inside my home when adhan is being sung with open windows.

I am not Muslim and it’s 5:30 am here and I was just woken up due to this. I have to already wake up early and this ruined my sleep. I can’t sleep again.

It is very frustrating.

I can report this to the government and ask them to lower their sound but that would mean giving my name to want that and that is problematic.

I have a Bluetooth earphone but I don’t want to sleep with a Bluetooth device next to my brain.

Also my phone doesn’t have an audio jack and even if it did I don’t want to strangle myself with cord when I am sleeping.

I could move to a western Christian country but there is no guarantee a mosque won’t pop up next to my house and ruin my sleep again.

Any tips on how to manage the frustration and prevent waking up?