u/Hairy-Garbage282

Don't even know where to begin. Got married at 24, i was doing mphil at that time. I was earning well through social media but had no control over my fiances because it all went to my dad accounts which i didn't mind because he was already paying for all hostel university fees etc. I am the eldest , life was good until i got married. I was brought from my peak era in terms of studies / career to the ground. I never had any relationship before because of the idea that i was always considered as Izat protector (still now i am 26)

I didn't see any red flags and didn't realize how everything will change for me. In simple words kuch b mera nahi raha.

I feel like a puppet, half strings my parents have and half my in laws. I still live with my parents (my husband lives abroad ) i always brush it off when people told me shadi ke baad sab change ho jata hai.

My parents changed all the steps they took in marriage steps i realized they were for their own benefits. I can't do job cz izat protector as I will bring affairs home and my parents don't wanna deal with it. My husband on the other hand is just money making machine for his family (i don't get any benefits)

I lost my personality. I cry every night how helpless i feel. I do wanna go against everything but i have nothing. I am honestly living like a dead moving person. Lost my connection with Allah. Whenever i try to talk explain myself how depressing it is everyone tells me i am na shukri and look at other homeless people. My parents & my husband both can afford my studies very easily tho.

Don't even know where to begin. Got married at 24, i was doing mphil at that time. I was earning well through social media but had no control over my fiances because it all went to my dad accounts which i didn't mind because he was already paying for all hostel university fees etc. I am the eldest , life was good until i got married. I was brought from my peak era in terms of studies / career to the ground. I never had any relationship before because of the idea that i was always considered as Izat protector (still now i am 26)

I didn't see any red flags and didn't realize how everything will change for me. In simple words kuch b mera nahi raha.

I feel like a puppet, half strings my parents have and half my in laws. I still live with my parents (my husband lives abroad ) i always brush it off when people told me shadi ke baad sab change ho jata hai.

My parents changed all the steps they took in marriage steps i realized they were for their own benefits. I can't do job cz izat protector as I will bring affairs home and my parents don't wanna deal with it. My husband on the other hand is just money making machine for his family (i don't get any benefits)

I lost my personality. I cry every night how helpless i feel. I do wanna go against everything but i have nothing. I am honestly living like a dead moving person. Lost my connection with Allah. Whenever i try to talk explain myself how depressing it is everyone tells me i am na shukri and look at other homeless people. My parents & my husband both can afford my studies very easily tho.

Who is the best gynecologist in Sialkot?

I don't know where to start but the whole dental system in pakistan is so rigged and only care about making money

I don't know but my teeth are my biggest insecurity

My all teeth got cavaties i have multiple root canals and multiple filling but the cycle aint stopping for me even tho i brush alot floss mouth wash and everything but its genetic

I have had cavities even with my milky teeth when i was a kid

My no siblings have this problem Alhumdolillah

I am the eldest btw

Now my major concern is my front tooth with cavity

In Sialkot i haven't seen any dentist doing natural filling that looks like your exact teeth

I need honest opinion and suggestion on this

I haven't seen such huge discounts before. Idk how highfy is offering these insane discounts but its so hard to resist.

Do you have any experience of shopping from highfy?

I am 26F recently completed my mphil looking for jobs but my only preference is office jobs( I don't want to teach). I've got multiple opportunities from visa consultancy organizations but my father is against them.

His reasoning is:

-they are scam

-no personal growth/learning

-no environment

-you're gonna sit idle all day

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While my only intention is to earn some money because I am done asking for it. Even tho they offer less pay but I don't mind it because that lil amount will b enough for my small girly needs. Everytime I bring the job topic at home it turns into a jung at home

What to do?

Should I go against him?

I don't wanna hurt him tho

Wasted my 1 year in finding a good job. Now i think this is my only option but I don't even know a word of trading I just know that people do trading stuff. I always kept this as my last option as I don't find it interesting and was difficult for me to learn. Where should I start? I have very low savings (not even considered as saving lol) because its my money pocket I get lol. But I hard with trading you can start with even 5k. But idk where to start

I really want to know if anyone who has joined international fully funded internships or anything of such sort. Are these scams? I just came across few programs of korea n japan where they are providing all expenses, no visa cost or anything of such sort. I really want to experience going out of country on my own but I don't know if these are legit.

Looking for a job , 26F

I have done mphil chemistry but open to any sort of job except for teaching. I have good communication skills and very fluent in English too. I am skilled in laboratory research and various analytical techniques. Initially looking for laboratory/ research based job but have no luck in Sialkot yet.

In addition i have done ebay listing , content writing & make trending engaging reels for brands. I have a little know how of influencer marketing too.