Confused
30f, new to Bangalore. I have been searching for a one bhk recently in sectors 1 & 2. Earlier, I lived in shared 3BHK apartments in gated societies in Gurgaon.
This time I decided to look for a one bhk to focus on my life, work and avoid flatmate dramas at this age.
I don't have friends (nor a bf) in the city, but my brother lives nearby, plus a few acquaintances and may get some friends in office.
At the same time, I have another option to share a space in a 3 bhk pre-set up flat in Salarpunia serenity Society in HSR only . My parents want me to stay in a gated society and since I am new to Bangalore, it will be good to have flatmates. I don't know how the experience gonna be living in a standalone building all alone in a one bhk. It may feel good for a month or so but later I have a feeling that it may get depressing given the fact that I am single and don't have friends to rely on. I don't know how secure these buildings are and how easily any stalker can chase you down to your place in these buildings. Plus I lil afraid of all that “sannatta” at night like what would you do with that pin drop night silence living alone!
Having said that I also want a very private life for myself at this age and want to meet new people in the city, make new friends and also be active on dating platforms to find myself a partner and I need total privacy, freedom and a non-judgmental vibe there.
So I am confused whether I should opt for one bhk or should take the risk of living in shared apartment with other girls!
What do you guys suggest?