u/Hirenagakoi

Was under the first layer of strawberries and it’s a receipt for bananas!!

This is a the first cheesecake I ever made with milk and white chocolate on top and raspberries for garnish.

I sent my husband a picture of the cheesecake I made him 4 years ago and he judged my handwriting because he didn’t remember I made it. I’m happy to see he still would find the cake appealing though lol.

The “whose is it?” made me burst out laughing.

He was mortified when I told him I made that cake but we had a good 5 minute laugh about it. He’s so silly.

What the title says. I sent him a picture of the cheesecake I made him 4 years ago and he judged my handwriting. I’m happy to see he still would find the cake appealing lol.

The “whose is it?” made me burst out laughing.

He was mortified when I told him I made that cake but we had a good 5 minute laugh about it. He’s so silly.

My husband was DOGEd early 2025 and has since struggled to find a proper job, like so many other people. He’s had a few temporary positions and a corporate situation he had to ultimately leave because it was so toxic. This has surely affected him profoundly, specially his mental health. Thankfully we have been okay thanks to our savings and my full time job. I admire how he keeps on doing his best and has not given up for a second.

But I can’t help but feel… jealous. I fantasize about what I could be doing if I didn’t have a full time job. I’m so overworked that the negatives of being unemployed almost seem worth it.

I think about the things I could be doing with my time, the books I could read, the hobbies, how I would have energy to workout, clean and cook. How I could be a better wife, sister, daughter and friend.

I know it’s just a fantasy and that in reality we would really struggle if we were both unemployed, but god I just want a break. Nobody prepares you for how much corporate America will take from you.

Girl dinner was banana bread with berries, walnuts and maple frosting.

Edit to add: I don’t want to be a stay at home wife or anything. I’m passionate about my job and generally feel satisfaction from it. I don’t want to never work again but would love a little less, maybe a break, or at least no overtime.

2nd edit to add: He does take care of chores and most of the cooking, as well as taking care of our dog and supporting me emotionally. This is not a post about how he’s managing his time but rather how I wish I had more. I enjoy chores and cooking that’s why I wish I could have the time for it.

Im not sure if this is the right place to ask but thought I would anyways. My partner found these at the thrift store and I want to ensure these are safe before exposing myself or others. Thank you for your advice!