How do you find modern bikinis/lingerie when you have large breasts?

My Gf (24f) has very large breasts. G-cups (in western Europe, no idea if these differ by country). Recently, we went to France and she said she would have loved a more modern bikini (the one that has bottoms that are kind of like a thong). I said I would love to buy them for her, and we went to six stores: clothing store, lingerie store, sports store and two stores that sell a lot of things. This is across two different countries.

Barely anything fit, and the stuff that did fit was closer to a bland turtle-neck than a modern bikini. The really modern stuff wasn't even worth trying and the slightly fun stuff had too much side-spileage for her liking after she tried them on.

I know a friend who had this same problem. I use the word "modern" because that's what she used to describe that style of lingerie. She had to get a breast reduction. But the gf does not want that (and not to be crass, but neither do I. I just brought it up to her so she would know I would support that decision if she ever wanted to make it.)

Is there any other option, like specialized stores, or matching different bottoms to tops, or something like that? She's amazingly beautiful, but self conscious about her body image, especially after so many things don't fit her. I think getting her a modern bikini she likes would maybe help a bit.

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u/Historical-Doubt2121 — 2 days ago
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[BE] I am suddenly receiving dozens of e-mails about subscriptions I never took and someone logged in to my PayPal.

I am suddenly receiving dozens of e-mails about verifying subscriptions and logging into, or creating new accounts on stuff. All between 16:24 and 16:25, so dozens of e-mails in one minute.

Someone also logged into my PayPal and created some kind of security key with their Iphone 16. I booted them out.

I don't have any money on my Paypal, and see no charges made, but it's still concerning. Should I just change the password on my Paypal and e-mail, should I contact every single service they signed onto/logged in? Should I do something else? I'm not that tech savvy, so I don't know.

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u/Historical-Doubt2121 — 10 days ago

Cinema is playing 4 Akira Kurosawa movies. Which should I watch?

Hi everyone. A cinema close to me is playing:

- jojimbo (already saw this one)

-Seven samurai

- high and low

And

-ikiru

Which ones should I watch? Budget is tight, so seeing all four, or even three, will be difficult. We make decent money, but just bought a house and are celebrating our 6 year anniversary, so can't go wasting 200 euro on movies this month.

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u/Historical-Doubt2121 — 13 days ago

Is the [bridge nine] adventure scaled to 5 players?

In the instructions, it says 3-6 players. I'm a first-time GM and this seems like a pretty big gap. Should I change the encounters (like add an extra adversary), or does this seem fine for 5 players, of whom 4 are new to TTRPG's and 1 is new to the cosmere rpg but is a veteran D&D player and GM?

Edit: Just ran the bridge-nine campaign. 3/5 players showed up, two canceled a few hours beforehand. It was still a great play, bit combat-heavy, but they really enjoyed themselves. I was prepared to railroad a bit because none of them had ever done an rpg, but one of them just took the lead and helped the others. No need to railroad at all. It was awesome. When they were running from the big beast, I didn't even have to give options. One shy girl just said "I think I have a blanket. Can I throw it on the ground to distract the thing? Make it think something living is under there?" So yeah. Was great. Thank you for your help!

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u/Historical-Doubt2121 — 27 days ago

Help please! First time gm, what should I run?

I am a first time gm, and even the first time I played this game. I backed the Kickstarter, huge fan of the books, but never found the time to play. Now I do but I have a few questions.

  1. what should I run for my friends?

3/4 players will not ever have played any ttrpg. 2/4 have never really been introduced to the concept, only by hearing me talk about it. None of them are familiar with the books or this specific ttrpg. They're four women, only one or two will be very comfortable with immediately roleplaying a character that is not 100% in line with them as a person I think. One has openly said she's looking forward to exploring other personalities as she's not comfortable in her own skin, and I think the whole goal/what's keeping you from that goal-system will be good for her mentally. We plan on playing 4-5 hours max, with no guarantee that there will be a second session. Maybe if they like it.

I know there's a sort of session 0, "first steps". I have it, but since this might be our only time playing, I don't know if it will be as useful. Especially if we're only playing once. I also know that there's some fun, Halloween themed one-shot in a cellar or something? That might be cool. Or bridge nine.

  1. In what degree should I have my players make their own PC, and how much should I have them do beforehand?

They're new, so my original plan was to offer pre-mades to those who did not want to bother/were overwhelmed by character creation, sending the online tool to the one experienced person and helping the rest create a simple character before we start. Is this realistic in the timeframe/fun for them you think, or should I do something else?

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u/Historical-Doubt2121 — 1 month ago

Do you think heaven exists outside of time?

Many people believe God exists outside of time, but do theologists believe heaven exists outside of time?

For instance, when you get to heaven, do you think you will only be able to meet your loved ones that have died, and you will have to wait some time for the rest to appear, or do you believe you will be able to see all your loved ones, and everyone that will ever be born?

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u/Historical-Doubt2121 — 2 months ago

What is a comfortable car with a decent trunk that's easy to work on?

I'm driving an old 2010 Renault Megane II right now. I love how comfortable it is, seats like you're in your couch at home. I can drive for hours and never feel my back or knees ache which wasn't the same with my parents cars (fairly new Volvo and Volkswagen). It's also got a fairly decent trunk. Enough to do some small moving when needed.

But getting parts for it is a real pain. Renault is apparently not too great at disclosing what parts are in a car, so it's a whole hassle. It's also weirdly constructed. Recently I changed the springs. And I had to take off the windwipers to remove them, which I thought was weird (though I'm not a mechanic, maybe this has become standard).

What cars have that kind of comfort, with a decent trunk, while still being relatively easy to get parts for and work on? I don't really care about the horsepower - as long as it's enough to get me on the highway good and proper - and don't really care for most other stuff concerning a car.

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u/Historical-Doubt2121 — 3 months ago

What springs do I need for my Renault Megane II station wagon?

It's a gasoline car from 2010, 2.0. The colour on the current spring is blue/yellow.

My spring broke in three pieces during a car test (can't legally drive it anymore until I fix it), but having springs (and shock dampeners, while I'm in there) changed by someone else is very expensive. Cheapest garage quoted me 650 euro's. In my country, that's more than a quarter of a month's wage. The parts themselves in a store I trust would come to about 200 euro or a bit more. Way more affordable. I have a lot of experience working on my car, and my dad has actually changed springs and shock dampeners before and will show me.

Thing is, the parts store bassicly told me Renault doesn't tell them what parts go on what Renault. My Renault garage won't be able to tell me till about Tuesday, but I would love to fix it up earlier, as I have today and Friday off of work.

I know what shock dampeners to get, code: 543020057R, but don't know what spring might fit it. Can anyone help?

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u/Historical-Doubt2121 — 3 months ago