Hello Ladies,
I want to invest moderately in some beautiful funky dresses for daily and party wear. I'm size m, with my hips being widest. Height 5'5".
Can you recommend something beyond H&M and Zara.
Hi,
Despite having 13 years of job experience I'm unable to get interview calls. I quit my last job because things got overwhelming. I couldn't think straight.
And to add to things, I'm divorced. Really not sure what's wrong.
Can someone help? Please see I won't be able to pay. Sorry.
Dob aug 16 1991
I am so so so mind fucked.
Female. Divorced. Single. Unemployed.
I have moved back to my parents’ house after 15 years almost of being out and about due to studies and work. Now since I am in between jobs, I decided to move back to save on rent and honestly wanted to address my mental health. This decision was taken after discussing things with them. However its 7 months already that I am jobless. I believed within few months I will get a job again but that did not happen. Now the anxiety of rejections and not getting a job is high. Then comes random (may be from the core of concern) comments like why I am being so picky about men or when will I be married.
Now, today as of this morning, I had an interview. I think I did okay there rather not. I was guilty of not being able to give my best, may be under prepared. I step out of my room and I hear my dad lashing at my mom for some reason. Now that irritates me more. This man has a habit of throwing away his emotions to the world at slightest inconvinence and seeing him again do it to my mom angered me further. I ignored it for few mins. Now I sit to have my breakfast. I was suppose to have it an hour back but couldn’t due to interview so sat to have it now. When I open the box I see something unhealthy is made. Mom had clearly mentioned she would make a healthy dish for me (basically healthy bread) but when I saw it, I lashed out on her. Like why can’t they understand that I am trying to lose weight and that I like eating healthy stuff. Why despite communicating that they would make healthy bread for me there is a partha in the box. And that too after an hour of scheduled time that I said I would have be having my breakfast at.
I yelled at her real bad. Deep down I was angry because she could not tell my SIL to make a separate dish for because my SIL was lazy and hence mom was okay with whatever she made.
I hate being taken for granted everytime. My mom will not say a word to my SIL, but make me adjust to her wishes. This is me despite contributing to house hold expenses and some chores. I am not eating free food. I know mom is old and she can do so much but she will do a lot more because she does not want her son to earn and spend more. Despite me being a daughter I chip in the house hold expenses because my father never earned. I am tired. I am tired being a giver especially when I am not even heard or understood. I do not feel anyone gets me.
Hi beautiful ladies (dear men you may please skip this post)
I had this random thought and I was like let me check it with you once instead of assuming.
Background:
34F. Divorced. I have been single for over two years now. Currently based in Gujarat, since I'm in between jobs. Looking out for the next opportunity but the market seems bad. I have lived most of my life in Mumbai (education+work) and spent 2 years in Delhi NCR. I'm a happy go lucky person..healed from things though my pms makes me a bit too sad. I have been pretty independent all my life and I would like it if a man can lead things with respect and care. I'm 5'5", decent built. I can be a good support in challenging times and equally childlike when things are good. Would like to be childfree.
Concern:
For past 2 years that I was in Delhi NCR,I tried dating apps but my experience was okay. Did not meet any interesting man. And now that I'm based in a small town in Gujarat, dating life is on pause. I tried using Hinge with mumbai as a placeholder location but given geographical challenges, age factor (completely understand that at this age it's better to meet in person than text) and for abundance of choice, most conversations died out.
What do I need from you?
I was wondering if you would be open to set me up with a reliable friend of yours. let me be honest - I'm putting my faith in our community and believe that women can be a good judge of a men's character.
So, would you like to help me out? If you are, let's connect and we can discuss things?
Feel free to let me know if this is a stupid idea. I'll take down the post,if needed. Like I said,I'm just trying my luck and putting things out to the universe.
Hi beautiful ladies (dear men you may please skip this post)
I had this random thought and I was like let me check it with you once instead of assuming.
Background:
34F. Divorced. I have been single for over two years now. Currently based in Gujarat, since I'm in between jobs. Looking out for the next opportunity but the market seems bad. I have lived most of my life in Mumbai (education+work) and spent 2 years in Delhi NCR. I'm a happy go lucky person..healed from things though my pms makes me a bit too sad. I have been pretty independent all my life and I would like it if a man can lead things with respect and care. I'm 5'5", decent built. I can be a good support in challenging times and equally childlike when things are good. Would like to be childfree.
Concern:
For past 2 years that I was in Delhi NCR,I tried dating apps but my experience was okay. Did not meet any interesting man. And now that I'm based in a small town in Gujarat, dating life is on pause. I tried using Hinge with mumbai as a placeholder location but given geographical challenges, age factor (completely understand that at this age it's better to meet in person than text) and for abundance of choice, most conversations died out.
What do I need from you?
I was wondering if you would be open to set me up with a reliable friend of yours. let me be honest - I'm putting my faith in our community and believe that women can be a good judge of a men's character.
So, would you like to help me out? If you are, let's connect and we can discuss things?
Feel free to let me know if this is a stupid idea. I'll take down the post,if needed. Like I said,I'm just trying my luck and putting things out to the universe.
I might be overthinking but help me understand this
The house that I live in with my parents currently, feels very heavy. It's been like this for years. Most of the times people living there are irritated or tired. We moved in this house in 1992. The house is usually unkept - not ocd clean - cluttered, and so are people - parents don't put effort in dressing up -initially it was due to lack of money and loss of interest.
Here are somethings that have happened in our lives -
My father lost his youngest child (my sibling) in 1999
My father's business - which was flourishing took a hit post that due to dad's lack of focus and we never recovered
Since 2001 we are facing financial issues, which in turn causes tension in the house and other challenges.
Grandfather passed away in 2014 - as per doc's he didn't have any severe health issues but he always felt something is wrong with him. He took medicines for smallest of ache.now my father does the same.
I got into an abusive marriage in 2019 which ended in divorcd in 2023. Despite knowing the red flags,I couldn't take a stand for myself
Grandmother died in 2024 - prolonged illness - spent heavily for her doc and meds - she gave strong energies of being a jealous person and she was until last 2 years of her life
On some instances we have found packers with sindoor and rice and other things inside and outside the house. Despite of being honest and hardworking both me and my brother do not do well professionally. Health has always been a concern. It started with my grandfather then grandmother and now my dad. There's always someone who is unwell or sick.
I don't know why I feel my house is cursed or some spell has been done on it. I don't see any reason why the tension and irritation still exists in our house.
Is there any way we can confirm this?
I'm based in Gujarat, India
I might be overthinking but help me understand this
The house that I live in with my parents currently, feels very heavy. It's been like this for years. Most of the times people living there are irritated or tired. We moved in this house in 1992. The house is usually unkept - not ocd clean - cluttered, and so are people - parents don't put effort in dressing up - initially it was due to lack of money and loss of interest.
Here are somethings that have happened in our lives -
My father lost his youngest child (my sibling) in 1999
My father's business - which was flourishing took a hit post that due to dad's lack of focus and we never recovered
Since 2001 we are facing financial issues,which in turn causes tension in the house and other challenges.
Grandfather passed away in 2014 - as per doc's he didn't have any severe health issues but he always felt something is wrong with him. He took medicines for smallest of ache.now my father does the same.
I got into an abusive marriage in 2019 which ended in divorcd in 2023. Despite knowing the red flags,I couldn't take a stand for myself
Grandmother died in 2024 - prolonged illness - spent heavily for her doc and meds - she gave strong energies of being a jealous person and she was until last 2 years of her life
On some instances we have found packers with sindoor and rice and other things inside and outside the house. Despite of being honest and hardworking both me and my brother do not do well professionally. Health has always been a concern. It started with my grandfather then grandmother and now my dad. There's always someone who is unwell or sick.
I don't know why I feel my house is cursed or some spell has been done on it. I don't see any reason why the tension and irritation still exists in our house.
Is there any way we can confirm this?
I'm based in Gujarat, India
I've spent over a decade in the ad tech space, working on the publisher side - product owned companies primarliy. My skills include partnerships, monetisation strategy, some technical work, some commercial negotiation. I've had a okay okay run by most measures, but I'm starting to feel like I'm maxing out the growth curve in this lane and I want to think seriously about what's next.
Now that I am on a career break for past 6 months I am not sure what to do next. I'm not in a rush, I'm not burned out I just want to be intentional about the next chapter before inertia makes the decision for me.
A few things I'm genuinely curious about:
- For those who've pivoted out of ad tech / media partnerships after a long stint where did you land, and how did the transition actually go?
- My background sits at the intersection of commercial (accounts, negotiation, growth) and somewhat technical (platform ops, data analysis). What adjacent industries or roles do you think that maps well to?
- Did anyone go into consulting, SaaS, or something completely different? Would love to hear what worked and what didn't.
Not looking for a pep talk, just real perspectives from people who've been at this crossroads. What would you do?