since im like that, so im just wondering how many of you find that to be a red flag or a turn off.
the rest who want to vc with someone random feel free to hmu
I'm one week into my employment and my mental health is in shambles, bros. I quit.
Rule number 1 of this sub told me to introduce myself so that's what I'll do.
Things I'm currently doing: I'm currently downloading episode 1 of Jujutsu Kaisen. I'm currently 25. I'm currently lying in bed stressing about the new job I'm supposed to start tomorrow.
Wait, enough of this order, let there be chaos.
Basically I'm kind of a mess in life. I've been unemployed for the last 3 years :/
I changed my name two times because I don't know how to feel REAL! :>
I spent all highschool in isolation. >_<
I'm almost about to cry because I feel like an utter failure. Otter?
F-- duck duck duck... Ahhhhh.
Oh, and I'm kinda a dude, and in my 20s.
OH, wait, and the reason I'm making this is because I'm incredibly sensitive and clingy and I want to validate myself and not depend on others for validation
I'm 25 and I've been mentally really unwell to the point of being hospitalized and the last 1.5 years I've spent in therapy, hospital programs and such.
Now that I'm officially done with treatment (not because I feel ready, but because the program ended), and my mental health improved a tiny bit (I'm no longer wildly suicidal) so I'm still quite anxious and whatnot, I've anyway gotten a job by being recommended to an agency by a friend. It lasts only 2 and a half months and I might only work 5-6h a day, but the thought of it still stresses me out to the point to the point that I feel my stomach cramping and my body being stiff from anxiety.
What really stresses me out is that I'll have to be really comfortable in my skin as it's a job of an animator. Dancing is something I'm comfortable with if I'm with a friend on a concert but having to come up with or follow along a choreography is way much harder because I find it hard to think clearly under stress.
I have no one to vent this to, because honestly I find it hard not to think of myself as a burden to others, and I feel that ultimately no one can help me but me.
I just care so much about what others think of me, and it's making me so dysfunctional.
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That's what Baby Lasagna says in his song from last year's eurovision, at least.
Hey, I'm just looking forward to meeting people on a open, wholesome level. I've already found one cool person, but I like getting to know different folk with different stories and hobbies and interests.
My hobbies aren't too varied as I'm in a 1v1 death match with depression and I'm keeping up but it's not always easy. I just finished my 6 month long program in a hospital setting so I don't wanna fall out of touch with people so I'd rather stay involved, online at least.
I have memes to share, I try to be an okay person who can hear you out and I prioritize myself when I need to, such as taking a little longer to reply but I would say if I need to do so.
Btw hoping to meet people mostly of my age (23-27) but any age is fine so don't shy away.
I'm not talking about the obviously creepy posts, I'm asking about the posts that aren't in any way offensive or harmful. Like, so many posts, especially for men, are downvoted and the girls get more upvotes.
Even if you guys are here exclusively just to talk to women you can reach out respectfully and if you're interesting enough someone will respond eventually, but disliking posts is just low.
That's what Baby Lasagna says in his song from last year's eurovision, at least.
Hey, I'm just looking forward to meeting people on a open, wholesome level. I've already found one cool person, but I like getting to know different folk with different stories and hobbies and interests.
My hobbies aren't too varied as I'm in a 1v1 death match with depression and I'm keeping up but it's not always easy. I just finished my 6 month long program in a hospital setting so I don't wanna fall out of touch with people so I'd rather stay involved, online at least.
I have memes to share, I try to be an okay person who can hear you out and I prioritize myself when I need to, such as taking a little longer to reply but I would say if I need to do so.
Btw hoping to meet people mostly of my age (23-27) but any age is fine so don't shy away.
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Halo ^^
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Zanima me je l' bi mogao naći prijatelje ili curu ovak online. Skroz vjerujem da muško i žensko mogu bit prijatelji btw, tako da ak ne upali romansa sve pet :)
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Ovaj post će bit kratak tako da lakše vidite oćemo vibe-at.
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Moje snage:
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-trudim se bit emocionalan zreo, emocionalna podrška drugima
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-ako idemo plesat možeš računati da ću plesati bilogdje na svoj slobodni način bez ikakvih stimulansa
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-ponekad smiješan i vjerojatno dječačkog duha (bar mi tako drugi kažu)
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Što volim:
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-sigurnu atmosferu, ali i avanture kad se bolje upoznamo
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-indie pjesme, ali što se tiče glazbe skoro sve mi paše
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-alternativnu odjeću! it's soooo cool
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-engleski
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-psihologiju
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-plesati (bez stila :P)
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-wholesomeness
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-šašavost i otvoren um
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-duboke razgovore, tu i tamo!
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-mogu pričati o filmovima, serijama i anime-ama.
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-festivale (pogotovo ako su besplatni lol)
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Moje mane:
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-mučim se sa anksioznošću i deprom
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-ponekad slabo postavljam granice i prioritiziram druge preko sebe i onda me poslije to ubija jer imam strah od napuštanja
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-nemam puno para lol (zato volim besplatnu zabavu ili bar jeftinu)
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-ponekad pre-povodljiv i impulzivan
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-ponekad sam awkward zbog anksioznosti
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-bojim se golubova i ne volim osjećaj tijekom plivanja
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Chill upoznavanje za ljude kojima bi pasalo chill druženje, možda na Jarunu. Sjednemo u krug ko u AAA i pričamo i upoznavamo se. Možemo raditi štagod nam se radi, igrat odbojku, nogomet, imat piknik, plivat ko je hrabar haha, i tako.
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Ja sam Oskar, 25 mi godina i javite se ako vam to zvuči lijepo.
i figure u guys r chill and non judgemental so pls hit me up if u just wanna share a drink called loneliness with me
been more social recently irl, but online counts as well so I'd be up for talking and meeting new peeps here too.
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i feel like im pretty bland person with no interests (i dont wanna be mean to myself but it's how i feel).
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dunno what to talk about but perhaps we hit it off somehow.
tbh im a little tired of virtually talking to people and im more in the phase of meeting up with people since it's nice and hot outside. so hmu if you're croatian and in zg
spol nije bitan!
Bok, ja sam Oskar, brzo ce mi 26 godina i trenutno se fokusiram na svoje mentalno zdravlje sto ukljucuje i ucenje zdravog nacina socijaliziranja. Šetnja, bicikliranje, upoznavanje bez predrasuda (naravno, lakše reć nego u praksi, ali potrudit ću se ne sudit). Otvoren sam za svakakva nova iskustva, ja bih rekao! Ako imaš pse onda šetnja s njima bi mi bila preforaaa, jer volim pse. Pričati o knjigama, filmovima, glazbi, sve mi je to lijepo. Volim i tišinu, iako znam ponekad postat nervozan i reć bezazlenu glupost, ali trudim se to spriječiti.
Ali da dam disclaimer, u title-u sam napiso da zaostajem u zivotu, i to je istina i to me nervira, ali pokusavam se suocit s time svojim tempom, pa bih cijenio da ako mi posaljete poruku da me ne osudite grdo na temelju mojih mana. Ne tražim spasitelja, samo nekoga s kim mogu razvit svoju socijalnu stranu malo više.
Cijenim ljude koji su malo djetinjastog duha, ali koji vole i duboke razgovore.
Btw, zadnja napomena, ako ti koji čitaš nisi zaostao/la u životu, to je skroz okej.
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