u/Honey6703

why was i more comfortable at eye contact with one person than another?

the other day i was introduced to a mutual friend of mine. i’d never met him before, but was actually able to look at him a bit.

this sounds weird, i know. the reason i was thinking about this is that i’m very neurodivergent, and I’m typically super uncomfortable with eye contact longer than a few seconds. i found it surprising how easy it was to look at him, especially when i had no connection or anything to make me more comfortable. even my friend said she had noticed i was able to look at him and was proud of me.

it got me thinking…why was i more comfortable looking at him especially when i rarely look at others?

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u/Honey6703 — 8 days ago

i was actually comfortable with eye contact for once

the other day i was introduced to a mutual friend of mine. i’d never met him before, but was actually able to look at him a bit.

this sounds weird, i know. the reason i was thinking about this is that i’m very neurodivergent, and I’m typically super uncomfortable with eye contact longer than a few seconds. i found it surprising how easy it was to look at him, especially when i had no connection or anything to make me more comfortable. even my friend said she had noticed i was able to look at him and was proud of me.

it got me thinking..why was i more comfortable looking at him when i rarely ever look at others?

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u/Honey6703 — 8 days ago

is it normal to be more comfortable at eye contact with some than others?

the other day i was introduced to a mutual friend of mine. i’d never met him before, but was actually able to look at him a bit.

this sounds weird, i know. the reason i was thinking about this is that i’m very neurodivergent, and I’m typically super uncomfortable with eye contact longer than a few seconds. i found it surprising how easy it was to look at him, especially when i had no connection or anything to make me more comfortable. even my friend said she had noticed i was able to look at him and was proud of me.

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u/Honey6703 — 8 days ago

is there an explanation behind the comfortability of the contact with different people?

the other day i was introduced to a mutual friend of mine. i’d never met him before, but was actually able to look at him a bit.

this sounds weird, i know. the reason i was thinking about this is that i’m very neurodivergent, and I’m typically super uncomfortable with eye contact longer than a few seconds. i found it surprising how easy it was to look at him, especially when i had no connection or anything to make me more comfortable. even my friend said she had noticed i was able to look at him and was proud of me.

is there a psychological reason for only being comfortable making eye contact with certain people? especially since i had not known this man prior?

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u/Honey6703 — 8 days ago

is there an explanation behind the ease/difficulty of eye contact with different people?

the other day i was introduced to a mutual friend of mine. i’d never met him before, but was actually able to look at him a bit.

this sounds weird, i know. the reason i was thinking about this is that i’m very neurodivergent, and I’m typically super uncomfortable with eye contact longer than a few seconds. i found it surprising how easy it was to look at him, especially when i had no connection or anything to make me more comfortable. even my friend said she had noticed i was able to look at him and was proud of me.

is there a psychological reason for only being comfortable making eye contact with certain people? especially since i had not known this man prior?

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u/Honey6703 — 8 days ago