Feminine Guy Dating App Struggle (Makeup or Not)
Hey everyone!
I am a feminine guy who is quite androgynous without makeup and is super feminine, and I am quite confident to say beautiful with the makeup.
A month ago, I changed my gender to women - transfeminine on apps (which is already confusing to identify this way but I came to this conclusion already since people I dated they were always addressing me as a woman), and on apps like Hinge, I changed to non-binary. I was always receiving attention from dating apps, but my type is more straight-passing/bisexual guys or people who want to label themselves in this way. After the change I receive thousands of likes, super likes which make you feel at the end, however I found one main struggle:
\- What happens when you meet? Yes, the first date I could dress up, makeup and be feminine and then move to home for a “deep talk” but most of the guys on Tinder, Taimi don’t want to date, they just want to meet in for fun. My getting ready takes 45 minutes. For 15 minutes of fun, I feel like this is a lot of effort as they just come with a simple t-shirt and shorts.
Could you advise what should I do? Should I put my no-makeup face which will attract less of my type of men? (As a note - long term wouldn’t work for me because I am moving in 2 months, so I use apps for fun)