Feminine Guy Dating App Struggle (Makeup or Not)

Hey everyone!

I am a feminine guy who is quite androgynous without makeup and is super feminine, and I am quite confident to say beautiful with the makeup.

A month ago, I changed my gender to women - transfeminine on apps (which is already confusing to identify this way but I came to this conclusion already since people I dated they were always addressing me as a woman), and on apps like Hinge, I changed to non-binary. I was always receiving attention from dating apps, but my type is more straight-passing/bisexual guys or people who want to label themselves in this way. After the change I receive thousands of likes, super likes which make you feel at the end, however I found one main struggle:

\- What happens when you meet? Yes, the first date I could dress up, makeup and be feminine and then move to home for a “deep talk” but most of the guys on Tinder, Taimi don’t want to date, they just want to meet in for fun. My getting ready takes 45 minutes. For 15 minutes of fun, I feel like this is a lot of effort as they just come with a simple t-shirt and shorts.

Could you advise what should I do? Should I put my no-makeup face which will attract less of my type of men? (As a note - long term wouldn’t work for me because I am moving in 2 months, so I use apps for fun)

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u/Hot-Equal-8655 — 2 days ago

Why people wanna be rude to conventionally Attractive People?

Hey people!

If you are reading this, please, do not put a label on people. Just because someone is conventionally attractive, confident doesn’t mean that they are rude.

Yes, I am talking on my own experiences. I am aware that I am a beautiful MAN who do makeup which is understandable (not acceptable) why some people are rude since they might be homophobic..

However, especially woman, when they see someone pretty, they act strangely. I check around, and people who are usually attractive, they are either played by people, or people just want to humble them down.

Please, know that when you are attractive, you don’t care about being this way. You just want to make friends, talk to people just like other people do. People from the first glance assume I am selfish, they give me strange looks. It is so easy to give compliments ( I receive them yes) but people either flirt with me or hate me. 😭

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u/Hot-Equal-8655 — 4 days ago
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Why people wanna be rude to conventionally Attractive People?

Hey people!

If you are reading this, please, do not put a label on people. Just because someone is conventionally attractive, confident doesn’t mean that they are rude.

Yes, I am talking on my own experiences. I am aware that I am a beautiful MAN which is understandable (not acceptable) why some people are rude since they might be homophobic..

However, especially woman, when they see someone pretty, especially boys, they act strangely. I check around, and people who are usually attractive, they are either played by people, or people just want to humble them down.

Please, know that when you are attractive, you don’t care about being this way. You just want to make friends, talk to people just like other people do. People from the first glance assume I am selfish, they give me strange looks. It is so easy to give compliments ( I receive them yes) but people either flirt with me or hate me. 😭

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u/Hot-Equal-8655 — 4 days ago
▲ 5 r/online_dating_advice+1 crossposts

Feminine Guy Dating App Struggle (Makeup or Not)

Hey everyone!

I am a feminine guy who is quite androgynous without makeup and is super feminine, and I am quite confident to say beautiful with the makeup.

A month ago, I changed my gender to women - transfeminine on apps (which is already confusing to identify this way but I came to this conclusion already since people I dated they were always addressing me as a woman), and on apps like Hinge, I changed to non-binary. I was always receiving attention from dating apps, but my type is more straight-passing/bisexual guys or people who want to label themselves in this way. After the change I receive thousands of likes, super likes which make you feel at the end, however I found one main struggle:

- What happens when you meet? Yes, the first date I could dress up, makeup and be feminine and then move to home for a “deep talk” but most of the guys on Tinder, Taimi don’t want to date, they just want to meet in for fun. My getting ready takes 45 minutes. For 15 minutes of fun, I feel like this is a lot of effort as they just come with a simple t-shirt and shorts.

Could you advise what should I do? Should I put my no-makeup face which will attract less of my type of men? (As a note - long term wouldn’t work for me because I am moving in 2 months, so I use apps for fun)

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u/Hot-Equal-8655 — 4 days ago

UK/Avropa-dan əşyaların daşınması

Salam. Uzun müddət Londonda yaşamışam, indi isə Bakıya ailəvi məsələyə görə qayıtmalıyam. Bu səbəblə, burda olan əşyalarımın bir hissəsini (60-100kg) Bakıya daşımalıyam. Bunun üçün yerli və ya xarici, avropa və ya ingiltərədən əşyaları daşıyan cargo bilirsiniz?

Qiymət baxımından Türkiyə-Bakını da araşdırıram, çünki İngiltərədən Türkiyəyə ucuz qiymətə karqo şirkətləri var.

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u/Hot-Equal-8655 — 10 days ago