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as nbsb/ngsb trentahin, i developed this fear nung hs pa ako because nagkagusto ako sa crush kong valedictorian. his mom was very strict and successful in all aspect, lahat ba naman ng anak matatalino and graduated as cum laudes. so naisip ko na kung magjojowa ako i have to be something or someone just to prove my worth para walang masabi na i am lacking.

this fear got even more developed nung nalaman ko rin na hindi maganda trato ng in-laws ng ate ko sa kaniya. my ate was a good and responsible person, and really loved her husband. pinagsilbihan niya and even accepted 50/50 set up. pero even ganon, ginawa nilang alila ate ko while saying bad things to her. tapos may mababasa ako recently dito sa reddit na mga girlfriends na hindi tanggap ng parents ng boyfriends.

then just now, sunod sunod na wlw contents ang dumaan sa fyp ko about their partner's parents or fam na hindi payag sa relasyon nila kesyo nakakadiri at against kay Lord. may isang video rin na dinamay na ang pulis para lang paghiwalayin sila and comments sharing their experiences of not being accepted kahit na ilang taon na ang relasyon.

so divided na ang fear ko. fear ko kapag lalaki ang magiging partner ko ay baka hindi ako matanggap because i am not good enough sa anak nilang lalaki. and fear ko kapag babae kasi hindi tanggap due to religion and homophobia.

i know naman na it would come down to my partner kung ipaglalaban at pipiliin nila ako against their family but ayaw ko rin naman umabot sa point na ganon kasi family nila yun.

gusto ko lang humingi ng insights and know your experiences to lessen my fear. wala rin kasi akong mapagsabihan nito.

hello. i’m 6 weeks post op and diligently going to my PT, but can’t say the same in doing exercise and massage at home. though i see improvement but my ankle still feel hard and whenever i angle my foot upward-forward to match my other’s foot maximum stretch i still feel that restriction where something is still stopping my foot to really move upwards.

my ortho doc said that it shouldn’t be that case if i did the massage he advised in our first follow up after my operation. so yes there is a negligence in my part. now i have to do the routine every two hours to double time or else i’ll walk or stand like a model forever (what my ortho said).

can someone please give me an advice or share their experience in lessening this restriction i feel or even completely not feeling it anymore? my ankle is still swelling too though it does not hurt, it just looks bigger than my other one. so i guess that’s why it is still hard and have restriction feeling?

i will also have my second PT consultation today so i’ll also ask things to them if there is anything else i can do at home aside from the routines we started doing.

as trentahin, how do you define love in our age? how can you tell when you truly love someone, or when what you have is really love?

late night thoughts. ang hirap pag broken hearted tapos gusto mong idaan sa kanta ang nararamdaman mo pero umaatras ang luha kapag kakanta ka kasi sobrang sintunado ng boses.

lugi sa hindi na nga pinili, hindi pa maganda ang boses.

naa na bay unli diri sa atong city na pure sushi and dimsum lang ang baligya?

ga crave kog sushi and dimsum jud na unli pero mostly buffet lang na kabalo nako kay naa pay lain other varieties of food mao di nako feel muadto sa mga ani na resto.

I had a trimalleolar fracture in my leg, and I’d like to hear from anyone who’s gone through the same experience. Can I still do intense workouts like calisthenics, running, or other high-impact exercises? I’ve never been someone who exercises regularly, but now that I’m dealing with this condition, I don’t want the healing process or any implants in my leg bones to hold me back. I want to live a healthier lifestyle, and I’m wondering if it’s too late for me to start or if I just need some guidance.

i guess i am already at the age na nangangailangan na ng kausap sa lahat ng bagay, to share and exchange with thoughts, who i can open myself with at hindi ako ijajudge. had someone like that and lost this person and now i battle with loneliness everday.

i tried everything pero i feel lonely padin. i dont find joy na rin in my hobbies. i'm probably what people call heartbroken. ang hirap when my mind is both empty and messy. gusto kong may kausap but its hard to build connections nowadays. i've been praying to the Lord lagi kasi yun din lagi nababasa ko na effective to mend a broken heart but nakakabaliw parin ang nararamdaman ko. i could only hope na my prayers will be answered soon.

natatakot din ako na i cant have someone anymore that i can connect with 100%. alam ko madami tayo dito na ganito for many reasons. nakakalungkot.

naiinggit talaga ako sa mga pagkain from USA kasi malalaki at appetizing. kaya sa mga pinoy na nasa states, masarap ba talaga mga pagkain diyan?