u/HotDebate5

That’s it. I’m living with an obese retired man who does nothing but complain about shortness of breath, sore back and feet but refuses to go to the doctor. Why? Because they would advise him to lose weight. They have already but he’s lazy. I am at a healthy weight and if I ask him to walk with me, he refuses and tells me he doesn’t care if he dies. When I suggest he speak to a therapist he refuses. I’ve given up and feel bad about it but it’s been two years now.

Unfortunately I have to have ankle ligament/tendon repair soon. I’m all kinds of nervous about being non weight bearing for 6 weeks. I mean, how do I even get into the house post-surgery? There are steps into my house.