u/Hot_Travel1591

I’m Polish, she is English, and we are both 13 (Year 8). I have a massive crush on her. Her name is Matilda and she is genuinely the most attractive, funny, playful, beautiful, sweet, breathtaking, irreplaceable, and soul-stirring girl on earth. She is just so amazing that I can't handle it anymore.

A while ago, she technically said no to the idea of dating, but here is the twist: literally everyone around us knows she likes me. Honestly, her actions speak louder than words. Even her closest friend, Jessie, thinks we are the "cutest couple I've ever seen" and was actively trying to set us up and wingman for us, which says a lot.

She hasn't had a boyfriend in a really long time, and whenever we talk or hang out, she gets incredibly shy and nervous around me. Sometimes when she sees me, she gets this cute, goofy, smitten smile on her face, but the moment I give her a compliment or say something nice, she completely freezes up and doesn't know how to react because she's so shy. It's totally different from how she treats other guys.

To make things more complicated, there's this guy in our circle who also used to have a crush on her. Five months ago, he asked her out and it went terribly wrong—she was so uninterested that she thought he was asking about her friend instead, and she just completely ignored him. So I know she definitely knows how to brutally reject someone if she wants to. But with me, she didn't shut the door completely, and now she is giving all these mixed, nervous signals.

Things escalated today because I posted about this on my Snapchat story and now our whole school friend group is losing their minds and scrolling through my Reddit post. Matilda already saw it on WhatsApp.

I am thinking about her 24/7, I'm losing sleep, and I want to ask her on a date so bad.

The hardest part is how mixed her signals are. One day she clearly shows that she has a massive crush on me, but then she gets scared and tries to hide it by acting like she doesn't care or even saying stuff like "I don't like you."

How do I navigate this situation now that our whole friend group knows? I need advice on how to interpret her nervous actions versus her trying to hide her feelings. What is the best way to approach her next and actually try to get together?

TL;DR: I’m 13 and crazy about my crush, Matilda. Everyone says she likes me back and her actions are mixed/nervous, but she previously said no. Need advice on what to do now

I’m Polish, she is English, and we are both 13 (Year 8). I have a massive crush on her. Her name is Matilda and she is genuinely the most attractive, funny, playful, beautiful, sweet, breathtaking, irreplaceable, and soul-stirring girl on earth. She is just so amazing that I can't handle it anymore.

A while ago, she technically said no to the idea of dating, but here is the twist: literally everyone around us knows she likes me. Honestly, her actions speak louder than words. Even her closest friend, Jessie, thinks we are the "cutest couple I've ever seen" and was actively trying to set us up and wingman for us, which says a lot.

She hasn't had a boyfriend in a really long time, and whenever we talk or hang out, she gets incredibly shy and nervous around me. Sometimes when she sees me, she gets this cute, goofy, smitten smile on her face, but the moment I give her a compliment or say something nice, she completely freezes up and doesn't know how to react because she's so shy. It's totally different from how she treats other guys.

To make things more complicated, there's this guy in our circle who also used to have a crush on her. Five months ago, he asked her out and it went terribly wrong—she was so uninterested that she thought he was asking about her friend instead, and she just completely ignored him. So I know she definitely knows how to brutally reject someone if she wants to. But with me, she didn't shut the door completely, and now she is giving all these mixed, nervous signals.

Things escalated today because I posted about this on my Snapchat story and now our whole school friend group is losing their minds and scrolling through my Reddit post. Matilda already saw it on WhatsApp.

I am thinking about her 24/7, I'm losing sleep, and I want to ask her on a date so bad.

The hardest part is how mixed her signals are. One day she clearly shows that she has a massive crush on me, but then she gets scared and tries to hide it by acting like she doesn't care or even saying stuff like "I don't like you."

How do I navigate this situation now that our whole friend group knows? I need advice on how to interpret her nervous actions versus her trying to hide her feelings. What is the best way to approach her next and actually try to get together?

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I’m Polish, she is English, and I have a huge crush on her. Her name is Matilda and she is genuinely the most attractive, funny, playful, beautiful, humorous, sweet, sparkling, magnetic, mischievous, vivacious, breathtaking, ethereal, stunning, hypnotic, angelic, precious, endearing, cherished, enthralling, irreplaceable, incomparable, and soul-stirring girl on earth. She is just so amazing that I can't handle it anymore.

A while ago, she technically said no to the idea of dating, but here is the twist: literally everyone around us knows she likes me. Honestly, her actions speak louder than words. Even her closest friend, Jessie, thinks we are the "cutest couple I've ever seen" and was actively trying to set us up and wingman for us, which says a lot.

She hasn't had a boyfriend in a really long time, and whenever we talk or hang out, she gets incredibly shy and nervous around me. Sometimes when she sees me, she gets this cute, goofy, smitten smile on her face, but the moment I give her a compliment or say something nice, she completely freezes up and doesn't know how to react because she's so shy. It's totally different from how she treats other guys.

To make things more complicated, there's this guy in our circle who also used to have a crush on her. Five months ago, he asked her out and it went terribly wrong—she was so uninterested that she thought he was asking about her friend instead, and she just completely ignored him. So I know she definitely knows how to brutally reject someone if she wants to. But with me, she didn't shut the door completely, and now she is giving all these mixed, nervous signals.

I am thinking about her 24/7, I'm losing sleep, and I feel like I'm losing my mind trying to decode this. I want to ask her on a date so bad because she is just that beautiful.

Should I trust what she said before, or should I trust her nervous actions, her friend's hints, and what everyone else is seeing? How do I handle this without ruining what we have? Like, how do we actually get together?

Thanks for any help!

I’m 13 (Year 8) and I have a huge crush on a girl named Matilda. I’m Polish and she is English. I feel like I'm stuck in the most confusing situation ever and I really need some advice.

A while ago, she technically said no to the idea of dating, but here is the twist: literally everyone around us knows she likes me. Honestly, her actions speak louder than words. Even her closest friend is actively trying to push us together and wingman for us, which says a lot.

She hasn't had a boyfriend in a really long time, and whenever we talk or hang out, she gets incredibly shy and nervous around me. Sometimes when she sees me, she gets this cute, goofy, smitten smile on her face, but the moment I give her a compliment or say something nice, she completely freezes up and doesn't know how to react because she's so shy. It's totally different from how she treats other guys.

To make things more complicated, there's this guy in our circle who also used to have a crush on her. Five months ago, he asked her out and it went terribly wrong—she was so uninterested that she thought he was asking about her friend instead, and she just completely ignored him. So I know she definitely knows how to brutally reject someone if she wants to. But with me, she didn't shut the door completely, and now she is giving all these mixed, nervous signals.

I am thinking about her 24/7 and I feel like I'm losing my mind trying to decode this.

Should I trust what she said before, or should I trust her nervous actions, her friend's hints, and what everyone else is seeing? How do I handle this without ruining what we have? Everyone knows we like each other tho how do we get together ?

Thanks for any help!