Is it you or him?

Stupid random question but was thinking about this. When getting on top of your man to ride him during sex does he typically hold it and you sit on it or do you hold and put it in yourself?

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 2 days ago

Confused by the end * spoiler

I just got done watching and I’m confused. Why did Mary look like that at the end? If Mary is a copy did they kill her and now she’s stuck there looking like that? Also why does she look like that? What happened to Phil at the end?

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 13 days ago

Swelling/ tear

What is the best treatment/ remedies after you had sex and have 2 little tears on one side on the tissue right outside your vagina? I typically use lemon balm on it when it has happened before. Just want to know everyone else’s remedies. Also for faster ways to help reduce swelling.

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 25 days ago
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Dryer sheet scent

So I’ve been doing great the passed two months handling my outbreaks and then as well do we feel better and stop or start missing doses. Well that happened and for about a week maybe a week and half I felt better didn’t order anymore smh now I had sex Saturday and I felt a little friction on my labia minora but felt better not to long after. Then Monday I wore underwear ( thong) that was in the dryer with a new scented dryer sheet. I typically use ALL free and clear but was in a money crunch so I went cheap. Well I sat for 8 hours in a scented thong and leggings on for work and by 12 pm Monday I could feel my labia minora burning! Which typically happens when it’s a start of an outbreak for me. My question is was it the scented dryer sheet that caused my OB?!? Can that happen?

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 28 days ago

Am I crazy?

Sooo I’m a single mom of 2. We all know how expensive things are nowadays. Myself and my other two co workers feel the same on this as we are in our 30s and the remaining ladies are in their 50s and have been with the company for 12-20 years. Also the one lady did say if we wanted to contribute let her know and which I did. I never said an amount she never told me the amount before purchasing. Last time we did this was for my boss and it was $10 each.

If a coworker wanted to get flowers for another coworker who’s grandmother passed away in which I don’t see ever and only met once or twice in the office ( we go in on different days) and goes ahead and purchased the flowers without telling us before hand how much it would cost. She then goes to send an email telling us how much it would cost each which is $30 per person and that’s 9 people. That’s $270! For someone I don’t know and started a year ago. The person who bought it and planned this doesn’t even know the girl. I’m just so mad and don’t know what to do cause she should have consulted with us about the cost and didn’t. One girl can’t put any money in so my other co worker is doing it for her. So technically my coworker could have bought cheaper flowers…. So now I don’t want to spend $30 I’ll do $15 the most but I have a conscience that they will talk about me behind my back like they did the other girl. What should I do?

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 2 months ago

Dawn dish soap uti?

I’m wondering if anyone has had this experience. So I used dawn dish soap on a water slide for my kid ( it’s a big slide so I went down to) the one slide doesn’t go directly into the pool it extends into the yard on this thick fabric material and I have a tarp underneath and I guess I put a lot of soap the one time cause at the bottom it was LOAD of bubbles. Well a little while after it kind of felt like I had that burning UTI feeling inside like where my pubs are but obviously inside me. Then it would feel like it went away and the next day it came back even more and it’s coming and going and my labia minora looks swollen ( not red) I’m wondering if the dawn dish soap soaked through my bathing suit or I got soap directly into my urethra. Has this ever happened to anyone at all like at a party on a slide or in general? I know it’s a weird question but it started right after and that’s the only thing I can think of. I take probiotics every day but I guess I can’t win them all.

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 2 months ago

Dad not providing a room

So my sons father and I were together for a few years till around 2022 I decided to call it quits I couldn’t deal with the gambling and obsession over women. The house and bills my car are all in my name so it was an easy GTFO. He moved into his mom’s house with the rest of his adult siblings. Years went on we had a great co parenting relationship. We kept things out of the courts and he paid me CS ( I low balled it too by accident) anyways but we would do some holidays together if something needed to be fixed at the house he would do his best to fix it. We had a set schedule on when we had our son and he works overnights so I obviously have him a lot more and then we did every other weekend. My son was a lot younger so my son sleeping in his dad’s bed didn’t bother me. Then after so many years of me trying to date and him never dating we realized well shit we do so much together let’s just get back together 🙄 we had some ups and downs but it seemed to be really going good. It all went down hill Tuesday night when at our sons baseball game this girl he used to a thing with 20 years ago was there on the team we were playing and I’ve already expressed many times in the past I don’t like her I just hate being around her because they make it so weird and awkward when I’m around. So I expressed it again Tuesday night and he instantly just starts yelling “omg it was 20 years ago and we literally just kissed and rubbed her boobs that’s it” ( I don’t believe it ) I think he tells me that so I don’t overthink it. So right there I don’t feel like my feelings were validated and I think he could have said a lot nicer things if I’m feeling uncomfortable. Last night he tells me this isn’t going to work cause I don’t trust him and here I’m just still waiting for a nice response. So I just decide today he’s right it will not work his reaction and response is EXACTLY why I don’t want to be with him. So he’s back at his mom’s and my question is now we have to go back to overnights at his dads and he’s about to be 7 no way he should be sleeping in his dads bed maybe his bedroom in a little car bed or something for now. My son is just going to get older and my ex has no plan to ever get his own place. His mom’s house is nasty and they hoard crap.They finally cleaned up the outside after the county came. I just really don’t know what to do i think I’ll just have to tell him no sleepovers till he gets a proper living situation. I already told him if we go through the courts I will ask them for a home inspection. He didn’t like that.

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 3 months ago

Andrographis

I was taking Andrographis extract 8000mg for a week since online says you shouldn’t take it as a long term supplement. I felt great on it and my sickness shortened and less symptoms. I haven’t taken it in maybe a week or two and would like to take it again but maybe at a lower dose ? Am I able to take it daily as part of my vitamin routine?

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 3 months ago
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Andrographis

I was taking Andrographis extract 8000mg for a week since online says you shouldn’t take it as a long term supplement. I felt great on it and my sickness shortened and less symptoms. I haven’t taken it in maybe a week or two and would like to take it again but maybe at a lower dose ? Am I able to take it daily as part of my vitamin routine?

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 3 months ago

What do you really do?

Does anyone use dove sensitive bar soap inside their labia majora ? NOT where the pee hole is obviously I just use water. Does anyone use unscented soap at all down there or soap in general? Or do you just clean the outside hairy area with soap and use water for under the lips?

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 3 months ago

Is it possible to have high energy but not a lot of stress? I personally don’t take anxiety meds cause I like the running around and feel like those meds will make me do much less. It’s like a worry high. Also I think that will make me stress and have an outbreak. I’m trying to figure out what is exactly causing my outbreaks since I haven’t have any in 2/3 years. I recently got back with my son’s father. So sex may the issues but wasn’t a long time but then again I’m more stressed now with a house, kids, bills. I wasn’t eating like shit when I wasn’t with him. Sex with other people didn’t trigger it. TBH in 2024 I had a DUI ( my first) and obviously had to be clean off alcohol, weed vape and had zero sex and felt the freaking best vagina wise. I was even donating my plasma and my anxiety would be so bad at times my
blood pressure would go up I couldn’t donate 😭 so I stopped that but didn’t have an outbreak. So I don’t think it’s my anxiety. Idk trying to figure out what’s going on is crazy and honestly I think it’s the man lol the stress, anxiety and not turning me on during sex so the friction.

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 4 months ago

I had an outbreak that lasted awhile but I used lysine and zinc and then butt paste with high zinc on the sores to dry them out. I know believe I have another outbreak so soon as I’ve been taking lysine every day since the last one cleared up. Does this mean I need to bite the bullet and just order expensive prescription meds for my outbreak ?

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 4 months ago

Has anyone had an outbreak where you feel the skin on your lower labia majors start feeling raw like you have rug burn and you look and you see it getting pinker then the rest of your lip so you add some lotion and then the next day you look at it’s like bright red sores? Not even white heads/ pimples. They are flat bright red sores all the same color not yellow in the middle either. I can’t tell if this is an outbreak or did I rug burn my lip by working out. I literally just got over an outbreak. Also my labia minora is bright red.

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 4 months ago
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( For women ) Has anyone had an outbreak where you feel the skin on your lower labia majors start feeling raw like you have rug burn and you look and you see it getting pinker then the rest of your lip so you add some lotion and then the next day you look at it’s like bright red sores? Not even white heads/ pimples. They are flat bright red sores all the same color not yellow in the middle either. I can’t tell if this is an outbreak or did I rug burn my lip by working out. I literally just got over an outbreak. Also my labia minora is bright red.

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u/Huge_Bedroom291 — 4 months ago