Hi lovelies 🧚🏾‍♀️

Baby poly here!

I have only had non committed and non romantic poly dynamics in the past, and gave started to date more intentionally since last year.

I believe I'm a kitchen table poly and I focus aroinf community including both romantic and non romantic links. I'm aware I might change as I go, and I'm trying to, while staying hopeful, not be too delusional.

I have checked the articles, collected the books to listen, subcribed and followed the channels but I want to hear from the collective !

What are the top 3 things you wish someone would have told you before your first polyamorous romantic relationship?

Hiya!

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I recently started dating more intentionally and more aligned to my actual goals after exploring for a couple years- currently single Poly! Ideally looking to take the time to know each other, talk consistently, and let things grow without forcing it.

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My polyamory is about Unconditional love, and through it I've learned to love myself and others better. As for my romantic relationships, my search is not just about dating multiple people but building community.

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I do know what I like and what I don't, but I won't claim to be a poly expert, as my past experiences have only been with non committed partners. To be very clear, I do Not have enough experience to state my end goal in terms of family unit type. I don't want to be delusional and I understand that my first committed poly relationship might not be the one I carry forever.

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I am specifically looking for someone who is also relatively new to this and who would like to explore by my side or an experienced person who is comfortable with that.

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I might get along with another single Poly or someone whose partner is involved. I am not that comfortable with partners who don't want to interact with metamours. I respect your choice, it just makes me a bit anxious to not know. I like to know 😅

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A little about me: I run a business and animals are a huge part of my life. I spend my free time on self-growth, nature, soft domestic day dreaming, and learning way too many things at once.

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I can be very tender, very curious, a little intense in the “I want to understand the whole universe and also your favourite snack” way.

I am working on some old co dependent habits. I need reassurance more often than not, while I build my ability to self sooth and regulate.

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If I was a cartoon character, I'd be Donkey from Shrek.

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I’m open to distance if the connection feels real, but consistency matters a lot to me. I’m not looking for chaos, secrecy, or vague situationships. I like people who communicate clearly, not scared of disappointing, know what they want, and can be both silly and emotionally honest.

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If this sounds like your kind of thing, I'd love to hear from you!

Send me your ;

-current favourite hobby,

-favourite animal,

-And what your ideal first date sounds like !

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Speak soon✨

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Baby water/ ocean witch here💙

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So I've got a litre of Full moon water from the last blue moon and planning to get my New moon water tonight (time zone: GMT +4)

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I've been wanting to extract some more things and I gave way too many ideas so I'd love some opinions on what can I start with to not be overwhelmed.

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I have been successfully using my moon waters to remind me of daily choices through a ritual of taking a sip and repeating the affirmations I decided on for that month. Helped me greatlt with my Shadow of work, self improvement and new habits.

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I live 10mins walk away from the ocean.

I often go to dip my toes (if winter) or full on swim (in summer) under the moon light, then bring back a little bit of sea-moon-water.

I was thinking about book salt 🤔

Have anyone made salt from Ocean water ?

I've seen multiple safe processes online and I'd love to make Moon salt, it scratches an whimsical itch in my brain, plus I could use it for other spells when I start doing them (not there yet)

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Opinions? Advice?

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I welcome it all💙🌟

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Hey all,🌟

I'm a multi passionate woman who does way too many things for her own good. 3 years ago, I started self challenges; 6 months Glow ups. These Glow up are not simply physical, I do some shadow work(meditation, introspection, social exposure, trauma break down. Etc), I change/adapt my diet to the phase life I'm in, I teach myself new skills, I try new hobbies, I improve what I already do and basically, try to do one new thing on the important topics of being a functional human.🌼

I started breaking the 6 months into two, so I now do 3 month Glow ups. It's been working wonderfully but I'm started to lose the ability to push myself on my own.😔

My friends don't really follow the way I do things and I feel bad harassing them to try new things every 3 to 6 months, so I hope I find compatible buddies here ! 💖

I'm currently working on;

1. Sleep quality

2. Training routine for my senior dog

3. Marketing my business better and managing clients in ways I will not burn out

4. Meal prepping to reduce mental clutter

5. Self trust and self esteem

6. Receiving/ accepting rejection

My DMs are open to all genders, age, profession, background, as long as you are a kind, compassionate person with whom my post reasonates☺️

Eng l Fr l Krl

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ENG

Hey girls!

I've noticed a couple posts where women are looking for friendship, especially female friendships.

I'd love to see if I can help!

As a woman who loves hosting and organising meet ups, how would you girls feel about monthly or bi monthly brunches/ outings/ group activities?

It's often awkward to start friendships, but I've acquired this skill with the years and hope to share it with you, younger women in particular who seek guidance without being harassed online by dicks.

DMs are open !

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FR

Hello Les filles!

Je vois pas mal de post cherchants des amitiés filles.

J'aimerai apporter mon aide!

J'adore recevoir et organiser des rencontres en tout genre, vous auriez aimé que tous les mois/ deux mois, je propose des sorties/ brunch/ activités pour nous?

C'est parfois compliqué de faire le premier pas et de connecter avec de nouvelles personnes, mais j'ai développé quelques techniques que j'aimerai partager, surtout avec les plus jeunes qui aimeraient être un peu guider sans se faire harceler en message par des connards.

Ma messagerie est ouverte!

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KRL

Ki pe dir fi !

Monn remarke ena impe post kot bann tifi pe rod lezot kamwad tifi.

Mo ti a vudre donn enn kudme! Mo extra kontan rasemble dimunn, eski zot ti pu keen mo organiz bann ti rankont/ sorti/ aktivite ant tifi, sipa sak mwa uswa sak 2 mwa?

Li pa tu le tan fasil pu fer kamwad, me mo ena mo bann teknik ki mo ti a vudre partaz avek zot, sirtu bann ti zenes ki pe rod bann gid ek consey, ek ki pa anvi gagne enn tah mam mistran ki avoy zot mesaz.

Avoy mwa enn ti mesaz !

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Like every year, I am opening a SAFE space for members the LGBTQ+ community in Flic en flac, for the party by Collectif Arc En Ciel, on Saturday 13th of June.

This is a space you came come to to get ready, shower change, or if you just need to break

This is especially a shout-out to the people who want to attend but are coming by bus and who will basically be way too early.

You may come crash with me !

This is a FREE resource

The only price is to be a decent person

Boundaries:

-no minors (sorry can't take that responsibility)

-No drug consumption on the premises (it has to remain a safe space for all)

-alcohol is okay, as long as your drunk state doesn't damage the space😜 know yourself and smoking is allowed in the open spaces (rooftop and balconies)

-no harassment or violence will be tolerated, immediate kick out

-you can keep your bags safely here in a locked room

⚠️careful if you have per allergies.

message me !