Talked to a girl for 2 months, caught feelings, and finally confessed. She said she doesn't feel the same way. Since then I've been feeling pretty depressed and lost. How do you get over someone when you genuinely thought there might be something there? 💭
Don't know what we are
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I have been talking to a girl online for about 2 months. She lives in another state and we started as complete strangers. She has clearly told me before that romantic feelings from her side will probably never happen, and she knows I have feelings for her.
The confusing part is that even after saying that, she still talks to me, replies when I text, shares reels/posts, and has even sent me photos when I asked (twice). We've also had a lot of arguments during these 2 months, and sometimes I feel like she gets frustrated with me. Recently she even said something like "think I am a bad person and try to forget me."
At the same time, when I stop replying or go quiet, After her massage, she sometimes seems bothered and asks why I'm not responding. After our latest argument, I got hurt and deactivated my accounts.
I'm stuck because her words say "it won't happen," but her actions sometimes make me feel like I matter to her. Do you think this sounds like friendship/attachment with clear boundaries, or is there something more going on? What would you do in my situation?
And she also not in a relationship!
Don't know what we are
Pata hai Aaj kya Hua
I have been talking to a girl online for about 2 months. She lives in another state and we started as complete strangers. She has clearly told me before that romantic feelings from her side will probably never happen, and she knows I have feelings for her.
The confusing part is that even after saying that, she still talks to me, replies when I text, shares reels/posts, and has even sent me photos when I asked (twice). We've also had a lot of arguments during these 2 months, and sometimes I feel like she gets frustrated with me. Recently she even said something like "think I am a bad person and try to forget me."
At the same time, when I stop replying or go quiet, After her massage, she sometimes seems bothered and asks why I'm not responding. After our latest argument, I got hurt and deactivated my accounts.
I'm stuck because her words say "it won't happen," but her actions sometimes make me feel like I matter to her. Do you think this sounds like friendship/attachment with clear boundaries, or is there something more going on? What would you do in my situation?
And she also not in a relationship!
Don't know what we are
Pata hai Aaj kya Hua
I have been talking to a girl online for about 2 months. She lives in another state and we started as complete strangers. She has clearly told me before that romantic feelings from her side will probably never happen, and she knows I have feelings for her.
The confusing part is that even after saying that, she still talks to me, replies when I text, shares reels/posts, and has even sent me photos when I asked (twice). We've also had a lot of arguments during these 2 months, and sometimes I feel like she gets frustrated with me. Recently she even said something like "think I am a bad person and try to forget me."
At the same time, when I stop replying or go quiet, After her massage, she sometimes seems bothered and asks why I'm not responding. After our latest argument, I got hurt and deactivated my accounts.
I'm stuck because her words say "it won't happen," but her actions sometimes make me feel like I matter to her. Do you think this sounds like friendship/attachment with clear boundaries, or is there something more going on? What would you do in my situation?
And she also not in a relationship!
Don't know what we are
Pata hai Aaj kya Hua
I have been talking to a girl online for about 2 months. She lives in another state and we started as complete strangers. She has clearly told me before that romantic feelings from her side will probably never happen, and she knows I have feelings for her.
The confusing part is that even after saying that, she still talks to me, replies when I text, shares reels/posts, and has even sent me photos when I asked (twice). We've also had a lot of arguments during these 2 months, and sometimes I feel like she gets frustrated with me. Recently she even said something like "think I am a bad person and try to forget me."
At the same time, when I stop replying or go quiet, After her massage, she sometimes seems bothered and asks why I'm not responding. After our latest argument, I got hurt and deactivated my accounts.
I'm stuck because her words say "it won't happen," but her actions sometimes make me feel like I matter to her. Do you think this sounds like friendship/attachment with clear boundaries, or is there something more going on? What would you do in my situation?
And she also not in a relationship!
Don't know what we are
Pata hai Aaj kya Hua
I have been talking to a girl online for about 2 months. She lives in another state and we started as complete strangers. She has clearly told me before that romantic feelings from her side will probably never happen, and she knows I have feelings for her.
The confusing part is that even after saying that, she still talks to me, replies when I text, shares reels/posts, and has even sent me photos when I asked (twice). We've also had a lot of arguments during these 2 months, and sometimes I feel like she gets frustrated with me. Recently she even said something like "think I am a bad person and try to forget me."
At the same time, when I stop replying or go quiet, After her massage, she sometimes seems bothered and asks why I'm not responding. After our latest argument, I got hurt and deactivated my accounts.
I'm stuck because her words say "it won't happen," but her actions sometimes make me feel like I matter to her. Do you think this sounds like friendship/attachment with clear boundaries, or is there something more going on? What would you do in my situation?
And she also not in a relationship!