u/IndependentOwn6169

Rant because I am on the brink of losing hope in everything. I'm 22 and live with my mom (who's divorced from my father) and my younger siblings. I cut contact with that man because he was abusive to her and me and hes never let me have my peace since. When i turned 18 I started a temporary job when I was under his sponsership, he then found out before my contract was even finished and caused the most embarassing moment of my life..humiliating me in front of my workplace, gathering people to watch, calling me all sorts of slurs and even tried blocking my way from leaving the scene saying he had the police on the phone and tried pushing me to the floor. in public. in my workplace. I ran away and was terminated despite the hr of my work knowing about my family situation but they didnt want legal troubles because hes my sponser and I didnt have an noc so they let me go and gave him private info about me including my work contract which they lied about to saying I worked for a year when I only did 3 months and basically blocked me. His logical reasoning to the people who gathered around was that my mom was forcing me to work instead of allowing me to pursue my education (never true it was my choice and partially due to the fact that he refused to pay unless it was via court or apply in my home country where he would have more control over everything I do). He then told my siblings during one of their visits with him that if he ever found out I tried working again he'd cut off my head. great father figure and all. I literally do not speak to the man or have contact with him, I dont even want to go to court because I don't want anything tying me to him, least of all money. We live on literal crumbs of his monthly income because he lied in court and faked debt and the judge believed it despite him being the abuser. we're a family of 6 surviving on less than 10k, and now hes even asked to cut it in half through another case because he got remarried and has a new born and step child. Keep in mind this man works for a huge well known company in a very high position, he is well off and more. but how dare i work to survive right?! and its his legal right to stop me because I need his permission to even work in the first place💀 nvm all that HOW am I supposed to apply to jobs and be able to commute there and back when we can barely afford basic needs and scrape by borrowing money every single month. I had to decline going to 2 interviews because I didnt want to waste their time by showing up for it then not being able to commute to work on a daily basis, it was embarassing and I felt like they thought I was playing in their face when all I want is to work so I wouldnt need him, and i know most companies need a transferable visa or noc and I can't even provide that because the nature of the relationship between me and my sponser so it feels like applying is not even worth it at this point. I'm so tired I've lost hope in both finding a job or continuing my education without him always being an obstacle in the way and why? because i share dna with him? because hes the reason I was brought up in this country? but I cant leave too because I don't even have my passport hes refused to renew it since the divorce and lied to say he didnt have it to the judgex so if I were to leave by any other means I am basically saying bye to seeing my siblings and mom who live here because I wouldnt be able to come back, not to mention hes threatned me if I did eventually leave to go back to my homr country that he was gonna hurt me/ send people to do so (and I have audio proof of that on multiple occasions) and after all this in front of a judge im still looked at as the disobedient child who cut contact with their father and is in the wrong. im so over this life of being burdened by something that isnt my fault to bare but his own shame and wrongdoing and him living life and being rewarded by his work and everyone around him while we struggle to pick up pieces from the damage hes caused and continues to cause. i just want to breathe

Hi guys, 22 y/o Egyptian living in the middle east here, I'm looking for any paying remote job that I can help my family get through the month with. Theres a common misconception that living outside means you are well off but we are barely surviving and thats having to borrow money every month to make ends meet. I am a C1 english speaker and graduated with british a levels and I'm currently an undergraduate(cant pay my uni fees still). I have tutored before and worked in sales so I think I'd be able to work well in telemarketing or anything related to sales or account management/virtual assistants or such. I also made edits on the side of shows and movies that got a lot of traction so I know a little bit of that as well. If you have any ideas for work please share them I am desperate.

Hi everyone. I'm a 22 y/o student whos lived here for the past 15 years. I'm currently enrolled in uni but have taken the past 2 semesters off as I can't pay the fees and my estranged father also won't unless I ask him to pay them by court. I want to work so I could do it on my own and not need his help or money, but sadly he is my sponser so when he renewed my qid (by legal force btw) he also got it delivered to his house so I currently don't have a physical copy and he refuses to give it to me and says I should go ask for it in court, so I go around with an old expired card. I tried opening a student account through both qib and qnb online but it requires you to scan both sides and mine was expired so I couldn't do it. My question is if I go to the branch will they let me open it if I show them my metrash? or will the also require me to have the physical copy on me? Any advice would help, thanks.

Hello everyone, I was diagnosed officially with hyperthyroid about 4 months ago and I've been on propranolol for 3 of those to manage my heart symptoms, which I found out 3 days ago I was actually allergic to.. anyway I finally got my nm uptake and ultrasound results back and my doctor told me I could choose from 3 treatment options. The first being methimazole, which she said I could also develop an allergic reaction to because I already experienced it with propranolol, and that is has more side effects that are long term. The second option was surgery, I have a hot nodule thats about 4 cm big and she said removing it would be her recommended option because I wouldn't need medication, unless ofc i develop hypothyroid after the surgery because apparently thats a common thing? the last option was radioactive iodine, which she said might also cause the thyroid to become overactive after treatment and there was also the chance of experiencing side effects due to the excsessive radiation exposure. I opted to say lets try the methimazole first and leave surgery as a last resort but she said because of the allergy I had to propranolol she wouldn't prescribe it unless she took my blood tests again( not sure why and didnt really understand why from her). Anyways are these truly the only courses of treatement? Whats the most universly recommended out of them and if someone here has tried multiple or any please I'd love some insight were there any allergic reactions to the meds? did anyone develop hypo thyroid due to treatement and is it truly more managable? any advice or insight would be great, thanks.

for refrence here are my latest test results:

TSH- 0.01 mIU/L
FT3- 11.9 pmol/ L
FT4- 27.3 pmol/L
Ultrasound- heterogenous thyroid parenchyma with right lobe 4 cm TR 3 nodule.
NM uptake result- Mild suppression of the physiological salivary and background tracer activity is seen.
Thyroid uptake at 20 minutes is 0.69% (normal 0.5-4%).

I was also on 80mg of propranolol for the last 2 months and was switched to 50mg of atenolol 3 days ago

Hi everyone, so I was scheduled to have a thyroid uptake test a few weeks ago but going in I felt weird. I have a fear of needles which I've had under control for a few years now. going in the nurse found my blood pressure to be high, they when she inserted the cannula I basically fainted on the spot and felt dizzy and had a mini seizure which lasted a few minutes, then when I finally woke up I felt so nauseous I started throwing up. I was rushed to emergency where they told me I had a vasovagal attack which was my first time hearing the term. i've had blood tests and vaccines done over the last few years and nothing happend and now I'm agonizing over my upcoming test which was rescheduled for next week. If you have any advice or information about the test please share it it might help put my mind at ease since it would be so embarassing if this happened again. Is there anything I can do before going in? Any exersizes to help avoid this situation? thanks

since I have absolutely no luck finding a job I wanted to try worked freelance online but its quite confusing since I've never done it before. If anyone here has tried any of the freelance websites or apps let me know your experience with it and if theres anything I should know or do before going into them, thanks

Hi everyone, I know this is a long shot but I am desperatly looking for any tutoring jobs for primary students or part time/temporary gigs that I can work for some extra money as I need to pay my overdue student fees before the new semester begins or I lose my spot. If you know of any jobs listings please let me know. For context I'm a 21F currently a uni student and have taught various subjects before, I've also worked in sales and as a hostess temporarly. thanks in advance

hi everyone, Im a 21f currently here under my fathers sponsership but I live with my mother and we haven't been in contact for over 4 years as he is abusive, often threatened me, and it was no longer livable with him. a year or so ago i was granted change in sponsership through court to my mother but he illegally changed it back to him without any court order or anything. I have worked temporary jobs before and explained my situation to HR and they were understanding but he ended up causing problems for me and used it against me because I did not have an noc or legal doc from him to work. I have no way to change it again but I desperatly need a job as my relationship with my mother is also strained and I would like find any sort of independence wihout relying on either of them. every job I apply to requires an noc but I don't know how to get one considering I do not speak to my sponser at all. are there jobs that wouldn't require it? is there any legal loopholes that allow me to apply with an noc from my mother instead? any advice is appreciated, thanks

Salam everyone,

I was wondering if anyone here has experience with selling handmade crochet items online? I saw a couple pages on ig and thought of doing the same but got scared as people warned me to not do it without a license or I can get in trouvle. I am only trying to sell a few items to afford moving out of my home with my cats not to do it long term. if anyone has had experience with it let me know how you go about selling and if theres even a market for it here, thank you

I came across a poster for someone buying all sorts of scrap. I have some electronics that have rusted and no longer safe to use including coffee machines, cables and adaptors, and heaters. I dont know if contacting them is a safe move or if its illegal and whether they are reliable or not, if someone tried them please share your experience, thank you

hi everyone, im a 21f and a student at QU. prior to applying to uni, i took a few gap years where I worked in sales, hostessing and tutoring but didnt last long in any of them as I was mostly looking for temporary/part time jobs in hopes I could save up for uni fees during that short period. fast forward to now, I had to take this semester off as I couldn't pay the outstanding fees. since I live in a single parent household with 4 other siblings my only real option was to borrow the amount from family or family friends to cover it and continue to the next semester, but I didnt want to drown my mother in more debts so here I am. I tried applying for student employment but as a first year I couldn't and now find it very hard to find any jobs that I meet the skills needed for. so if anyone has any suggestions as to what jobs I should consider applying to..? or any advice in general as to how to fill my time productivly during these few months that'd be very helpful, thank you

(also I apologize for the writing if it seems a bit confusing Im currently running on no sleep and I misplaced my glasses so I can barely see what I'm writing lol)