r/PrideandPrejudice

I assume he continues to call her Elizabeth…for some reason, I can’t imagine him using either of her nicknames.

Does she continue to call him “Mr. Darcy”, the way her parents call each other?

Or perhaps, “Darcy”. That’s what the men seem to do. - refer to their friends by their surname (e.g., “Bingley is unaffectedly modest”)

I’m guessing there’s space in there for an occasionally “my dear”

Would they say “Wife” and “Husband”? (Because I’m guessing Georgiana just calls him “Brother”)

I am just re-reading the “wilderness speech” of Lady Catherine and it struck me how similar the construction and mannerism her speech has to Darcy’s original proposal.

1. Both show up unannounced, to the confusion of Elizabeth.

2. Both assume she knows why they are there and just start right without any background details. Causing Elizabeth to be utterly stunned.

3. Both are so boorish in their manners and bluntness that Elizabeth calls out their behavior as Not Good.

4. Both get a No, but neither leave feeling satisfied.

Man, I’ve read this book umpty zillion times, and just now the full parallel structure hit me as obvious. Lady Catherine and her nephew both tread a similar path of behavior at the start of the book, but coming up against Elizabeth’s IDGAF you better come at me with some dang politeness or GTFO attitude and Darcy shifts course. Lady Catherine’s speech happens later, and she’s not particularly interested in actually listening so the available lesson goes past her.

Jane was doing some genius stuff here. Love it.