How can I be less shy
In school I can never give my actual opinion on things because I’m too scared, idk what I’m scared of.
When I hang out with friends, I get so intimidated by them that I just capitulate to whatever.
I don’t want to, but making people happy makes me feel happy, but also it’s not making me feel satisfied with my decision, for not making a decision.
In school projects, I once objected to the idea for the project to my group, one of my classmates said “no, I don’t want to do that”
Which is fine, but she didn’t listen to anyone else’s suggestions, she loved her idea and that’s the end of it.
I wish I could be more direct like her, I want to be able to say what I want.
Probably I ’m Just scared of rejection.
How can I not be so scared?
I want to be more intimidating, but people just expects me to listen and follow their lead, when sometimes I know my opinion is correct, I just can’t bring myself to say it.
I know I have the potential to be a good “leader” in a way. Not just in school, but life in general.
With family, friends, everything.
Idk guys am I stupid