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What are your experience with this after a breakup?

Hei, jeg er 28 og er i ferd med å kjøpe min første leilighet. Har et budsjett på 4,4 mill.

Hva er eventuelt greit å se etter når man går på visning? Hva bør man spørre megler?

Har lest meg litt opp på ting, men lurer også på om dere har noen tips på hva som er eventuelle fallgruver?

*Oppdatering*

Kan legge til at jeg skal kjøpe i Oslo og sikter inn på bo i et sameie/borettslag. Har tenkt å bo der i endel år.

What reason did your ex give you on why you shouldnt be together anymore?

My girlfriend (30F) broke up with me (28M) about two weeks ago. We were together for 2 years.

I started doing no contact because i felt like this would help me cope with the breakup and it has. I have gotten a lot of time for myself to think about why she did it and what probably caused it.

At the same time i feel really bad because i know she hates when i shut down and don’t speak. (Even though we are not together anymore)

We did not end things on a bad note, but she was my best friend and partner.

I do this for myself and her, because she wants space.

Is it right of me to do no contact without telling her why i do it?

My girlfriend (30F) broke up with me (28M) about two weeks ago. We were together for 2 years.

I started doing no contact because i felt like this would help me cope with the breakup and it has. I have gotten a lot of time for myself to think about why she did it and what probably caused it.

At the same time i feel really bad because i know she hates when i shut down and don’t speak. (Even though we are not together anymore)

We did not end things on a bad note, but she was my best friend and partner.

I do this for myself and her, because she wants space.

Is it right of me to do no contact without telling her why i do it?