Husband stopping me from travelling
Is this controlling or abusive? I’m 3 months pregnant and ever since I got pregnant my husband doesn’t want me to travel. My extended family goes camping every summer and this year he doesn’t want me to go. It’s not even far away. I asked him if he wants to go on a babymoon vacation and he says no, pregnant woman shouldn’t travel. My aunt also invited me to her cottage this summer and he doesn’t want me to go.
He isn’t forbidding me from going but he says he would prefer if I didn’t, pregnant woman should be home and resting and comfortable. And that I should have all of my home comforts. I know if I went against his wishes he would get angry about it.
He has been abusive in the past but I thought things were getting better. I’m wondering if this is a red flag.