[discussion] Would it be selfish to stop talking to someone because I can't handle seeing them.
Let me explain.
So basically my whole life I have always thought that I was aromantic, which means I can't feel love, until one day I met a girl that for some reason made me feel different, and knowing that she's also into girls blew my mind, but anyways, I think I actually fell enough for her and it got to the point that whenever I would hear her voice my heart was about beating insanely fast and if someone even mentioned her name, whether they were talking about her or not, I started flushing because I would just think of her, I've told her about this and she's told me that she doesn't feel the same way, but she still wants to be friends, and she has said that she really likes me as a friend, but I don't know if I can be her friend anymore, I really like her and I would love to be just her friend if that's what she wants but, I physically can't, every time I think about her, My heart just, I feel like I'm having a heart attack, I don't know.
What I'm trying to ask is, would it be f\*\*\*\*\* up for me to just stop talking to her because it hurts to talk to her? would it be selfish?