u/InnocentStrength

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One Sunday evening, I went to the park like I usually do every morning and evening for a walk. I sat near the volleyball ground on a chair while some kids were playing volleyball.

After a while, a little boy came and sat beside me. He offered me a Center Fresh and said, “Bhaiya, will you have one?” I smiled and told him to keep it for himself. Then both of us quietly watched the volleyball game for a long time. After that, he went to feed biscuits to a stray dog.

I don’t know why, but these small acts of kindness make my whole day better. That boy was simple, respectful, and kind-hearted. In today’s world, where many kids don’t even respect elders and don’t like sharing anything because of “this is mine, that is yours,” seeing a child like him genuinely made me happy.

But while returning home, I saw another group of kids around the same age loudly abusing each other with horrible mother-sister slurs. Hearing children speak like that made me feel sad. If this is how they talk at such a young age, what will they become when they grow older?

In the same park, I saw two completely different kinds of children.

One respectful and kind.

The other disrespectful and filled with abusive language.

And honestly, it made me think a lot about parenting, environment, and the kind of future we are creating.

Why i post this in sub because this was happened in kanpur and i also live in kanpur

Some people choose their partners based on salary, while others choose based on beauty. Then, when the relationship falls apart, they blame the other person. This applies to both men and women.

But ask yourself honestly did you choose them for their heart, their intentions, their innocence, or their compassion? Or did you mostly value appearance, status, and money?

If your priorities were superficial from the beginning, why are you surprised when the outcome is shallow too?

In life, we often receive what we truly seek. If your desires are rooted in material things, then don’t expect emotional depth in return. But if your intentions are pure and you value goodness, kindness, and character, then the chances of finding something genuine become much higher.

Hey, I’m a 22M looking for a genuine best friend, someone with whom I can build a bond like brother or sister over time. This is strictly platonic.

English or Hindi, both are completely fine for me. I’m open to talking to people from any country, just please mention your age and country while reaching out.

Some of my interests are butterflies, deep-sea creatures, business, tech, fitness, veganism, and learning new things in general.

I really value honesty, compassion, loyalty, and emotional understanding in friendship. I’m also very interested in deep talks and meaningful conversations about life, growth, emotions, ideas, or even random thoughts.

I prefer genuine one-on-one connections over superficial or timepass conversations.

If you’re also looking for a real best friend and think we might vibe, feel free to message me 🤝

Hey, I’m a 22M looking for a genuine best friend, someone with whom I can build a bond like brother or sister over time. This is strictly platonic.

English or Hindi, both are completely fine for me. I’m open to talking to people from any country, just please mention your age and country while reaching out.

Some of my interests are butterflies, deep-sea creatures, business, tech, fitness, veganism, and learning new things in general.

I really value honesty, compassion, loyalty, and emotional understanding in friendship. I’m also very interested in deep talks and meaningful conversations about life, growth, emotions, ideas, or even random thoughts.

I prefer genuine one-on-one connections over superficial or timepass conversations.

If you’re also looking for a real best friend and think we might vibe, feel free to message me 🤝

Hey, I’m a 22M looking for a genuine best friend, someone with whom I can build a bond like brother or sister over time. This is strictly platonic.

English or Hindi, both are completely fine for me. I’m open to talking to people from any country, just please mention your age and country while reaching out.

Some of my interests are butterflies, deep-sea creatures, business, tech, fitness, veganism, and learning new things in general.

I really value honesty, compassion, loyalty, and emotional understanding in friendship. I’m also very interested in deep talks and meaningful conversations about life, growth, emotions, ideas, or even random thoughts.

I prefer genuine one-on-one connections over superficial or timepass conversations.

If you’re also looking for a real best friend and think we might vibe, feel free to message me 🤝

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Hey, I’m a 22M from India looking for something very simple but rare a real best friend.

I’m looking for someone 20+ and any gender is fine. What I want is a bond like brother or sister, something pure, honest, and deeply caring.

To be honest, I’ve never really had a true best friend in my life. So I’m not here for casual chats or timepass. I’m looking for something real, something that actually matters.

I’m a very loyal, caring, and compassionate person, sometimes even extremely, and I value honesty and compassion just as much in return. For me, friendship is not just talking, it’s understanding, consistency, and being there for each other.

I’m comfortable in both English and Hindi, so either language is completely fine.

I also prefer one-on-one connections. If you enjoy being in groups most of the time or just want casual interactions, then this might not be for you.

And one important thing, I’m specifically looking for a best friend. If you’re not looking for that kind of deep and meaningful connection, then it’s better not to reach out.

If you’re someone who values loyalty, honesty, compassion, and genuine connection, and you’re also looking for a real best friend, feel free to message me 🤝

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Hey, I’m a 22M from India looking for something very simple but rare a real best friend.

I’m looking for someone 20+ and any gender is fine. What I want is a bond like brother or sister, something pure, honest, and deeply caring.

To be honest, I’ve never really had a true best friend in my life. So I’m not here for casual chats or timepass. I’m looking for something real, something that actually matters.

I’m a very loyal, caring, and compassionate person, sometimes even extremely, and I value honesty and compassion just as much in return. For me, friendship is not just talking, it’s understanding, consistency, and being there for each other.

I’m comfortable in both English and Hindi, so either language is completely fine.

I also prefer one-on-one connections. If you enjoy being in groups most of the time or just want casual interactions, then this might not be for you.

And one important thing, I’m specifically looking for a best friend. If you’re not looking for that kind of deep and meaningful connection, then it’s better not to reach out.

If you’re someone who values loyalty, honesty, compassion, and genuine connection, and you’re also looking for a real best friend, feel free to message me 🤝

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Hey, I’m a 22M from India looking for something very simple but rare a real best friend.

I’m looking for someone 20+ and any gender is fine. What I want is a bond like brother or sister, something pure, honest, and deeply caring.

To be honest, I’ve never really had a true best friend in my life. So I’m not here for casual chats or timepass. I’m looking for something real, something that actually matters.

I’m a very loyal, caring, and compassionate person, sometimes even extremely, and I value honesty and compassion just as much in return. For me, friendship is not just talking, it’s understanding, consistency, and being there for each other.

I’m comfortable in both English and Hindi, so either language is completely fine.

I also prefer one-on-one connections. If you enjoy being in groups most of the time or just want casual interactions, then this might not be for you.

And one important thing, I’m specifically looking for a best friend. If you’re not looking for that kind of deep and meaningful connection, then it’s better not to reach out.

If you’re someone who values loyalty, honesty, compassion, and genuine connection, and you’re also looking for a real best friend, feel free to message me 🤝

​

Hey, I’m a 22M from India looking for something very simple but rare a real best friend.

I’m looking for someone 20+ and any gender is fine. What I want is a bond like brother or sister, something pure, honest, and deeply caring.

To be honest, I’ve never really had a true best friend in my life. So I’m not here for casual chats or timepass. I’m looking for something real, something that actually matters.

I’m a very loyal, caring, and compassionate person, sometimes even extremely, and I value honesty and compassion just as much in return. For me, friendship is not just talking, it’s understanding, consistency, and being there for each other.

I’m comfortable in both English and Hindi, so either language is completely fine.

I also prefer one-on-one connections. If you enjoy being in groups most of the time or just want casual interactions, then this might not be for you.

And one important thing, I’m specifically looking for a best friend. If you’re not looking for that kind of deep and meaningful connection, then it’s better not to reach out.

If you’re someone who values loyalty, honesty, compassion, and genuine connection, and you’re also looking for a real best friend, feel free to message me 🤝

​

Hey, I’m a 22M from India looking for something very simple but rare a real best friend.

I’m looking for someone 20+ and any gender is fine. What I want is a bond like brother or sister, something pure, honest, and deeply caring.

To be honest, I’ve never really had a true best friend in my life. So I’m not here for casual chats or timepass. I’m looking for something real, something that actually matters.

I’m a very loyal, caring, and compassionate person, sometimes even extremely, and I value honesty and compassion just as much in return. For me, friendship is not just talking, it’s understanding, consistency, and being there for each other.

I’m comfortable in both English and Hindi, so either language is completely fine.

I also prefer one-on-one connections. If you enjoy being in groups most of the time or just want casual interactions, then this might not be for you.

And one important thing, I’m specifically looking for a best friend. If you’re not looking for that kind of deep and meaningful connection, then it’s better not to reach out.

If you’re someone who values loyalty, honesty, compassion, and genuine connection, and you’re also looking for a real best friend, feel free to message me 🤝

​

Hey, I’m a 22M from India looking for something very simple but rare a real best friend.

I’m looking for someone 20+ and any gender is fine. What I want is a bond like brother or sister, something pure, honest, and deeply caring.

To be honest, I’ve never really had a true best friend in my life. So I’m not here for casual chats or timepass. I’m looking for something real, something that actually matters.

I’m a very loyal, caring, and compassionate person, sometimes even extremely, and I value honesty and compassion just as much in return. For me, friendship is not just talking, it’s understanding, consistency, and being there for each other.

I’m comfortable in both English and Hindi, so either language is completely fine.

I also prefer one-on-one connections. If you enjoy being in groups most of the time or just want casual interactions, then this might not be for you.

And one important thing, I’m specifically looking for a best friend. If you’re not looking for that kind of deep and meaningful connection, then it’s better not to reach out.

If you’re someone who values loyalty, honesty, compassion, and genuine connection, and you’re also looking for a real best friend, feel free to message me 🤝

​

Hey, I’m a 22M from India looking for something very simple but rare a real best friend.

I’m looking for someone 20+ and any gender is fine. What I want is a bond like brother or sister, something pure, honest, and deeply caring.

To be honest, I’ve never really had a true best friend in my life. So I’m not here for casual chats or timepass. I’m looking for something real, something that actually matters.

I’m a very loyal, caring, and compassionate person, sometimes even extremely, and I value honesty and compassion just as much in return. For me, friendship is not just talking, it’s understanding, consistency, and being there for each other.

I’m comfortable in both English and Hindi, so either language is completely fine.

I also prefer one-on-one connections. If you enjoy being in groups most of the time or just want casual interactions, then this might not be for you.

And one important thing, I’m specifically looking for a best friend. If you’re not looking for that kind of deep and meaningful connection, then it’s better not to reach out.

If you’re someone who values loyalty, honesty, compassion, and genuine connection, and you’re also looking for a real best friend, feel free to message me 🤝

​

Hey, I’m a 22M from India looking for something very simple but rare a real best friend.

I’m looking for someone 20+ and any gender is fine. What I want is a bond like brother or sister, something pure, honest, and deeply caring.

To be honest, I’ve never really had a true best friend in my life. So I’m not here for casual chats or timepass. I’m looking for something real, something that actually matters.

I’m a very loyal, caring, and compassionate person, sometimes even extremely, and I value honesty and compassion just as much in return. For me, friendship is not just talking it’s understanding, consistency, and being there for each other.

I can speak English, but I feel more comfortable in Hindi, so I’m only looking for someone who prefers Hindi.

I also prefer one-on-one connections. If you enjoy being in groups most of the time or just want casual interactions, then this might not be for you.

And one important thing, I’m specifically looking for a best friend. If you’re not looking for that kind of deep and meaningful connection, then it’s better not to reach out.

If you’re someone who values loyalty, honesty, compassion, and genuine connection, and you’re also looking for a real best friend, feel free to message me 🤝

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Reddit has made me realize something: maybe apps like WhatsApp and Instagram can be trusted because they are end-to-end encrypted but people often cannot be.

Every time I open Reddit, I see someone exposing their boyfriend or girlfriend’s chats. Not even serious issues just normal conversations. Someone expresses their feelings, and instead of handling it privately, it gets turned into a screenshot and posted for attention and validation.

If someone trusted you enough to share something personal, why break that trust? Not everyone is being creepy sometimes people are just being honest and vulnerable.

I’ve seen posts where a girl proposed to a guy and he shared her Instagram chats, with people laughing in the comments. In another case, a guy proposed and the girl posted his WhatsApp screenshot without even hiding his number.

Trust takes time to build, and many people already struggle with it. When someone finally opens up, exposing them publicly is just disappointing.And people like this wonder why genuine connections are so rare.

People who do this don’t deserve genuine friends or partners.

At the very least, respect the trust of someone who loves and cared you.

Please, let’s stop this behavior whether it’s boys or girls. I just hope I never come across people like this here.