r/nofriends

How do I make friends when the majority of ppl around me mainly converse in kannada and I suck at it.

Idk, I’ve been feeling homesick lately. I’m 18, and I don’t go to school that much, which honestly concerns me. I’m really awkward and don’t know how to make friends or, more importantly, how to keep them. It’s my last year of school, and after shifting to a new school after Class 10, I found it really hard to socialize and make new friends.

My boyfriend is concerned too because I basically have no friends. He’s been encouraging me to go out and meet people, and he keeps pushing me to make friends. The thing is, I mostly just like hanging out with him, so I don’t really feel the need to go out with anyone else. But at the same time, I’m worried about myself because having basically zero social friends doesn’t feel healthy, especially when this is my last year of school. (I’m looking for new friends, but creeps, please stay away.) (I'm looking to make more female friends)

Hello. I am looking for a long-lasting friendship. I am looking to have deep and intimate conversations with a friend like you. What I want, no, what I need, is to have a shoulder to lean on.

I am writing this post with you in mind. You, who are seeking to have deep and intimate conversations with someone. You, who are tired of the banality of everyday life, you whose nobody bothers to ask beyond the usual things you are tired of hearing and answering for so long. You, who spend sleepless nights answering the troubling questions of your life. You who would confide in me your world, dreams, and fears, freely and wholeheartedly, and would listen to mine with the same passion and interest. I am writing this post to you: a mature and dependable person who is imperfect just as I am.

Help me become a better person. I need to be pushed sometimes. Sometimes, leaving a pawn to a friend like you could help me go further. I want you to help me understand myself; I need an extra pair of everything to recognize myself. I need you to be patient and understanding with me because I am a profoundly flawed person. Help me dream and see possibilities I can't comprehend now. I want you to know that everything that I am asking of you, I am willing to do for you.

A word or two about me. I am quite an emotional being. I have very few social skills. I am a good listener. I love good books, movies,  strange music, and poetry.

P.S. I am looking to befriend people from Europe, for time's reason, and older than 23. I take pride in being polite and kind to my friends, and we would never meet in person, under any circumstances. Thank you!

I want a friend purely sfw. Is internet only for nsfw? :/
Im struggling with mental health issues n Im going thru a low phase n I want to get back to track where Im not able to do it alone. I got no friends. I would like to have someone whom I can talk on a daily basis about anything even trivial matters. I just want someone to be there

Ever feel alone in this dumb world? Zero friends and my life is dull af! Most interactions I have is with my 3yo…

I am so fckng mad rn, I swear

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!

M22.

A lot of people complain about being "friendzoned" or something of sorts, and I wish it was the case for me. I weirdly get "crushzoned", people sometimes crush on me then abruptly cut me off when I say no.

I've always seen friendship as something special and valuable to be present in your life. I used to have friends and hanging out with them or even talking and having fun together was the best moments of my life. Mutual support, mutual understanding and such are so great. A genuine support system is even better.

I lost all my friends at once one day and ever since I tried to make new friends, it wasn't easy at all. I have SOME criteria that are basically for my safety since I'm 2 minorities at once, it's not too much just don't be racist and homophobic, at least have your heart in it I'll tell you if you say something weird and tell you why it's weird I don't bite. And I was looking regardless of gender or anything else.

I am not "conventionally attractive", I am chubbyish, face has scars from acne, not advancing on my own, just talking to people. Why the fuck people kept crushing on me? I am not negative when people feel this way but I reject them. What makes me truly upset is how they immediately cut me off because they can't bear being friends with me anymore, because romance is "something more" for them.

This really baffles me because to me it's always been just a different vector and not "more". I don't want romance or sex damn I need friends. Why don't people appreciate friendships?

I’ve been living on my own since I was 19, and now I’m 26, yet I still haven’t found those genuine friendships I’ve always wanted.
It feels like people online are interested for a few days, we talk for 2 days, and then suddenly they lose interest and disappear. 🥲 Even joining Discord servers hasn’t really helped.
I’m not looking for anything complicated. I just want someone I can genuinely talk to, share my interests and hobbies with, laugh with, and slowly build a real friendship with. Someone who actually wants to stay and get to know each other beyond the first few conversations.
I know genuine friendships take time, but I really hope I can finally find my people. 🥹💜

Message me on discord: darzie3747

Okay ive done this before and it didnt really work out very well but I'm gonna try it again cause I feel this weird absence in the world that I'm not sure how to feel. I don't talk to a lot of people and have a hard time trying to meet new people to actually become friends with. Mainly just acquaintances and just casual talk. I find it hard to socialize if I have no subjects that can keep a convo going. now enough about how introverted I am, if I wasn't I wouldn't be here lol.

My interests:

Music(All kinds really), games(big on rpg singleplayer but a few multiplayer), fitness (I love trying to become my best self) and I'm in the Army! cool little fun fact about me I guess haha.

I am pretty easy going, I just really want to meet new people and get to know them. I've had a bad experience before from another page like this but I'm willing to try one more time in hopes I can find someone I can eventually become close with.

I'm gonna add some info here cause the rules of making the post more interesting so dont read if you dont want to.

I've struggled a lot with reaching out and meeting new people. Ever since I got back from training it felt like I had no one even with everyone here. Like people couldn't understand. I also completely miss the feeling of being excited to talk to someone new and getting to know them cause all the people in my life now, I hardly talk to and it gets pretty difficult to not feel down in a lack of better words, depressed. I can yap at times and I can keep pretty quiet at other times. I'll get engaged and sometimes I feel like I need space. I wouldn't ever block someone unless I was truly uncomfortable and yes it has happened from a similar page. Its hard to trust the internet to make friends but im gonna give it my best. Thank you.

Talk soon, yours truly, V

well hii to everyone,mine name is Kayla, and it’s nice to meet you all.I turned 43 this year, which still feels a little strange to say out loud. I recently moved into the fourth house I’ve ever bought, this time a little outside the city where I’ve spent most of my adult life.

I’m originally from Germany, but I moved to the United States as a teenager because I was given the opportunity to pursue what I felt was a better and more positive education and overall future than what was available to me back home at that time. I ended up settling in Ohio, and somehow I’ve now been here for almost 30 years. Honestly, I still can’t believe how quickly those years passed. It genuinely feels like I arrived here yesterday, and suddenly an entire chapter of my life has gone by.

One of the biggest blessings in my life has been becoming a mother. I have two wonderful kids, who are currently 8 and 6, and they’ve completely changed the way I look at life. They’re easily one of the most important and meaningful parts of my world.

I also went through a divorce three years ago, so yes, I’m currently single. It took some time to adjust to that chapter of my life, but these days I’m actually grateful for where I am and for the meaningful opportunity to focus on myself, my family, and the things that genuinely make me happy!

As for my personality and interests, I’m honestly someone who can get excited about a ridiculous number of things. I absolutely love food and cooking, and I’ve developed a real appreciation for farming and growing things myself. I’m also a huge gaming fan, I enjoy shopping far more than I probably should, and I love swimming, short walks, yoga, exploring nature, and basically finding excuses to spend time outdoors.

I’ve always had a soft spot for animals too. I love pets, I love helping them, and I could probably stop whatever I’m doing if there’s an animal nearby that wants some attention.

and then there’s my guilty pleasure binge watching anything goofy, popular, entertaining, or completely ridiculous. Sometimes I want something meaningful and thought-provoking, and other times I just want to switch my brain off and enjoy something silly for a few hours.

I guess that’s probably enough of an introduction for now. Those are some of the things that have shaped me and the things that genuinely make me who I am. I’m definitely not perfect, but I try to stay curious, appreciate the little things, keep learning, and enjoy this strange journey we all goes through,wishing you all wonderful and sweet hughs!!!

If anyone down to play mc survival on bedrock js lmk and it cud not be just only an one time play. i need someone play w me frequently. my un is Lilbuva.

My names Ty im from Texas but currently living in st.louis Missouri wich is a change of pace im a 33 year old single dad to 3 kids that are my absolute world im really just looking to make friends to talk to maybe chat with on discord I dont care what we talk about I'm just kinda lonely since my puppy dog cant talk back lol and I only see my kids on weekends

Just posting here and hoping to make some genuine internet friends!

A little about me:
• I’m a Nutrition and Dietetics student
• I’m really into badminton and I’ve also been wanting to try pickleball
• I’m interested in food, nutrition, and learning random things in general
• I have a boyfriend so I’m purely looking for platonic friendships

So yeah, just looking to meet some nice people and hopefully make a few friends along the way.

Deadass bro, how are you guys actually making friends on Discord? I've had this app for two full years now and I genuinely haven't made a single friend. Every time I join a server and just say "hi," it's like I'm talking to a brick wall literally nobody responds.

​And whenever I actually try to join an ongoing conversation, it's always the same thing. Either I get completely ignored like I didn't even type anything, or someone comes in with a genuinely rude reply, bad vibes, or straight up tells me to mind my own business.

​Making online friends is so exhausting. I'm in multiple servers and they're all like this.

I’m a 33 year old female with no one, no friends or family. Iv moved a lot over the years and always find it hard to keep friendships, of course moving doesn’t help. I can’t even pick up my phone to call or text anyone, I have no one to ask how their day has been, no one to go out with.
Is it just me that finds it hard to make new friends at this age? Where do you even go to make friends as an adult? It can’t be just me in this situation.

i romanticize my life even tho it sucks

e.g. i view me isolating myself in my room fixating on my hobbies, spending everyday at school alone or having no one to hang out with as a vibe to cope

now that doesnt work anymore. i wish i had close friends to create memories with. in the future, i won have anything to say about my youth.

i even want to experience some of the bad things of having friends too so that i can be experienced like everyone else

i feel like a complete loser and a backround character in my own life

21 M here, I've been like really isolated for the past few years... i guess especially since covid... tbh i only really have a friend rn who I'm really close with. But there's something in my heart like.. it reveals to me that I actually just don't meet any other new people anymore.. my only friends are the ones that were made like a decade ago as a kid/teenager. I've gotten like really afraid or anxious of meeting new people.. like it's just this new feeling for me.. even though i used to be really good at this stuff too.. but even talking to someone new feels like this new, strange experience like I've done something extraordinary and unbelievable. There are people who i could talk to really comfortably and even make them anxious, now i can't even hold an eye contact with them. Like there's not that same charm anymore. It feels like dead. I really wanna make new friends as well.. something has happened that has isolated me from myself the most.

So, I guess I'll just share some things about myself?

I'm 21 M like I said, I'm into stuff like music (I can share some of my songs if anyone's interested), into philosophy a lot, and yeah a lot of other subjects like science, space and whatnot.. sports, fitness, relationships.... Idk .. I love discussing about religion as well.. I can't really explain stuff about myself but u get the idea of what kinda person I am ig.

I actually don't wanna type anything anymore.. just hit me up already!