r/nofriends

I have had no friends my entire life and am 29. I have nothing to do all day because every job rejects me. I have sent thousands of applications over the past three years. I’ve also tried to make friends with hundreds of people (tens of thousands including online) and am always rejected.

I especially never find anyone who is depressed and lonely like me. And at the least, serious and somber. It is valid to have that as a personality type and want to talk about serious and somber things in a serious and somber tone. Why is it so impossible for me even when I see people like this with friends? They reject me too.

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I already know the topic might be hilarious, I'm living in a society where in my view no one cares about me, even a bit.

I'm an architecture student in the 8th semester, fourth year, kindhearted, and an introvert who wants to be an extrovert but rarely I goof without having a bad purpose for them, (not anymore)

My favorites are: Memes, anime and movies, and mostly video games, but I can't find people to become friends with...

Some of my old friends got a girlfriend, my sister got a boyfriend, and the only thing I got are discord friends who some of them blocked me and some of them which I can count with 1 hand and I didn't meet them irl.

It's so painful you can't get any friends even not gf, im now going to conclude that I'm better off alone, just like Shrek.

But before I lose my hope, is there any way to at least find a social group to befriend with?