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After making the order I received the discount code for friend which I think should have been applied for me as well as a new customer, is there anyway they can give me discount on my current order?

Please bear with me if it gets long.

So, I met her in flight from Dubai to Karachi after completing my first six months in Dubai in 2023 and excited to see my family first time after coming here and prepared a surprise visit for them (Instagram style). She came from Abu dhabi to Dubai to take the same flight as me, maybe it was written for us to meet in divine books.

She was traveling alone acquiring the window seat while I acquired the middle one. I was all excited and energetic in my Dubai blings era where your confidence levels are on mountains peak.

I introduced my self to her and during the whole flight we kept talking generally where I found out she works in HR Admin related field in a multinational corporation so I immediately took her number in order to stay in touch for opportunities but she might have already started to like me because

Very next day she messaged me to ask about how the surprise went and all while she also sent me her sister’s wedding pictures as she was traveling for her sister’s wedding and oh you people! she was looking gorgeous (even more than that). I also obliged and sent her the video of my surprise entry which my friend recorded.

Throughout this Karachi trip, we kept engaging in conversation about general things and she kept sending me pictures of her events and taking extra interest in my family which made me think she is interested in me.

Upon coming back to UAE she became more direct like fancying us as husband and wife to travel together alone
(we were discussing about places we like so I said I want to travel Northern Pakistan as I’ve never been there, ap chalengi? She said uske liye to hamay shadi karni padegi warna mere parents to kabhi bhi allow nahi karenge) and I got my answer of her expectations from me so I immediately proposed her. She was so happy as we got into romantic relationship.
(Remember I had never been in any relationship before and earlier I was in one sided love with a girl for 8 years, she got married and always kept me in friend-zone and only reached out to me whenever she has no one else or if there’s some university project difficulties as no other university mates liked her, the only dumbass available was yours truly.)

However after one year things started to get ugly and we used to have disagreements and arguments over small things and I now realizes that I was making the fuss of everything and trying to dominate her or became egoistic in simple words.
(I always behave emotionless because if I become too attached or emotional for or with someone I know I would harm myself appallingly)

Later, I took break of 7 days to think of our future and I broke up with her after a week respectfully, while she cried and pleaded still I was firm and told her we should call it off and hung up the call again respectfully and blocked her everywhere except linkedin and cellular/sim as she insisted.

She kept sending me messages on LinkedIn like I could not value your love and sending me picture of monkey which I won in 1 dirham vending machine game for her and paid 40 dirhams to send her via emirates post, anyhow, I read it all but never replied to them

After a week of that she kept calling me during office hours rigorously so I attended one call as phone was ringing repeatedly, upon attending it I only heard crying non stop and pleading me to take her back and even ready to accept whatever my terms were
(like getting married sooner as previously she wanted to marry no less than 5 years as she needs to support her family, her brother was in university and she was financing his studies and supporting all other family members including parents as well). However I didn’t listen to her and kept telling her we are not meant to be together as we are poles apart and we both share the different opinions for everything and I am a desi kind of boy who can not detach myself from Pakistan and sooner or later wants to live in Pakistan with my parents while she hated Pakistan because she was brought up in Gulf and used to of everything perfect. So I hung up her call respectfully but without positive answer she was expecting.

Time kept passing, while I used to miss her but still kept my composure to never contact her because I knew she will take me back but after sometime things will get ugly again because of our fundamental differences and being a logical person I preferred to choose brain over heart.

After a year, I saw she had removed me from her Linkedin. After two years during the war in UAE, I then messaged to her first time on LinkedIn. She saw it and blocked me while she had already blocked me on WhatsApp long back when I was seeing her dp and mistakenly pressed call button.

And yesterday, I saw her instagram profile randomly and saw her dp in bridal dress with her husband. Man, it shattered me and I woke up to realization what I have lost and cried so hard first time for her and messaged her (tried hard to not message and miserably failed) to accept my mistakes and wish her a good life.

Woke up in the morning to see she has seen the message but blocked me which I guess is the best reply she could give me and I deserved it.

Thank you for bearing with me till last.

Bear with me if it gets long.

So I met this girl on flight from Dubai to Karachi after completing my first six months in Dubai in 2022 and excited to see my family first time after coming here and prepared to surprise them at the time of fajr and this girl came from Abu dhabi to Dubai to catch the flight instead of Etihad, maybe it was written for us both to meet.

She was traveling alone had the window seat I had the middle seat. I was all excited and energetic and in my Dubai blings era where your confidence levels are on peak.

I said hi to her and during the whole flight tried to engage with her in normal conversation and found out she works in HR related and immediately took her no in order to stay in touch for opportunities but she might have already started to like me because

Very next day she would message me and ask about how the surprise went and even before that she sent me her sister wedding pictures as she was traveling for her sister wedding and oh man she was looking beautiful and I also obliged and sent her video which my friend captured who picked me up at airport.

We kept talking and she kept sending me pictures of her events and kept taking interest in my family which made me sure she is interested in me and after reaching UAE she became more direct like fancying us as husband wife to travel together alone and I obliged to it and proposed her and she was so happy and we got in the relationship. (Remember I had never been in relationships before and earlier was in one sided love with a girl for 8 years and she got married and never took me more than a friend.)

However after one year things started to get ugly and we started to have arguments over small things and I now realizes that I was making the fuss of everything and trying to dominate her or became egoistic in simple words.

Later, I broke up with her and she cried and pleaded still I was firm and told her we should end it and hung up the last call and blocked her everywhere but linkedin and cell
Phone as she insisted.

She kept sending me messages there and I read it but never replied and then got call from her after a week or so and attended one call as phone was ringing repeatedly and she was crying again massively and heavily pleading me to take her back and even ready accept whatever my terms were (like getting married sooner as previously she wanted to marry no less than 5 years as she needs to support her family, brother was in NED and she was financing his studies and other stuffs). However I didn’t listen to her and kept telling her we are not meant to be together as we are poles apart and shut her call respectfully but without positive answer she was expecting.

Time kept passing and I started to miss her but still kept my composure to never contact her maybe I had the ego and after a year I saw she has removed me from her Linkedin after two years during the war I then messaged to her first time on LinkedIn to which she blocked my user first time before she already blocked my user on whatsapp

And yesterday I saw her instagram user randomly and saw her dp in married dress with her husband and it shattered me then I realized what I have lost and cried so hard first time for her and messaged her to accept my mistakes and wish her good life.

Woke up in the morning to see she has seen the message but blocked my user which I guess is the best reply she could give me and I deserved it.

Thank you very much.