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I learned I’m bisexual, and I want to share who I am

Hi everyone. I’m 21, and I learned something important about myself. I found out that I am bisexual. It took me a long time to understand this, and I want to share more about who I am and how I got here.

I am a kind person. I care a lot about people. I like calm days, simple things, and being gentle with others. I don’t like drama. I like real moments and honest feelings. I try to be patient and understanding. That is just how my heart works.

For a long time, I didn’t know why I felt the way I did. I liked boys, but I also liked girls. I would feel warm and happy around both, and I didn’t know what that meant. I thought something was wrong with me. I tried to push the feelings away, but they always came back.

Now I know the truth: I am bisexual. It means I can love more than one kind of person. It means my heart is open in a way I didn’t understand before. And that’s okay. It’s not scary anymore. It feels like I finally said the real thing out loud.

I am still me. I still like being creative. I still like helping people. I still like soft, peaceful moments. Being bi doesn’t change any of that. It just explains a part of me that I didn’t have words for before.

I wanted to share this here because I know some of you have felt this too. Maybe you learned it later. Maybe you were scared to say it. Maybe you felt alone. I did too. But now I feel lighter. I feel like I’m finally telling the truth about myself.

If you went through something like this, I would like to hear your story. It helps to know I’m not the only one.

Thank you for reading. It means a lot to me.

u/IzaacsSpecialCorner — 1 day ago

I learned I’m bisexual, and I want to share who I am

Hi everyone. I’m 21, and I learned something important about myself. I found out that I am bisexual. It took me a long time to understand this, and I want to share more about who I am and how I got here.

I am a kind person. I care a lot about people. I like calm days, simple things, and being gentle with others. I don’t like drama. I like real moments and honest feelings. I try to be patient and understanding. That is just how my heart works.

For a long time, I didn’t know why I felt the way I did. I liked boys, but I also liked girls. I would feel warm and happy around both, and I didn’t know what that meant. I thought something was wrong with me. I tried to push the feelings away, but they always came back.

Now I know the truth: I am bisexual. It means I can love more than one kind of person. It means my heart is open in a way I didn’t understand before. And that’s okay. It’s not scary anymore. It feels like I finally said the real thing out loud.

I am still me. I still like being creative. I still like helping people. I still like soft, peaceful moments. Being bi doesn’t change any of that. It just explains a part of me that I didn’t have words for before.

I wanted to share this here because I know some of you have felt this too. Maybe you learned it later. Maybe you were scared to say it. Maybe you felt alone. I did too. But now I feel lighter. I feel like I’m finally telling the truth about myself.

If you went through something like this, I would like to hear your story. It helps to know I’m not the only one.

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u/IzaacsSpecialCorner — 1 day ago

Introduction because I’m new here

Hi! My name is Izaac, 21, autistic. I live in Wisconsin, USA. I like taking photos, writing, and having calm, kind conversations. I enjoy helping people when they’re going through tough times and being someone they can talk to.

I would love to hear about your day, your hobbies, or something small that made you smile. I’m a friendly person, and I like making others feel safe and welcome.

u/IzaacsSpecialCorner — 1 day ago

Trying to Date as an Autistic Christian young adult my experience

I have never actually been in a relationship before, but I have tried to date, and trying has been its own experience. As an autistic Christian young adult, I am just looking for something real and kind. I am not into drama or games. I just want someone who communicates clearly and loves God. But every time I try to talk to someone or get to know them, things change the moment autism comes up.

A lot of people shut down right away. Some have even told me they will not date an autistic person, like autism automatically makes someone unworthy of love. I have also been told things like autistic people cannot love, autistic people do not feel emotions, or that I am too much work. Hearing stuff like that is painful because it is not true. It is just people being ignorant and not wanting to understand anything outside their comfort zone.

Being autistic means I communicate differently, not worse. I am honest, loyal, and I feel things deeply. I care about people in a real way. I do not lie, I do not play games, and I do not pretend to be someone I am not. But a lot of people seem to want mystery or emotional chaos, and that is just not me. I want something steady, patient, and real, and sometimes that makes me feel out of place in the dating world.

Adding faith into it makes things even more unique. I want a relationship built on patience, kindness, and Gods love. I want someone who values communication and forgiveness. But not everyone understands what it is like to be both autistic and Christian. Some people think it makes me too much, when really it just means I love deeply and try to live with purpose.

I know I have not dated yet, but I have experienced rejection, judgment, and misunderstanding over and over. That is part of the dating journey too. I am still hopeful though. I believe there is someone out there who will not see autism as a warning sign, but as part of who I am. Someone who will appreciate honesty, gentleness, and faith instead of running from it.

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u/IzaacsSpecialCorner — 1 day ago

My Thoughts on Abortion as a Christian

I am a Christian and I want to talk about abortion but maybe not in the way you expect.I am not here to win an argument. I am not here to throw Bible verses like stones. I am not here to shame anyone or pretend I know every story. I am just here as a human being who loves Jesus and is trying to understand how to hold truth and compassion in the same pair of hands.Growing up I was taught simple answers. “It is wrong.” “It is murder.” “End of discussion.”But life has a way of humbling you.

Life introduces you to people who carry pain you have never had to carry. Life shows you situations you never imagined. Life forces you to realize that the world is not black and white it is people. It is stories. It is tears. It is fear. It is hope. It is survival.And somewhere in the middle of all that I found myself asking:What does it really mean to follow Jesus hereNot the political Jesus.
Not the culture war Jesus.
Not the “my side versus your side” Jesus.I mean the Jesus who knelt in the dirt with the woman everyone else wanted to stone.
The Jesus who touched the people society avoided.

The Jesus who saw the person before the sin the heart before the headline the story before the judgment.And when I look at Him really look I realize something that changed me:Jesus never once used shame as a tool.He did not weaponize Scripture.
He did not humiliate people into holiness.
He did not turn hurting people into political talking points.He led with compassion.
He led with presence.
He led with understanding.So here is where I stand today as honestly as I can say it:I believe life is sacred.

Not because a pastor told me.
Not because a party told me.
Not because I want to control anyone.I believe life is sacred because I have felt the weight of it the miracle of it in my own chest.But I also believe this:A person facing an impossible decision deserves more than a slogan. They deserve love. They deserve gentleness. They deserve someone who will sit with them in the mess instead of shouting at them from a distance.I have met women who made the choice.

I have met women who did not.
I have met women who regret it.
I have met women who do not.And you know what I learnedEvery single one of them needed compassion more than condemnation.Every single one needed someone to say “I am here. I am listening. I am not running away.”And if I am going to call myself a Christian then I have to be that person.Not the loudest voice.
Not the harshest voice.
Not the “I have all the answers” voice.Just the loving one.Because at the end of the day I do not think Jesus is going to ask me“Did you win the argument”I think He is going to ask“Did you love them”And I want my answer to be yes.Even when it is complicated.
Even when I do not know what to say.
Even when I disagree.Love is still the command.And if I am wrong I would rather be wrong for loving too much than for loving too little.So these are my thoughts not perfect not polished not political.Just honest.
Just human.

Just trying to follow Jesus the best I can.And if you are reading this and you have been hurt by Christians or judged by them or pushed away by themI am sorry. Truly.You deserved better.You still do.And I hope somehow in some small way this post gives you a little piece of the gentleness you should have been shown from the start.

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u/IzaacsSpecialCorner — 1 day ago

[21] M Wisconsin USA

Hey everyone, I am Izaac. I am 21 and I work at Kwik Trip in a special needs retail helper position. I am autistic and that shapes how I see the world in a slower softer and more detailed way. I notice little things other people walk past. I care deeply about being kind helpful and steady. I love photography because it lets me capture moments the way I see them. I love going to church because it keeps me grounded. And I love learning more about my faith because it helps me understand who I am becoming.

My faith journey has not been perfect. I have had seasons where I drifted where life felt confusing and where I did not know what God was doing. And then I have had moments where He pulled me back in ways I did not expect. I am still learning how to trust Him how to grow and how to become the man He wants me to be. I am not trying to pretend I have everything figured out. I am just trying to walk forward with honesty and hope.

I have done long distance before. It ended because she used me and that hurt more than I expected. But I am still open to long distance with the right person. Someone who actually wants to build something real not someone who takes advantage of my kindness.

I am looking for a girl between 18 and 23 who is patient kind honest and loves God. Someone who communicates clearly especially because I am autistic and I do not always pick up hints or hidden meanings. I want someone who enjoys simple moments like walks talking about life praying together laughing about small things and just being present. I want someone who values loyalty and does not bring drama. I am not perfect but I am real and I want someone real too. Someone who will not judge me for my autism but will see it as part of who I am not something wrong with me.

u/IzaacsSpecialCorner — 2 days ago

[21] M Wisconsin USA

I’m Izaac. I’m 21 and I work at Kwik Trip as a retail helper in a special‑needs position. I have autism, and it helps me see the world in a unique and detailed way. I enjoy photography, going to church, and learning more about my faith. I try to be kind, and helpful in everything I do.

My faith has grown through ups and downs. I’ve had moments where I drifted and moments where God pulled me back. I’m not perfect, but I’m learning to trust Him more and become the man He wants me to be

I’m open to long distance I done it before but ended it bc she used me

I’m looking for someone who is between ages of 18-23 patient, kind, and honest. Someone who understands that I’m autistic and communicates clearly. I want a girl who loves God, enjoys simple moments, and values loyalty. I’m not into drama just real connection, trust, and someone who wants to grow together. And won’t judge me for my autism

u/IzaacsSpecialCorner — 2 days ago

I’m Izaac. I’m 21 and I work at Kwik Trip as a retail helper in a special‑needs position. I have autism, and it helps me see the world in a unique and detailed way. I enjoy photography, going to church, and learning more about my faith. I try to be kind, and helpful in everything I do.

My faith has grown through ups and downs. I’ve had moments where I drifted and moments where God pulled me back. I’m not perfect, but I’m learning to trust Him more and become the man He wants me to be

I’m open to long distance I done it before but ended it bc she used me

I’m looking for someone who is between ages of 18-23 patient, kind, and honest. Someone who understands that I’m autistic and communicates clearly. I want a girl who loves God, enjoys simple moments, and values loyalty. I’m not into drama just real connection, trust, and someone who wants to grow together. And won’t judge me for my autism

u/IzaacsSpecialCorner — 19 days ago

I’m Izaac. I’m 21 and I work at Kwik Trip as a retail helper in a special‑needs position. I have autism, and it helps me see the world in a unique and detailed way. I enjoy photography, going to church, and learning more about my faith. I try to be kind, and helpful in everything I do.

My faith has grown through ups and downs. I’ve had moments where I drifted and moments where God pulled me back. I’m not perfect, but I’m learning to trust Him more and become the man He wants me to be

I’m open to long distance I done it before but ended it bc she used me

I’m looking for someone who is between ages of 18-23 patient, kind, and honest. Someone who understands that I’m autistic and communicates clearly. I want a girl who loves God, enjoys simple moments, and values loyalty. I’m not into drama just real connection, trust, and someone who wants to grow together. And won’t judge me for my autism

u/IzaacsSpecialCorner — 25 days ago

I’m Izaac. I’m 21 and autistic, and I see the world in a calm, detailed way that helps me notice things other people miss. My faith guides how I live, how I create, and how I treat people, and I try to show God’s love through the things I make and the way I act. People say I’m sweet, caring, and helpful, and I try to live up to that every day. I can’t drive, but I still stay independent and responsible in my own way. I like adding humor and lightness to life, because it helps me stay grounded and real. I’m also hoping to find a loyal friend someone honest, kind, and steady and maybe, if it’s right, something more in the future.

u/IzaacsSpecialCorner — 25 days ago