Today SaNa posted a reel mocking the current unplugged version trend, which feels like an indirect dig at Sai Abhyankkar and his recent unplugged releases. His friend and fellow composer Sean Roldan also commented on the reel. Now Sai’s dad Tippu has posted a reel that feels like a direct response to Sana’s post. Is there actually something going on between Sana and Sai?
Seeing this red dot kind of irritates me. How to disable this?
My and my gf are in a relationship from 11th grade(from 2019). We both were in same school. I did my ug in cbe and she did in chennai. There were many fights between us because of long distance. I felt she was prioritizing her friends over me. I didn't have any friends in college and I became very much emotionally dependent on her. She kept ignoring me,I became so controlling and toxic. She said she can't continue this and broke up in 2023.
After few months she apologized for not putting efforts in this relationship and we patched up. Things were smooth from then, we used to meet once in two or three months. We used to have small misunderstanding and fights but it will be solved in a day. Last year around july she met with an accident that caused a light scar in her face. While casually talking I made fun of that. I know that hurt her and I apologized right there. From then she's not showing that much intent in this relationship. We went on no contact for months. I'll have the urge to talk to her but when I do her dry responses hurt me even more. During last year end I texted her with the intent of breaking up, she said she doesn't want to end this relationship, she got an internship in chennai and waited for new year to reveal this to me, also she said she'll come to coimbatore in feb 2026 one day(im working in cbe), we'll go for a date and so on..till then we'll be in no contact. I thought everything was fine. Waiting till march end, she didn't come to cbe,not even a text from her side. When I asked she said leaves aren't given in internships. At last she came to cbe in may. It was a very cute day. We went shopping, movie, cafe and dinner. I never felt this happy in past few years. But right after that day she started giving dry responses saying she needs some more time. I asked is there any problem or negatives about me. She replied there's nothing like that she loves me but she needs some time without relationship.
Last month I went to chennai for some work purpose. I didn't tell her that I'm coming, around eve I reached her place, she looked happy. We went out for shopping and dinner we spoke about what's going on in our relationship. She kept repeating she needs time, she needs to be alone but she loves me and will marry me. I said im going through a lot and this is like mental torture. She said she can understand all but she can't do anything but ask me to wait. She said it wont take years wait for few more time, she'll speak normally but not in way like a relationship.
Whenever I try texting her in a normal way she gives dry replies that irritates me and she keeps saying she is talking normally. She talks like everything is perfect one day and the next day she starts ghosting. I've been dealing this for more than 3 months. Not sure what to do. Please help me on what should I do