u/Jollyho94

Since VIE came out last year I knew it was only going to be apperiated by mature Doja fans. I’ve been mad that Vie wasnt getting love on this sub & on the charts in general. So i go on a first date with a guy last night were both 32 and he’s only heard dojas big hits like say so, moo, kiss me more but I finally let him listen to scarlet and vie . He only liked a few songs on scarlet and said “she has too much talent to be having such goofy rap lyrics” . Once I put on VIE he was dancing to the beat on Cards, couples therapy, happy, stranger & said “this one is way better I hope she plays more of these songs on tour its way more relaxing to listen too”. He was happy to know VIE was the main focus on this tour and was shocked to know this album did so poorly on the charts. So the people who said most non doja fans wouldnt like VIE were wrong!! Anyways im happy I found a concert date 💃🏽

I know theres plenty of childfree women who have no desire to get married . But as a woman in my 30s who had to end a serious relationship because my ex refused to propose to me. Due to him not seeing the point of marrying me without having kids and he was more mad at me for changing my mind about having kids instead of the fact that i have chronic illnesses and endometriosis that would make having kids way more painful. I still desire marriage I look at childfree married couples online and long for a man that would marry me without demanding a baby out of me. Ive matched with men on hinge who say “well if you dont want kids whats the point of wanting to be married”. Even my own mom says ‘why rush to find a husband if you dont want kids anymore if you get married your husband might expect kids at some point regardless”…Anyone else go through this type of judgment for wanting marriage still despite not wanting kids?!!! it drives me nuts im still allowed to want a life partner 😑

I always feel sad this time of year when summer is coming to an end ITS SUMMER UNTIL September 21st btw thats why its still nicely hot/warm out!. I think fall is the most overrated season of them all and everyone is told to like it online and its depressing af . It starts getting dark at 4:30 /5:00pm towards the end of fall. The leaves are only pretty for one month then they start dying the weather dips down dramatically and makes you get a cold/flu way quicker and all the holidays like halloween and thanksgiving are corny are wasted holidays that are only fun if you have a big family or a partner. I think people are shoving fall love down our throats because summer used to be the most popular season and all the fall babies are trying to won up us summer cancer babies!!. Summer and spring will always be the superior seasons and I hate to see the warm/hot weather and extra sunlight go!! Plus my seaonsal depression is horrible during fall and winter any other cancer hate fall /winter too?? I cant be the only one who feels like the love of fall is FORCED!!!

So I just got out of a relationship 4 months ago with a man who refused to propose to me because I changed my mind about wanting kids and I have endometriosis. So this was my first date since the breakup I matched with a guy on hinge. On his profile he said he “wants kids” mind you he liked my profile first even though I said “dont want kids” on mine. We talk on the phone & I asked him if he was serious about wanting kids and he said “maybe idk the world is scary to raise kids in”. I flat out on the phone told him due to my past relationship & health issues I dont want kids & he still agreed to go out with me. We’re talking at the resturant and he has the nerve to say “I dont want to be in a relationship with a woman where kids arent on the table I need a woman whos open to kids are you sure your not letting your ex win by refusing to have kids” SMH I said its more than just my ex I have endo and other health issues I dont want to past down to any child. He looks at me with this disgusted look & says “Well we can be friends and bang when you get bored but I cant see you in a romantic way because of your issues with kids” I got up and left he kept calling me i blocked him like why tf should i settle for “friendship” like that since i dont want kids smh were both in our 30s am i overreacting ? but isnt this gross of him?

Soo im one of the few people of the fandom who loves VIE. It reminds me of a retro remix of her Amala album which is one of my favorite albums from her. VIE is my top 3 favorite doja albums I think she made her voice sound smooth like butter. But online I see nothing but hate for the VIE album and some people not even knowing it exists. People acting like it doesnt exist and just want scarlet era back. Its high key insulting that doja wrote this whole album just for people to act like it doesnt exist and just want “scarlet back”. It seems like people dont take VIE seriously and when someone defends the VIE album/era they’re made fun of by people who only like her older albums . I just wonder if doja never released VIE would people be clowning her talent this hard its sad because everyone used to praise dojas talent now people dont even take her current album seriously. Im kind of scared that she wont be able to make a mainstream “comeback” after VIE am I being too extreme or do you get what im saying??

Soo im planning on seeing Doja this Fall on her VIE tour and the guy I matched with has only heard a few of Dojas songs like Mooo, Say so, Kiss me more, Paint the town red and hasnt heard her “deep cuts”. He said he wants to be more prepared for her concert and to send me her best songs. If you were in my shoes which songs would you send a crush to convince them to go with you to the VIE Tour?? I have sooo many doja favorites Its hard to make a cohesive list lol

Megan thee stallion annonced that shes about to drop her ACT 3 album and even admitted theres some collabs that are long overdue that she’ll add for her album. I have a feeling doja could be the “long overdue collab’ shes talking about and there was a rumor a few months ago that doja and megan were working on a song together. Even a producer who was working with megan was asking for beats for doja last month. At this point if megan refuses to collab with doja i think theres some secret beef because we saw how great they collabed with ariana grande 5 years ago… I know megan’s die hard fans arent fans of doja i’ve seen on their sub the weird awful things they say whenever doja is mentioned I hope megan isnt listening to them so what do ya’ll think??