Self explanatory really, any cool events/ideas for this weekend? Would appreciate it, I’m down in London Saturday morning. I don’t drink so as much as I’d love to sit in a beer garden all day, that can’t happen so anything else to keep my occupied would be good
I saw a post earlier about sex in prison and it’s something I used to get asked a lot about by my gay friends. I got sent to prison in the UK in 2012, with a sentence of just under 5 years, I wasn’t out at the time and was sentenced as part of a drugs/gang conspiracy with 9 of my co-defendant.
Prison is a hyper masculine environment and I’m really not turned on by that kind of energy at all, I guess there’s a lot of similar people to me and my friends and I just don’t find that attractive. Things I did see though, the Vietnamese are randy fuckers, I know a couple of occasions they were caught in bed with eachother or other people. I once had a pad mate who was constantly wanking too on a night when he thought I was asleep, he was one of my codefendants and a good mate so it was abit awkward to be honest but I had to tell him to stop in the end. One of the main players in our drugs conspiracy was a prominent member of the gypsy community and he was out and gay, I always looked up to him on the street but now I just see him as a predator but I know he got a lot of action with some of the younger more vulnerable cons in the prison.
I was actually seeing someone before I went to prison too which was hard, he came to see me once which was a funny experience as he was noticeably abit more stereotypically gay so he had to pretend to be straight for the visit. This was about 6 months after I got sentenced and honestly, just from the conversation alone, I’d never ever been hornier than at the end of that visit, I had to tell him not to bother coming again, was torture
Overall though, it doesn’t happen quite as much as people might think, prison rape is extremely rare, if anybody did that to somebody they’re known as a nonce and would be severely dealt with by both the authorities and prisoners. Happy to answer any questions though on the matter if people find it interesting
It all started with gastritis 2 years ago, I kinda feel like my constant under left gastritis pain has gone now but it’s left me with constant Bristol 1 poos. Would this normally cause pain in your intestines as these pass through? I often feel my top left abdomen always feels worse when I’m bloating, I sometimes get a sharp pain in upper right quandrant aswell. I’m wondering if the constipation can cause pain in your colon along with all the bloating and maybe trapping gas?
I’ve posted here numerous times over the years, I guess it’s been a little like therapy as I never get to speak to people in my day to day life about my past.
When I was younger I got involved in criminality, I was in a world of selling drugs and gang violence which looking back was horrendous but it was all I’d ever known. After receiving a 4 year prison sentence in August 2012, I finally sorted myself out, came out as gay and spoke with some councillors about how being gay but existing in this hyper masculine environment has been causing me massive amounts of stress for years which manifests in violence. Long story short, I got out of prison, lived a crime free life, set up an amazing business and married my amazing husband.
Last Tuesday I drank alcohol to the first time in 4 years at a birthday party, I have no idea why and I was so drunk, I ended up in a gay bar and some straight guy said something homophobic to this feminine lad and I assaulted him, I got arrested for ABH but thankfully it was dropped to common assault but I’m so disappointed with myself, I was in a cell for 23 hours, my family and husband didn’t know where I was and it just reminded me of a life I’d forgotten about. Anyway was abit of a rant and I’ve got to try and get my head straight again
I don’t know what my symptoms are really, I get the bloating, constipation, pains in my upper left but I get confused with if that’s trapped gas or gastritis pain. I feel like it always feels worse when my bloatings worse. Do you guys ever feel worse when sat down working at a laptop too?
I’m a native English speaker looking for recommendations. I try to keep an eye out on new foreign language films but it’s mostly films that are getting lots of recognition (Oscar noms etc) but wondered if you’d seen anything recently (last 3/4 years) that’s worth watching? Open on genre!
I’m on cloud 9 a little bit at the moment, absolutely love this side and so happy for Farke (even if I have been very negative at times). Where do we even improve next year? I think Aaronson is the obvious, maybe another CM to improve on tanaka? Replacing anyone else would feel harsh atm but I know it needs to happen. This might be the strongest position we’ve ever been in! I know the 49ers have been frustrating especially in January windows but they’ve been excellent with their transfers in my opinion, so excited to see how they improve on an already strong squad