Ive tried it so many times and failed for yeaaars! I’ve ruined so many towels in my lifetime with bleach but I finally mastered it. I wanted to be the smoothest seal this summer and hate wasting an hour shaving. I DID IT. I CAN USE NAIR!!!
It’s also not as stinky as it used to be I can’t lie..
He likes when I dress up but I told him I dont like dressing up just to sit at home and play video games, even if its with him.
It was a little fight but today he told me to dress up and he’ll make it worth it. I trusted it, and it was so sweet. He made a picnic set-up in his backyard outside with my favourite song on the speaker and roses waiting for me.
I love him so much he’s such a sweet man I’m forever grateful for. Neither of us have vehicles so its hard to go to restaurants, but this was so much nicer ❤️❤️
IM SO EMBARRASSED AND WANT TO CRY.
I have horrible social anxiety since forever. I also have adhd so I smoke pot to sleep. his parents always want to hang out with me while I’m high by accident but I hate being high around others.
Every-time we drink at his house his parents drink with us and tell me they like me but I’m too quiet. I feel so horrible but I’m genuinely so awful and socializing it makes me want to reverse time or die inside.
Tonight my boyfriend went to the bar with his friends and I stayed at his place so I could walk to work tomorrow. Im getting ready to bed and smoking, then his dad comes and asks me to watch hockey with them.
I. SAID. NO.
He sounded so disappointed and told his mom, I know he’s gonna tell my boyfriend and I’m just genuinely so embarrassed and ashamed.
TL;DR : I said no to watching hockey with my boyfriend’s parents because I can’t be high around people
I (F19) and my boyfriend (M19) keep getting in this same argument over him wanting me to dress up more for him.
I absolutely love fashion and everything revolving it, including clothes, hair, nails, and makeup. It takes me hours to get ready and I enjoy doing it.
Of course I want to look good for my boyfriend, but usually because it’s just me going to his house, he gets excited seeing me all cute and ends up ruining it. As soon as I get there, in my words I call it “fucking it off”. I understand he really appreciates it but I get upset when all my work is removed and ruined as soon as I get there, so I usually put a more basic outfit/makeup style on.
Obviously with my friends/family the look will last till I get back home so I don’t mind spending more time into looking good. I practiced foundation today and immediately after my friend wanted to hang out.
I sent a picture of my makeup and sent it to my boyfriend since I was proud, but tonight when we called he told me he’s upset that I don’t put in the same effort. I have explained why I don’t yet he still doesn’t understand.
I’m mostly asking so people can help me justify this since I have a hard time explaining it, or someone can be painfully honest. Usually when I give any explanation he says “I’m just not worth it to you then” “Why do you need to go out to get all dolled up? its not for others”
I feel like he’s wrong but I can’t give a good explanation so maybe that means my logic is flawed.
Am I the asshole for putting in less effort when I know my effort will only last ten minutes or just sitting in his house?
I (F19) and my boyfriend (M19) keep getting in this same argument over him wanting me to dress up more for him.
I absolutely love fashion and everything revolving it, including clothes, hair, nails, and makeup. It takes me hours to get ready and I enjoy doing it.
Of course I want to look good for my boyfriend, but usually because it’s just me going to his house, he gets excited seeing me all cute and ends up ruining it. As soon as I get there, in my words I call it “fucking it off”. I understand he really appreciates it but I get upset when all my work is removed and ruined as soon as I get there, so I usually put a more basic outfit/makeup style on.
Obviously with my friends/family the look will last till I get back home so I don’t mind spending more time into looking good. I practiced foundation today and immediately after my friend wanted to hang out.
I sent a picture of my makeup and sent it to my boyfriend since I was proud, but tonight when we called he told me he’s upset that I don’t put in the same effort. I have explained why I don’t yet he still doesn’t understand.
Am I the asshole for putting in less effort when I know my effort will only last ten minutes?