u/KeepingUpWithCrap

2 years of push and pull. I maybe had one month in those 2 years where she was sure about it. Everything else, was a flip-flopping between affection and periods of being cold. But I loved her, and accepted that’s who she is.

We had a disagreement over something about 2 months ago, and she said some really mean things. I ended up cancelling a planned trip over it as she never apologized. And in the moment, she was very upset about my cancellation of the trip.

I told her about my hurt. She claims she has been going to therapy for her avoidant issues, but doesn’t show whatever she is working on with action. Called it quits yesterday!

Made protein-heavy chocolate and mango ice-creams as my first meal of the mourning period.